Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

A lot of church being spit up in here. Salute.

I been with my chick almost 5 years, next month. I caught her talking to her ex about 3 years ago and I checked her and put her on notice. She said she blocked him and all the other dusty nikkas she got up there on FB messenger. Cool, we move forward.

Tell me why last night I hop on my dummy IG account (I call it dummy because I only use it to lurk) and her ex is being recommended to follow. I check his page out, She’s following him, he’s following her.

I confront her thru text since she’s away with family rn, and she basically said she did it to stunt on him with her new (old) man (me) and show him that she’s living a better life without him, which she is.

What bothered me the most is that she acted like he was just a random nikka on social media until I deaded that I told her I know who he is and that’s when she came clean about the situation. She says even though they follow each other, she has not spoken to him since the incident 3 years ago, and I know they havent met up because she’s living with me and around me all time time.

She unfollowed him and deleted her IG and been blowing my phone up coppin pleas, I think it’s time to introduce her to The Bushes, I can’t take the deception and drama.

5 years & you gottta deal with that behavior? you might as well split, she lookin for a sex fantasy



Good thing you didn’t marry her, that would of been ugly.

Bushes

 

[George Gooney]

Just thinking to myself last night, women don't really wanna have personal/casual conversation with men they wanna fukk. I noticed with most women I bag or end up smashing that they keep conversation to a minimum until we have sex and even after most times. It's like they have a line in their minds that separate friendship guys from fukkable guys or something. In situations when women are casually hitting me up to talk about their day/feelings, usually no sex or sexual tension is involved with that girl.

This is not based in any sort of fact lol. when you digging a chicks walls out she becomes a pain in your ass. all of a sudden she wants to know what you had for breakfast then she's asking you what did you want to be when you were growing up as a child. They literally become obsessed with every small detail in your life.

 

[Collateral]

5 years & you gottta deal with that behavior? you might as well split, she lookin for a sex fantasy



Good thing you didn’t marry her, that would of been ugly.

Bushes

I know fam, plus she’s been a disciplinary problem for me now. Not following directions/instructions, a lil combative and unwilling to compromise with me sometimes. I tell her all the time, why should I have to deal with that crap and I’m not even married or have kids yet. She can’t give a answer with substance because nobody is putting up with that crap.

 

[Manolo]

This is not based in any sort of fact lol. when you digging a chicks walls out she becomes a pain in your ass. all of a sudden she wants to know what you had for breakfast then she's asking you what did you want to be when you were growing up as a child. They literally become obsessed with every small detail in your life.

Yeah, this is true after you smash. My point is regarding leading up to fukking. And in some cases after, but only when they’re just using you for sex

 

[George Gooney]

Yeah, this is true after you smash. My point is regarding leading up to fukking. And in some cases after, but only when they’re just using you for sex

Ok my bad breh. I misunderstood then. Yea when women are feeling you they sometimes try not to say too much in fear of turning you off.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I know fam, plus she’s been a disciplinary problem for me now. Not following directions/instructions, a lil combative and unwilling to compromise with me sometimes. I tell her all the time, why should I have to deal with that crap and I’m not even married or have kids yet. She can’t give a answer with substance because nobody is putting up with that crap.

bro you shoulda left her the first time. All that "unfollow abc" stuff dont work. If you making that play she shouldn't be on SM period but regardless entertaining anther man is not forgivable. Only time I could even see myself letting a woman breath from that at my age is cause we not married and I'm getting it in in these streets something crazy. And if thats the case she aint even my girl so I dont care what she does its more so she is on call when I want her presence.

 

[Apollo Creed]

naw lil 20 year old cac weed head lol

maybe im just saddity but weed head chicks are repulsive to me.

 

[J.E.T.S]

A lot of church being spit up in here. Salute.

I been with my chick almost 5 years, next month. I caught her talking to her ex about 3 years ago and I checked her and put her on notice. She said she blocked him and all the other dusty nikkas she got up there on FB messenger. Cool, we move forward.

