Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Thats just something that comes with experience breh. The more women you smash the more you realize how not special they are. The thing is tho you get to a point where you don't even really like bytches like that. You might fumble this situation tho. Its all apart of the game. Live and learn and don't overthink things too much. See women as EXP on a video game. The more EXP you achieve the more you level up and this asian chick you dealing with may seem like a Boss battle but next youre one-shotting bosses with a higher level than her. Hope you get this metaphor.
Like Sekiro. What a great and true metaphor :wow:
 

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Yup as I get older and the busier I am in life the less I care about broads now to be honest, because most of them ain't shyt. Dudes are posting examples of wishy washy chicks who are complete time wasters and still asking what to do about it.

If you're a job recruiter and the candidate doesn't sound keen or they cancel a job interview at the very last minute, what's that telling you?

If you have to guess or wonder whether she's interested or not, then she ain't. Just move on.

Your time other than your health is the most valuable thing you got.
Right... I learned the moment I have to always text first that she ain’t that interested. Sure, if I’m consistent enough I can eventually smash.... but I ain’t even interested in takin that gamble

I also make sure I know immediately if I’m dealing with a chick that expect me to pay for everything... I’m willin to do the first date or 2 but shiiieeeeet, I ain’t finna wine and dine these h*es

that’s the difference between men and women casually dating.... the woman can go on 3 dates with 3 diff guys in 1 week.... not come out the pocket once aside from gas if they drivin themselves.... us on the other hand, man we out here tryna talk to multiple women at once.. payin for these dates... maaan I ain’t doin that shyt.

I’ll find 1 girl I’m willin to date and a couple others simply down to f*ck. I ain’t even broke, I’m just cheap and selfish.... I’d rather buy a bunch of clothes than go on a unappreciative date. These h*es be takin pics of these fools meals actin like they out with their friends or by themselves :russ:
 

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Right... I learned the moment I have to always text first that she ain’t that interested. Sure, if I’m consistent enough I can eventually smash.... but I ain’t even interested in takin that gamble

I also make sure I know immediately if I’m dealing with a chick that expect me to pay for everything... I’m willin to do the first date or 2 but shiiieeeeet, I ain’t finna wine and dine these h*es

that’s the difference between men and women casually dating.... the woman can go on 3 dates with 3 diff guys in 1 week.... not come out the pocket once aside from gas if they drivin themselves.... us on the other hand, man we out here tryna talk to multiple women at once.. payin for these dates... maaan I ain’t doin that shyt.

I’ll find 1 girl I’m willin to date and a couple others simply down to f*ck. I ain’t even broke, I’m just cheap and selfish.... I’d rather buy a bunch of clothes than go on a unappreciative date. These h*es be takin pics of these fools meals actin like they out with their friends or by themselves :russ:


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Some of you dudes be out here 1 of the 4 men treating her to nice meals and fun dates while the dude that ain’t doin none of that is the 1 that’s smashing her with no strings attached

This ain’t no knock either.. some of y’all need to either watch some more movies or get out more.. shoot ya shot, experience success and failure in that field... build your testosterone up and live life... for every 3 girls that ain’t on shyt it’s another 3 that’s on shyt

Some of y’all be in here really lookin for advice over a chick where all signs lead to she ain’t interested... y’all be too hyped up off having the # or a match on Tinder... guaranteed if she’s as bad as y’all say these girls are, y’all ain’t the only dude up in them text messages

:comeon::mjlol: you know dam well you wanted to shyt on these nikkas :pachaha:
 

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Fellas how do y’all deal with issues concerning trust? My girl hasn’t done anything wrong, but it’s like inside im waiting on her to slip up so i can leave her. i barely believe the things she says from her saying she loves me to her telling me what she did in a day. sometimes ill be sitting to myself and start thinking and furthermore begin to overthink to the point where I’m feeling shyt in my chest, like it’s tight / warm. We normally sleep together every night, but i was so upset I couldn’t even stay. I went home and slept angry. I just don’t wanna fukk nothing up bc of this
you sound like me lmao

Im in the similar situation and honestly I think I'm just looking for a reason to break up with this chic. She hasn't done anything wrong but she hasn't done much right either if you get me. Something in my gut. Nothing I'd be able to prove. But I'm just not as interested as I was before know matter how "good" she is.

Most likely breaking it off soon if shyt doesn't change cause my eyes are starting to wander.
 

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Nows the time I slowly start distancing myself and barely responding.. I’m trying to avoid Valentines Day at all costs
 

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Some of you dudes be out here 1 of the 4 men treating her to nice meals and fun dates while the dude that ain’t doin none of that is the 1 that’s smashing her with no strings attached

This ain’t no knock either.. some of y’all need to either watch some more movies or get out more.. shoot ya shot, experience success and failure in that field... build your testosterone up and live life... for every 3 girls that ain’t on shyt it’s another 3 that’s on shyt

Some of y’all be in here really lookin for advice over a chick where all signs lead to she ain’t interested... y’all be too hyped up off having the # or a match on Tinder... guaranteed if she’s as bad as y’all say these girls are, y’all ain’t the only dude up in them text messages
addressing this part specifically.

A fun date doesn't have to be expressive. To date I've taken 4 chics to the same mini golf spot. $7 a person then we got Chinese food and they all got fukked. 2 the same night and the others on a different night.

The issue isn't the dates. It's home much nikkas are spending. You got nikkas sending Ubers and shyt smh.

Because there are so many nikkas trying to smash a chic without taking her out at all the bar is extremely low date wise. You can do a walk in the park followed by a stop at the ice cream truck and a bytch is already ready to fukk cause the last 3 nikkas went straight to trying to get her to come over for Netflix and chill.
 
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Just bushed the Syrian Hijabi I mentioned a while back because she was pushing me to get married(I was actually considering it but she doesn’t really bring any tangible value to my life, just emotional brain chemicals.) Came into some money and also started teaching myself another language(my fourth). Life is good brehs. :myman:
 

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Just bushed the Syrian Hijabi I mentioned a while back because she was pushing me to get married(I was actually considering it but she doesn’t really bring any tangible value to my life, just emotional brain chemicals.) Came into some money and also started teaching myself another language(my fourth). Life is good brehs. :myman:

what languages do you know breh?
 
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