Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Two other times we planned to meetup were broken off.

First was because she was busy. :leostare:

Second was because we were both sick .

SHE was the one who asked me out this time only to hit me up with this shyt.

Honesty, the options of where I'm at are :trash: and this is the best thing I've came across in years.

I need to move , I know :francis:
Yeah you wasted your time. First flake shoulda been the end
 

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So I was talking to this girl for a few months . Wasn't really looking but the more I got to know her got me more interested.

Have a LOT in common.
Lives nearby (kept getting matched/meeting girls who were at least a 90 minute drive)
Legit wanted to get to know her

Well, I was supposed to go out with her tonight and meet her in person only for her to break it off a few hours before :dahell: Telling me that she isn't yet mentally ready to date again after her breakup. Felt like I was coasting for over a month only to run into a brick wall.

Have any of you guys hit it off really well with someone only for them to tell you that they're suddenly not ready to date anyone after a bad breakup you didn't know about ?

Just sucks because it also feels like I've become more of a better person myself these several months .

Oh well, back to the gym and out of the dating scene :francis:
Simple solution, date multiple chicks for the time being.
 

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Two other times we planned to meetup were broken off.

First was because she was busy. :leostare:

Second was because we were both sick .

SHE was the one who asked me out this time only to hit me up with this shyt.

Honesty, the options of where I'm at are :trash: and this is the best thing I've came across in years.

I need to move , I know :francis:
Damn is Sacramento that bad :damn:

You always get a chick down in LA, it's nothing but a 45 minute flight.

You could actually have them flying to you on the cheap, if you got game like that.
 

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Damn is Sacramento that bad :damn:

You always get a chick down in LA, it's nothing but a 45 minute flight.

You could actually have them flying to you on the cheap, if you got game like that.

My weekend in Albuquerque to see friends back in October alone was better for me socially than all the time I've spent in Sacramento in 2021 . Hell, my mom is dealing with it herself :mindblown: If you're a social person that likes to travel and have a good time , you stand out like a sore thumb. Thought it was me until I started to travel more .

I see myself moving probably to SoCal in a few years if I wanna network more and have meaningful relationships.
 

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I know fam, plus she’s been a disciplinary problem for me now. Not following directions/instructions, a lil combative and unwilling to compromise with me sometimes. I tell her all the time, why should I have to deal with that crap and I’m not even married or have kids yet. She can’t give a answer with substance because nobody is putting up with that crap.
Dude u need to break up with that girl right now. Like immediately.

see the moment u get her pregnant u are fuccked. Right now if she fuccks up she can beg u for forgiveness cause she knows ain’t nothing holding u back from leaving. When you’re permanently hooked with her thru a child, she can decide to go play with her ex and ain’t gon be sh1t u can do but kill urself
 

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Two other times we planned to meetup were broken off.

First was because she was busy. :leostare:

Second was because we were both sick .

SHE was the one who asked me out this time only to hit me up with this shyt.

Honesty, the options of where I'm at are :trash: and this is the best thing I've came across in years.

I need to move , I know :francis:

bytch was just a time waster using you as an ego boost and wanted the attention, nothing more.

First time I would have just KIM.

Dude u need to break up with that girl right now. Like immediately.

see the moment u get her pregnant u are fuccked. Right now if she fuccks up she can beg u for forgiveness cause she knows ain’t nothing holding u back from leaving. When you’re permanently hooked with her thru a child, she can decide to go play with her ex and ain’t gon be sh1t u can do but kill urself

This. Now that I'm older, I can't fathom putting up with that shyt for five weeks much less five years. No judgement though, because I tolerated and put up with a lot of shyt I shouldn't have over the years. But now that I'm wiser, if I ever sense disloyalty or bullshyt then it's instant bushes.

Dude has to stop fukking her and leave immediately too cos I've known of cases when chicks knew the dude was gonna walk out and deliberately trapped them by getting pregnant.
 

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I know fam, plus she’s been a disciplinary problem for me now. Not following directions/instructions, a lil combative and unwilling to compromise with me sometimes. I tell her all the time, why should I have to deal with that crap and I’m not even married or have kids yet. She can’t give a answer with substance because nobody is putting up with that crap.
hope you find the strength to drop her fam
 
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