Tell me why last night I hop on my dummy IG account (I call it dummy because I only use it to lurk) and her ex is being recommended to follow. I check his page out, She’s following him, he’s following her.

I confront her thru text since she’s away with family rn, and she basically said she did it to stunt on him with her new (old) man (me) and show him that she’s living a better life without him, which she is.

What bothered me the most is that she acted like he was just a random nikka on social media until I deaded that I told her I know who he is and that’s when she came clean about the situation. She says even though they follow each other, she has not spoken to him since the incident 3 years ago, and I know they havent met up because she’s living with me and around me all time time.

She unfollowed him and deleted her IG and been blowing my phone up coppin pleas, I think it’s time to introduce her to The Bushes, I can’t take the deception and drama.

been through this!

guess where shawty started back going shortly after we broke up?

To this day, I’m certain that’s the one guy she never got over and maybe they even fukked at some point while we were together.

leave bruh. I’m warning you!

 

[J.E.T.S]

I know fam, plus she’s been a disciplinary problem for me now. Not following directions/instructions, a lil combative and unwilling to compromise with me sometimes. I tell her all the time, why should I have to deal with that crap and I’m not even married or have kids yet. She can’t give a answer with substance because nobody is putting up with that crap.

She got kids?

She’s really not into you! She is stuck on someone else. Maybe have lost attraction.

make sure that she’s not using you.

I swear I went through this exact scenario before. It turned me cold.

Bet she likes going out without you too?

 

[Guile]

Told this bytch to eat a dikk

I've never had a woman be straight up honest with me (in interpersonal situations) outside of some family members...I realize I have come not to trust women.

 

[Max.]

maybe im just saddity but weed head chicks are repulsive to me.

I've never had a woman be straight up honest with me (in interpersonal situations) outside of some family members...I realize I have come not to trust women.

This girl had a mole on her face i was gona tell her to rip it off and smoke it but she unmatched me after that comment

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Wanna try one of those 7-11 dikk pills tonight tryna do a back to back with these 2 girls. @CouldntBeMeTho whats the word on these shyts? Only take like 1/8th of the pill cuz I’m yung&hung?

 

[LezJepzin]

So I was talking to this girl for a few months . Wasn't really looking but the more I got to know her got me more interested.

Have a LOT in common.
Lives nearby (kept getting matched/meeting girls who were at least a 90 minute drive)
Legit wanted to get to know her

Well, I was supposed to go out with her tonight and meet her in person only for her to break it off a few hours before Telling me that she isn't yet mentally ready to date again after her breakup. Felt like I was coasting for over a month only to run into a brick wall.

Have any of you guys hit it off really well with someone only for them to tell you that they're suddenly not ready to date anyone after a bad breakup you didn't know about ?

Just sucks because it also feels like I've become more of a better person myself these several months .

Oh well, back to the gym and out of the dating scene

 

[Apollo Creed]

So I was talking to this girl for a few months . Wasn't really looking but the more I got to know her got me more interested.

Have a LOT in common.
Lives nearby (kept getting matched/meeting girls who were at least a 90 minute drive)
Legit wanted to get to know her

Well, I was supposed to go out with her tonight and meet her in person only for her to break it off a few hours before Telling me that she isn't yet mentally ready to date again after her breakup. Felt like I was coasting for over a month only to run into a brick wall.

Have any of you guys hit it off really well with someone only for them to tell you that they're suddenly not ready to date anyone after a bad breakup you didn't know about ?

Just sucks because it also feels like I've become more of a better person myself these several months .

Oh well, back to the gym and out of the dating scene

You were chit chatting with someone you never met (that lives near you) for a month?

 

[LezJepzin]

You were chit chatting with someone you never met (that lives near you) for a month?

Two other times we planned to meetup were broken off.

First was because she was busy.

Second was because we were both sick .

SHE was the one who asked me out this time only to hit me up with this shyt.

Honesty, the options of where I'm at are and this is the best thing I've came across in years.

I need to move , I know