Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[BeeGoinCrazy]

I'm almost 30 years old, I do not see a difference between dealing with 20 year olds and 30 plus year olds in today's world.

They have the same emotional (un) intelligence and arrested development, overall retardness....

I've grappled with this for some years, for peace of mind, is it better to train a young clueless bytch to be what you need her to be or is it better to get a hot chick who's tired of the games, or better yet get an average looking chick who's down for you and train her...

In the last 5 years I tried ALL the above, got a young hot bytch, who was clueless and trained her (even got her pregnant), got a career focused "older" chick in her late 20s, trained her too (also got pregnant and had a miscarriage) then I trained my baby momma, who was an average looking young chick, trained her for almost 5 years.

Sprinkle in a few rich daddy girls, smart/book worm nerdy girls, arts and performance bytchs etc all in the mix..

My conclusion : THEY ARE ALL THE SAME... A average looking bytch will snake you just the same as a hot young bytch who thinks she's gonna be hot forever, you can preempt women's nature.

IT DOESN'T REALL MATTER WHAT TYPE YOU GO FOR.
So my conclusion is you should bag the baddest chick possible that gives you the most submission or simply stay single (we get lonely, so I'm realistic about this shyt, no guy is gonna be single for a decade).

Has anyone else here tried going for women from other countries, cultures, races, varying degrees of looks and came to the same conclusion?

Your 30 year old average looking middle class girl is gonna just as full of shyt as a 23 year old pretty girl... Especially the longer you're with them

Been saying that. But I’m a dry/small dikked incel who is intimidated by real women

 

[Deafheaven]

I'm almost 30 years old, I do not see a difference between dealing with 20 year olds and 30 plus year olds in today's world.

They have the same emotional (un) intelligence and arrested development, overall retardness....

I've grappled with this for some years, for peace of mind, is it better to train a young clueless bytch to be what you need her to be or is it better to get a hot chick who's tired of the games, or better yet get an average looking chick who's down for you and train her...

In the last 5 years I tried ALL the above, got a young hot bytch, who was clueless and trained her (even got her pregnant), got a career focused "older" chick in her late 20s, trained her too (also got pregnant and had a miscarriage) then I trained my baby momma, who was an average looking young chick, trained her for almost 5 years.

Sprinkle in a few rich daddy girls, smart/book worm nerdy girls, arts and performance bytchs etc all in the mix..

My conclusion : THEY ARE ALL THE SAME... A average looking bytch will snake you just the same as a hot young bytch who thinks she's gonna be hot forever, you can preempt women's nature.

IT DOESN'T REALL MATTER WHAT TYPE YOU GO FOR.
So my conclusion is you should bag the baddest chick possible that gives you the most submission or simply stay single (we get lonely, so I'm realistic about this shyt, no guy is gonna be single for a decade).

Has anyone else here tried going for women from other countries, cultures, races, varying degrees of looks and came to the same conclusion?

Your 30 year old average looking middle class girl is gonna just as full of shyt as a 23 year old pretty girl... Especially the longer you're with them

I've also ran a small gamut of different types of ladies and yes, they all react to the same shyt and generally do the same things. Some are inherently more or less "ain shyt" than others but overall...they really be on the same shyt. Love my ma dukes but she over 50 and still be doing foolish shyt pertaining to men these bytches my age do. its wild.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Been saying that. But I’m a dry/small dikked incel who is intimidated by real women

But isn't it fascinating how in beginning the average looking bytch is sooooooo submissive and proving that she's "not like those superficial Instagram thots" or what have you......... or the young pretty bytch pretends to not be anything like her young dumb peers and will even mimick liking your "advanced" nuanced tastes in music, books etc......... or the older 30 plus year old pretends to know exactly what she wants, how mature and advanced in her thinking she PRETENDS to be.....

Have you noticed that if you deal with a "hometown" black girl, the fact you're both black, grew up in the same culture and environment (in my case Cape Town) etc they get comfortable very quickly and they hit you with their bullshyt much quicker.

but if i deal with an American black woman or from outside of South Africa or even a colored (mixed breed) or exchange student etc they are much more guarded about the perception and impression they make for a loooooooooobg time, but eventually the same shyt tests the local comfortable chick was doing, the foreign will do too.. Even worse certain foreign women from non English speaking countries will do their shyt tests with no cultural nuance.

Ever had a chick who can barely speak English try to hate on how well you groom yourself or dress or gym (anything making you a viable option for other women) "U R gym like Arnold Schwarzenegger mad man all da time" or "You are washing face every night like girl.. Real man not worry about girly thing like wash face" or "why you always plan outifit like supermodel boy".. It's so insufferable

 

[Cape Town JHB]

I've also ran a small gamut of different types of ladies and yes, they all react to the same shyt and generally do the same things. Some are inherently more or less "ain shyt" than others but overall...they really be on the same shyt. Love my ma dukes but she over 50 and still be doing foolish shyt pertaining to men these bytches my age do. its wild.

