Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Canon]

Personally, I don't feel that women are a good judge of what makes women visually attractive TO MEN.

And this doubles up when women try to show an individual man "attractive" traits - like her great career and paid for house and car.

I feel like this is a defense for single women for there problems finding a boyfriend/husband

sure there is no one out there who you find attractive

 

[Ahadi]

I feel like this is a defense for single women for there problems finding a boyfriend/husband

sure there is no one out there who you find attractive

Blinded by IG filters & photoshop. Can’t tell the difference.

I’ve met a few joints that have said the same thing

 

[DJSmooth]

women want to chase and feel like they won you over if they like you. the more interest you show and the more you do for them without them earning it the less respect they have for you. and they have to like you more in the relationship in order for it to work. this is for bytches that are actually into you tho. so pretty much do the opposite of what movies and TV tell you to do to get women. always remember they move based on emotions not logic.

A woman either likes you or she don't like you. I'm not about to play reverse psychology with hoes.

 

[MikelArteta]

A woman either likes you or she don't like you. I'm not about to play reverse psychology with hoes.

Yup

If a woman likes you it doesn't matter what you do

If a woman doesn't like you it doesn't matter what you do

If a woman likes you, you can be a simp and she finds it that you really care about her, you can be awkward and she finds it cute, you can be fat and she finds you like a teddy bear , you can be broke and you're someone with potential

If she doesn't like you , you're a loser, you're broke, you're weird, you're fat, you're too nice, you're coming on too strong

Best thing is just be yourself and find someone who likes you for who you are

 

[RealAssanova]

A lot of men need to come back to the basics of self-respect and dignity and then build from there.

That should be the base and foundation.

A lot of the challenges currently plaguing the dating scene stems from women losing respect for us.

We’re now viewed as disposable and replaceable.

So be that 1% that doesn’t double text, ask her out more than once, like her ig post or slide in her dm.

And if an opportunity with a woman does present itself, be firm, confident and masculine. You cannot control the outcome so be indifferent to that.

 

[MikelArteta]

A lot of men need to come back to the basics of self-respect and dignity and then build from there.

That should be the base and foundation.

A lot of the challenges currently plaguing the dating scene stems from women losing respect for us.

We’re now viewed as disposable and replaceable.

So be that 1% that doesn’t double text, ask her out more than once, like her ig post or slide in her dm.

And if an opportunity with a woman does present itself, be firm, confident and masculine. You cannot control the outcome so be indifferent to that.

yup that beyonce song......
I could have another you in a minute. Matter of fact, he'll be here in a minute, baby. You must not know 'bout me. You must not know 'bout me

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

A woman either likes you or she don't like you. I'm not about to play reverse psychology with hoes.

I was saying in context if they like you. im not playing games either. if she likes you she'll move mountains. but you still can't show her you like her more or chase if her she likes you. thats what I meant.

 

[re'up]

Defining "liking" someone as a black/white, either/or gets kind of less accurate, but more reassuring. Both concepts of "like" and "what you do when you like someone" are pretty loosely/vaguely defined.

There's plenty of people I do like, but haven't texted in weeks/months, just lose interest/patience, or get more interested in someone else, but that doesn't mean I don't like them.

Lot's of people talk themselves out of people all the time, for meaningless reasons.

 

[Astroslik]

Personally, I don't feel that women are a good judge of what makes women visually attractive TO MEN.

And this doubles up when women try to show an individual man "attractive" traits - like her great career and paid for house and car.

I eat well in DC

But i am #handsomegang

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

no.


1. I hit her up Thursday (no response)
2. i hit her up Friday (no response)
3. She answers me Saturday (I tell her hope she feels better)

She doesn't want you bro. Leave her alone

 

[Brandsdale]

Personally, I don't feel that women are a good judge of what makes women visually attractive TO MEN.

And this doubles up when women try to show an individual man "attractive" traits - like her great career and paid for house and car.

Joke gets reused on Twitter all the time smh

I wish black women would chill on being so defensive like this. shyt is cringe

 

[Brandsdale]

She doesn't want you bro. Leave her alone

Yup. Already bushed.

Onto the next.

 

[Ahadi]

Joke gets reused on Twitter all the time smh

I wish black women would chill on being so defensive like this. shyt is cringe

I wish they could really reflect and see how their dialogue sets them up for failure.

It’s most likely THEM. Who cares if they’re beautiful. What else?

 

[DaHNIC82]

I actually went on these single groups on Facebook just to see what was going on and it's a perfect example to why everyone is lonely, miserable, and defensive

Dudes go in there fishing trying to fukk. Women go just to soak up likes and a confidence boost from suckas. There's rarely no interaction, no meeting up, nothing. But they the first ones acting like they have the answers. Fear of rejection and ridiculous standards done stunt people chances

 

[WIA20XX]

I actually went on these single groups on Facebook just to see what was going on and it's a perfect example to why everyone is lonely, miserable, and defensive

Dudes go in there fishing trying to fukk. Women go just to soak up likes and a confidence boost from suckas. There's rarely no interaction, no meeting up, nothing. But they the first ones acting like they have the answers.

Having bumped more than my fair share of miserable chicks in online forums...

1) It goes down in the DM's
2) You can always organize a low key get together/meet up in your city.

Update the FB to look decent, and make it a habit to say decent things, but not outright pandering.