Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Cape Town JHB]

Ok Breh you finally convinced me to delete the apps. It’s easy for me because I take part in a lot of activities already(yoga, Bjj classes) but I’m finally going to let it go. Nothing but trash on them any way.

That's what's up




If you're not into cold approaches and spitting Game at a chick randomly, you can always play the "passive invitational" ploy...... invite an entire group for drinks later or an event, and let the one feeling you choose up on you as the evening progresses. It could be tickets to a game or something really simple like a bar or Sunday picnic spot

You don't have to have a good mouth piece (though you aught to be working on having one daily), be at Yoga class and invite 2 or 3 bytchs who are friends for drinks later and boom one of them will choose up on YOU.

Peep Game

Dating apps are great for nikkaz who are bordering on starvation... But if you wanna be a seasoned Playa in a 5 - 10 years, actual social interaction is where it's at.

Peace

 

[J.E.T.S]

quick update
so randomly yesterday i woke up and had a sense of happiness idk why but i feel great i went back to social media and tbh i dont care what my ex post i cant really explain it cuz its a weird feeling maybe its cuz i got 3 girls lined up/i got options or maybe cuz i got a couple tattoos i always wanted and i got some new clothes that increased my confidence
any of ya had that feeling before

This is called a manic depressive episode.

Once you hit this stage it's almost over.

Just try not to think about the long thick wood she's sucking on the 6ft 5 nikka with tats.

You should be ok.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

I get matches on tinder and hinge but can't get shyt off bumble. I use the same photos on all 3 but can't figure bumble out? Whose eatin off bumble? Got any tips?

I say as far as apps and sites for most attractive/higher caliber of womens IMO hinge>>bumble>>tinder>>pof>>okcupid.

I've paid for Tinder gold which is like $10 a month but you can see who likes you, get 5 boosts a day and you change what location you search from.

I'm letting my subscription run out tho. Seems like women with good jobs and shyt are over Tinder. I see way more doctors, lawyers etc. on Hinge and Bumble.

Since my Tinder gold is running out I started paying for Hinge. When you pay for hinge you get unlimited likes every day ( you get like 8-10 a day for free) and you can filter certain things out. So you can filter out race, if they have kids, all types of shyt.

Sometimes you gotta pay to play and between being able to see who likes you on Tinder and being able to filter out single moms on Hinge I say it's def worth it to at least try it out. I don't give a fukk if you got something to say about me paying for the apps so save that shyt for yourself. It is what it is, to me it's no different than corporations paying lobbyist to get bills passed .

 

[Cape Town JHB]

This is a thorough psycho analatical breakdown. He combines a lot things I'd already learned the hard way in a congruent corollary abstract breakdown, leaning more on psychological concepts than hard truths, so the information is easier to swallow for regular squares. If he told the unabashed truth he'd be labeled a sexist etc still riveting.

Everyone here should stop whatever they're doing and watch this video in full.



OP, you should've at least given it a slight description and hype it up a bit.

Presentation of information is almost as important as the into itself.

Just posting a 50 min link with nothing for context defeats your purpose

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

I'm almost 30 years old, I do not see a difference between dealing with 20 year olds and 30 plus year olds in today's world.

They have the same emotional (un) intelligence and arrested development, overall retardness....

I've grappled with this for some years, for peace of mind, is it better to train a young clueless bytch to be what you need her to be or is it better to get a hot chick who's tired of the games, or better yet get an average looking chick who's down for you and train her...

In the last 5 years I tried ALL the above, got a young hot bytch, who was clueless and trained her (even got her pregnant), got a career focused "older" chick in her late 20s, trained her too (also got pregnant and had a miscarriage) then I trained my baby momma, who was an average looking young chick, trained her for almost 5 years.

Sprinkle in a few rich daddy girls, smart/book worm nerdy girls, arts and performance bytchs etc all in the mix..

My conclusion : THEY ARE ALL THE SAME... A average looking bytch will snake you just the same as a hot young bytch who thinks she's gonna be hot forever, you can preempt women's nature.

IT DOESN'T REALL MATTER WHAT TYPE YOU GO FOR.
So my conclusion is you should bag the baddest chick possible that gives you the most submission or simply stay single (we get lonely, so I'm realistic about this shyt, no guy is gonna be single for a decade).

Has anyone else here tried going for women from other countries, cultures, races, varying degrees of looks and came to the same conclusion?

