Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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addressing this part specifically.

A fun date doesn't have to be expressive. To date I've taken 4 chics to the same mini golf spot. $7 a person then we got Chinese food and they all got fukked. 2 the same night and the others on a different night.

The issue isn't the dates. It's home much nikkas are spending. You got nikkas sending Ubers and shyt smh.

Because there are so many nikkas trying to smash a chic without taking her out at all the bar is extremely low date wise. You can do a walk in the park followed by a stop at the ice cream truck and a bytch is already ready to fukk cause the last 3 nikkas went straight to trying to get her to come over for Netflix and chill.


Agreed... all my first dates have been happy hour at a bar... good convo, cheap food... cheap drinks most the time (unless it’s they wantin patron or some shyt) and then after that they ready to fukk

you can get the p*ssy much easier by goin in public, havin an hour long convo minus mentioning sex then be on “well I enjoyed this convo.. I’m bout to head out hopefully we can do this again.. if you comfortable, you can come over for a few if you want if not I’d understand”...9 times outta 10 that whole gameplan has worked for me

but occasionally I do come across chicks you can tell have dealt with simps their whole life

like last summer I met this chick who was about to take the bar exam.. all she ever said was shyt like “I wanna do hookah.. you should take me there” “I like these air maxes.. you should buy me these” “I want Chinese.. you should cashapp me”.. one time she called me when I was in target “oh you in target? What you gettin me”... I HATE chicks like that.. had to cut her fine ass off after I told her “look, I don’t know what you used to but that ain’t me” :yeshrug:
 

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Nows the time I slowly start distancing myself and barely responding.. I’m trying to avoid Valentines Day at all costs

yup stop hanging onto chicks like mufasa


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let go and let em fall to the antelopes
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The weirdest thing happened me at the gym tonight. A woman actually had the guts to ask me for my number :ohhh:. I said hey to her twice before on some polite shyt, I respect that she didn’t waste any time and went for hers :ehh:.
What happened next? Was she cute?
 

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What happened next? Was she cute?
Yeah she’s cute and I actually took down her number and sent her mine. She just moved here from Louisville, Kentucky and is a graduate student in a PHD program at Emory University. She doesn’t know anyone out here yet, and I guess i was the first person to really acknowledge her while she was working out. I think she liked that :manny:,
 

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The weirdest thing happened me at the gym tonight. A woman actually had the guts to ask me for my number :ohhh:. I said hey to her twice before on some polite shyt, I respect that she didn’t waste any time and went for hers :ehh:.
I swear. Atlanta must be like shooting fish in a barrel if you’re a single straight black male.
 

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I swear. Atlanta must be like shooting fish in a barrel if you’re a single straight black male.
I always tell my brehs out of town, if you’re looking to get a chick down here, it’s easy as shyt, you can find a cute/dime chick with your eyes close. Now a chick of quality?, that’s a different story :francis:,

but if you tryna come down for a summer and have some flings, come have a ball breh, even the lamest nikkas I know can pull baddies.


This situation was funny tho cause I was drenched In sweat from my HIIT workout, and The gym is one place I know most women don’t like to be bothered, so it was unexpected.
 

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We’ve been talking extensively over the week. Over the course of conversation we both made it pretty clear we were both down to smash and not looking for anything long term. Anytime she tried to mention my ex I tried my best to sidestep or nip that in the bud as I know entertaining going in that direction would have been deaded everything in a second.

So, I Met up with her yesterday and took her out to eat to hibachi. Towards the end of our dinner I went to the bathroom, came back and found out she actually paid for our dinner. I Invited her over to the crib to “watch some shows”. Ended up smashing. She’s a petite girl 5 foot girl who isn’t used to being dominated and thrown around ( she’s black but she usually messes with white and middle eastern men. The reason is funny though... she has a small vagina and you know the stereotype on us black men lol ) so I enjoyed attacking that.
 

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Brehs... what’s your go to 2nd date if you had drinks with the girl on the first date but didn’t hit. Club??

The main agenda for me is to transition quickly to smash

There’s sexual tension and we both wanna fukk.. (problem is we’re both living at home)
 
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I'm gonna go hard in 2020 and make the coli brehs proud :wow:



Been consistently going to the gym, have started keto, started studying for the A+. I'm also about to email a few concert promoters if I can volunteer at events because I want to get into organizing concerts and be self employed


Now I just need to be consistent and see the results come in :banderas:
 

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I'm gonna go hard in 2020 and make the coli brehs proud :wow:



Been consistently going to the gym, have started keto, started studying for the A+. I'm also about to email a few concert promoters if I can volunteer at events because I want to get into organizing concerts and be self employed


Now I just need to be consistent and see the results come in :banderas:

Network & meet / work with Liquor sponsors. They got all the events.
 
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