Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

A nice conversation to have with women is asking "what their love language is?"

Women love this topic & her love language it tells you a lot about a woman.

 

[Iceson Beckford]

Still, remember my weekends clubbing in Newcastle and Manny sheesh

A lot of London man used to drive up on a Friday and come back on Sunday. Friendly northern chicks everywhere.

This might become my lifestyle

Having a look at hotels as we speak

 

[MikelArteta]

A nice conversation to have with women is asking "what their love language is?"

Women love this topic & her love language it tells you a lot about a woman.

I've had chicks send me the questionnaire to fill out and ish
My love language is peace

 

[MikelArteta]

Exactly.

But we as men still want to push it, as we don't want to maybe lose out. So try to keep the convo alive.

If you as a man notice a woman's replies to you are becoming less frequent and more dry.

Just leave it as she's telling you what she's thinking without actually saying it. Which is she's not that interested.

These days I'll ask a chick straight up and push them a tad. Then you'll get the "it's me, not you" excuse.

Where a chick will tell you they have loads of stuff going on in their life and don't have time for you etc, but you're a great guy etc and she's really sure you'll find the right person aka not me.

Meanwhile, give it two or three weeks and you still see them active on the apps.



I notice that beaviour now and I'm good on messaging them and you'll notice when you dont message them, they wont message you so they cant have been that intrested.

I'll say this to any breh whos's unsure. Any woman who truly wants to be around you will make a play for you.

No excuses

No bullshyt

She will put herself in your orbit so you pay attention and will make it mega easy for you to see her.

Yup when a chick is into you, you get some texts, them long phone calls, always wanting to see you, face time etc.


What I've learned in life if you ever have to wonder more than likely she ain't feeling you like that.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yup when a chick is into you, you get some texts, them long phone calls, always wanting to see you, face time etc.


What I've learned in life if you ever have to wonder more than likely she ain't feeling you like that.

One thing I was guilty of in the past was pursuing women with, looking back now, obviously low interest.

And trying to convince them I was worth their time.

I laugh at that idea now. If I have to convince a chick to see me. Its already a bust

And I'm outta there.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Don't send women heart eyes. Ever. Play it cool. She knows she's beautiful. What more does she have to offer you in life?

Game is game

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

women want to chase and feel like they won you over if they like you. the more interest you show and the more you do for them without them earning it the less respect they have for you. and they have to like you more in the relationship in order for it to work. this is for bytches that are actually into you tho. so pretty much do the opposite of what movies and TV tell you to do to get women. always remember they move based on emotions not logic.

 

[Van Cleef]

women want to chase and feel like they won you over if they like you. the more interest you show and the more you do for them without them earning it the less respect they have for you. and they have to like you more in the relationship in order for it to work. this is for bytches that are actually into you tho. so pretty much do the opposite of what movies and TV tell you to do to get women. always remember they move based on emotions not logic.

you stop chasing her, she'll just find someone else who will

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

you stop chasing her, she'll just find someone else who will

there is a difference between showing interest/keeping her engaged vs. chasing her. the more beautiful she is the more guys have been chasing her her whole life. when you don't chase and become a challenge you stand out. the more you chase her the less interest she will have. this is how women are wired.

 

[WIA20XX]

Again, If you're wondering about chasing a girl, to show interest or not show interest - you don't have enough broads in your pipeline.

Should I text? Should I double text?
Should I reach out first?
Should I wait?

= not enough hoes.

The reason it causes cats such agony, is that if they make a mistake with texting, calling, chasing, they "lose" the broad.
AND WHO KNOWS WHEN THE NEXT ONE WILL SHOW UP?

Efforts to chase and not chase, won't really change much in the grand scheme of things.
The chase/effort debate is not new. It represents old thinking.

You need a mindset shift.

A lot of cats are trying to catch fish with a pole. Your own little efforts, your small bait, fishing in a spots that everyone goes to.

A professional uses a net.
A real professional has a farm.

The amateur hits the clubs.

The professional goes to events and knows all the players. He stands out, not just by his looks, but by who knows him.
You can step up and start throwing formal events, or step back and throw private ones.

But if you're really trying to get the baddest of the baddies - where are HER eyes focused?

At the club looking through 4 dozen 6'2" dudes, and ignoring the 200 that aren't.
The guys in VIP trying to get her to sip from her bottles?
The drug dealing brehs with the chains and such?

Is that the extent of a man's universe?

Elevate.

 

[Atlrocafella]

no.


1. I hit her up Thursday (no response)
2. i hit her up Friday (no response)
3. She answers me Saturday (I tell her hope she feels better)

Yeah breh, never over-text. They got your message the first time. Appearing too eager to link or have a convo puts too much power in her hands. You have to control the flow.

 

[Digital Omen]

you stop chasing her, she'll just find someone else who will

There's always someone chasing her. You want to be the one that's not.
Chasing: blowing up her phone, double texting, telling her "we'll do whatever you want" (they hate that), always being available for her (you have a life too, let her know that)
Don't be that guy ^

 

[WIA20XX]

Personally, I don't feel that women are a good judge of what makes women visually attractive TO MEN.

And this doubles up when women try to show an individual man "attractive" traits - like her great career and paid for house and car.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Personally, I don't feel that women are a good judge of what makes women visually attractive TO MEN.

And this doubles up when women try to show an individual man "attractive" traits - like her great career and paid for house and car.

Women believe no matter how they look or act we are supposed to want them. Its why women get shocked if they get turned down or friend zones

 

[MikelArteta]

Personally, I don't feel that women are a good judge of what makes women visually attractive TO MEN.

And this doubles up when women try to show an individual man "attractive" traits - like her great career and paid for house and car.

Yup an ugly chick can find you ugly, an attractive women can find you attractive. This woman is just basing what she views as attractive.

I've had stages in my life when I only liked certain races , and you could put the finest insert race in front of me and I wasn't interested. Even now you could put what you deem the finest nigerian or jamaican girl in front of me and i'd be like