Your 30 year old average looking middle class girl is gonna just as full of shyt as a 23 year old pretty girl... Especially the longer you're with them

I agree with all you said except for the one part about being single for a decade. south African and based in Cape Town just like u. I have been single since 2012. Ive been ploughing through these women for 8 years now and have zero interest in cuffing any. Have i met a few who i figured were solid? Yeah but they almost always showed me a red flag i couldnt ignore and ended up getting bushed.

Like you im nearly 30, in shape, educated and got a Lil money on me. I'd be damned if i settle down in this dating climate. ALL of these women are full shyt, no matter the age (like u said). It is really the same for women from other countries. i have fukked a few exchange students over the years and they are no different from south African girls once u spend enough time around them.

Only time i'll settle down is when i decide i want kids....maybe closer to 35

 

[Cape Town JHB]

I agree with all you said except for the one part about being single for a decade. south African and based in Cape Town just like u. I have been single since 2012. Ive been ploughing through these women for 8 years now and have zero interest in cuffing any. Have i met a few who i figured were solid? Yeah but they almost always showed me a red flag i couldnt ignore and ended up getting bushed.

Like you im nearly 30, in shape, educated and got a Lil money on me. I'd be damned if i settle down in this dating climate. ALL of these women are full shyt, no matter the age (like u said). It is really the same for women from other countries. i have fukked a few exchange students over the years and they are no different from south African girls once u spend enough time around them.

Only time i'll settle down is when i decide i want kids....maybe closer to 35

I'm on west coast, Milnerton side BTW.

I'd like to really warn you,as an idiot with no pull out Game whatsoever.... if you have a bit of money, do what Cristiano Ronaldo did with his other kids and have them via a surrogate.

i don't know the details of how all that works, but belive me, one of the biggest mistakes you'll ever make is being linked with a woman via a child.

I make no apologies when I say this, I regret having my daughter with the woman I had her with, and would regret having kid with ANY woman.

If I could actually share what I went through with a bytch this year this thread would be shut down, but I digress.

Which spots do you hunt at in Cape Town, i have so many Game related questions, have you noticed over the years UCT and student bytchs used to be so easy as long as you have Game, now they're on the same ultra entitlement that 30 plus year olds feel, also that late 80s, early 90s generation of cute girls being fazed out by mid to late 90s and now firmly early 2000s... These newer younger broads in Cape Town are sooooooo fukking influenced by TV/
Social media trends that they all seem to be a carbon copy of each other. Long Street and other popular hang out spots have suffered tremendously as a result of the new wave, any observations you've made since 2012?

 

[Deafheaven]

Linking up with dime ass red tomrorrow. May have to bring the A game

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Set up a date with this chick just now for Tuesday night. I end the convo with lets exchange numbers so we dont have to talk on this app. She says ok I am going to bed let me send you it tomorrow . It's fukking 8:45 pm first of all and second what is going to change between now and tomorrow lmao. Funny thing is I don't usually ask them for the number I let them give me it. She's probably flaking. I will let her hit me up and send me her number tomorrow. I'm not hitting her up again she's already in the bushes.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Set up a date with this chick just now for Tuesday night. I end the convo with lets exchange numbers so we dont have to talk on this app. She says ok I am going to bed let me send you it tomorrow . It's fukking 8:45 pm first of all and second what is going to change between now and tomorrow lmao. Funny thing is I don't usually ask them for the number I let them give me it. She's probably flaking. I will let her hit me up and send me her number tomorrow. I'm not hitting her up again she's already in the bushes.

what you guys think are the chances we link up Tuesday night? @neotheflyingone

 

[SATAN]

what you guys think are the chances we link up Tuesday night? @neotheflyingone

She can link up with the bushes, my nikka

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

She can link up with the bushes, my nikka

yea shes already there on my side. girl says im going to sleep let me send you my number tomorrow just makes me laugh how stupid that is.

 

[Max.]

Just got this pawg # off facebook dating



5'9...slim Thick...baby blue eyes

2020 baby

 

[Max.]

For some reason bumble has been very slow(matches wise) for me lately

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Just got this pawg # off facebook dating



5'9...slim Thick...baby blue eyes

2020 baby

so facebook dating is legit? Heard about it, never heard of anyone using it.

 

[Max.]

so facebook dating is legit? Heard about it, never heard of anyone using it.

Yeah u should try it