Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RaspberryFitted]

y’all still able to get off that “stress reliever” line or is it played out?

 

[Ahadi]

I told her she could work for me instead of looking for a job, while going to school and she got offended.

“I’ll never be a secretary / assistant”

 

[Serious]

My weekend in Albuquerque to see friends back in October alone was better for me socially than all the time I've spent in Sacramento in 2021 . Hell, my mom is dealing with it herself If you're a social person that likes to travel and have a good time , you stand out like a sore thumb. Thought it was me until I started to travel more .

I see myself moving probably to SoCal in a few years if I wanna network more and have meaningful relationships.

Forgot about this:
https://www.kcra.com/article/sacramento-sits-atop-list-of-least-attractive-people/9533947

@Paper Boi I'm cool on moving to Sacramento

 

[Paper Boi]

Forgot about this:
https://www.kcra.com/article/sacramento-sits-atop-list-of-least-attractive-people/9533947

@Paper Boi I'm cool on moving to Sacramento

it didn't used to be as bad and i'd argue it's not completely, but in general the area has been flooded since it's a place to get good jobs without a STEM education.

and yeah it waters down the pool

 

[Astroslik]

My weekend in Albuquerque to see friends back in October alone was better for me socially than all the time I've spent in Sacramento in 2021 . Hell, my mom is dealing with it herself If you're a social person that likes to travel and have a good time , you stand out like a sore thumb. Thought it was me until I started to travel more .

I see myself moving probably to SoCal in a few years if I wanna network more and have meaningful relationships.

Albuquerque has some bad Latinas on the low..

 

[Astroslik]

A lot of church being spit up in here. Salute.

I been with my chick almost 5 years, next month. I caught her talking to her ex about 3 years ago and I checked her and put her on notice. She said she blocked him and all the other dusty nikkas she got up there on FB messenger. Cool, we move forward.

Tell me why last night I hop on my dummy IG account (I call it dummy because I only use it to lurk) and her ex is being recommended to follow. I check his page out, She’s following him, he’s following her.

I confront her thru text since she’s away with family rn, and she basically said she did it to stunt on him with her new (old) man (me) and show him that she’s living a better life without him, which she is.

What bothered me the most is that she acted like he was just a random nikka on social media until I deaded that I told her I know who he is and that’s when she came clean about the situation. She says even though they follow each other, she has not spoken to him since the incident 3 years ago, and I know they havent met up because she’s living with me and around me all time time.

She unfollowed him and deleted her IG and been blowing my phone up coppin pleas, I think it’s time to introduce her to The Bushes, I can’t take the deception and drama.

She’s been fukking that nikka and you know it deep down.

This is why you always need a couple bytches in the chamber. Even when you’re in a relationship.

 

[African_brehda]

How do I go about smashing the ex brehs? She’s started reaching out after about a year and a half. Naturally I’m a playful breh, so I keep the convo short and cordial so she doesn’t start thinking shyt is sweet

How do I go about making my intentions clear brehs?

 

[MAKAVELI25]

How do I go about smashing the ex brehs? She’s started reaching out after about a year and a half. Naturally I’m a playful breh, so I keep the convo short and cordial so she doesn’t start thinking shyt is sweet

How do I go about making my intentions clear brehs?

Are you asking us how to smash a chick you've already smashed?

 

[African_brehda]

Are you asking us how to smash a chick you've already smashed?

yes breh. I tend to enter a loop of playful banter. I’m trying to see if being straightforward and asking her what the deal is is a good idea

 

[Apollo Creed]

yes breh. I tend to enter a loop of playful banter. I’m trying to see if being straightforward and asking her what the deal is is a good idea

Why would you smash an ex

 

[DapMeUp!]

Are you asking us how to smash a chick you've already smashed?

 

[360dagod]

She’s been fukking that nikka and you know it deep down.

This is why you always need a couple bytches in the chamber. Even when you’re in a relationship.

There are apps out here that can hide numbers and messages...
Even when they tell you one thing, it still dont matter

I'd rather hedge my bets and keep my "female friends" around

 

[Apollo Creed]

There are apps out here that can hide numbers and messages...
Even when they tell you one thing, it still dont matter

I'd rather hedge my bets and keep my "female friends" around

Yeah its a new day lol. Main thing is once you find out or sense danger just end it vs dwelling in dread (of course if you are doing your own thing the dread is minimized BUT her being your “main” will still sting).

this is why i am NOT for long term relationships anymore if the end goal isnt marriage. IMO after 1 yr to 1.5yrs if she aint marriage material you better off ending it. And if marriage aint for you then just “date” vs applying status of main to anyone.

 

[Ahadi]

If she doesn’t want to come over.

You’re not hot enough.

 

[Wargames]

If she doesn’t want to come over.

You’re not hot enough.

Or she is on her period….. or a variety or other issues including the cancellation being a shyt test.

Two things are important in that situation.

1) don’t act like a bytch if she cancels, play it cool, don’t try to guilt her or argue with her. It makes you look like a bytch or a dikk and you’ll creep her out. That includes asking “ok can you come over tomorrow?”. Don’t stress over women, The only caveat is if you are really hard up, You can ask her a date for her to reschedule, but you’re setting a bad precedent and giving off a weak vibe. You might get p*ssy, but even if you do. Recognize little shyt like appearing needy now is laying the seeds for your failure later.

2) If she is really interested when she cancels she will offer to come over on another day unprompted. If she says she can’t make it today, she will say “but can I come over tomorrow or the weekend, etc” without you asking, then you are good. If she doesn’t do that she isn’t interested.