I think that's what tripped me up in my early 20s, I realized that some were indeed less full of shyt, but I erroneously thought that slight degree of less of full shyt, meant they weren't eventually gonna be like any other woman. So I'd try and seek the lesser full of shyt ones and train them, now I spit game and whatever bytch bites gets plucked.
I don't have that young man's blind hope.

Hell I reckon a lot of married guys and dudes cuffing girls, based it largely on this "lesser degree of full of shytness", just coz a woman is cooking, cleaning, and not being full of shyt initially doesn't mean her nature won't come out eventually.

Took me 28 years of age for this to truly CLICK!!

 

[DaRealness]

These trans weirdos need to put themselves under the 'male' category on dating apps.

 

[mortuus est]

So my conclusion is you should bag the baddest chick possible that gives you the most submission or simply stay single

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[mortuus est]

These trans weirdos need to put themselves under the 'male' category on dating apps.

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[SATAN]

I've had women that I wasn't even dating flake on me this month


I'm on a dance team and the chick who was supposed to be my dance partner been flaking on me for practice together. She hasn't replied to anything in weeks. It's at a dance studio, so it wasn't a date or nothin.

Then another chick that was supposed to go to church with me been flaking of that, too. She's just a friend, or I thought she was.

Even female friends and acquaintances ghost and flake, this is annoying but I'll just spend my time with women who actually want to be around me

I don't blow up their phone, just one text and they never got back to me so I let it be

 

[Cape Town JHB]

lol super submissive women can be over emotional too, plus from what yu're saying it seems some of the women you delt with switched on you at some point, u got 2+ kids ? you built a family?

is it safe to say that men should just be able to handle women without bytching like babies and accept that both men and women aint shyt and nothing is garrenteed to you and that we need each other

That's so profound and deep

 

[Cape Town JHB]

I've had women that I wasn't even dating flake on me this month


I'm on a dance team and the chick who was supposed to be my dance partner been flaking on me for practice together. She hasn't replied to anything in weeks. It's at a dance studio, so it wasn't a date or nothin.

Then another chick that was supposed to go to church with me been flaking of that, too. She's just a friend, or I thought she was.

Even female friends and acquaintances ghost and flake, this is annoying but I'll just spend my time with women who actually want to be around me

I don't blow up their phone, just one text and they never got back to me so I let it be

Festive season they ALL prioritize spending time with their highest potential dikk.. Dude is probably off work for like 2 weeks and they're playing the "wifey" role to the tee.

Just keep going to social events, people here discuss dating apps more than they discuss ACTUAL GOING OUT, to events not clubs.

You'll find so many chicks genuinely into you at a social event, who'll even make you promise to call or text them and will be chasing you trying to meet up etc

Join Yoga classes, gyms, comedy clubs, jazz festivals or other music related events, art galleries and private viewings, wine tasting tours etc you'll meet a lot "high quality" women who are enamored by you off conversation alone.

This app dependency on here is yet another weird place (white boy pick up artist incel culture) this thread has gone to.

 

[Silkk]

I wish I would’ve never got involved with this chick again

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I heard this from Fargo Season 2


Some career advice: A whore's life is five good years, five bad years, and then some half-dikk sweat stain grinds you out like a cigarette. Like a goddamn spent cigarette.


Just felt like it should be here

 

[TOAD99]

quick update
so randomly yesterday i woke up and had a sense of happiness idk why but i feel great i went back to social media and tbh i dont care what my ex post i cant really explain it cuz its a weird feeling maybe its cuz i got 3 girls lined up/i got options or maybe cuz i got a couple tattoos i always wanted and i got some new clothes that increased my confidence
any of ya had that feeling before

Glad for you

Same thing oddly happened to me, saw that my ex was with some new guy and all I felt was indifference

shopping and having options really be making you feel brand new

 

[Bondye Vodou]

 

[Canon]

Festive season they ALL prioritize spending time with their highest potential dikk.. Dude is probably off work for like 2 weeks and they're playing the "wifey" role to the tee.

Just keep going to social events, people here discuss dating apps more than they discuss ACTUAL GOING OUT, to events not clubs.

You'll find so many chicks genuinely into you at a social event, who'll even make you promise to call or text them and will be chasing you trying to meet up etc

Join Yoga classes, gyms, comedy clubs, jazz festivals or other music related events, art galleries and private viewings, wine tasting tours etc you'll meet a lot "high quality" women who are enamored by you off conversation alone.

This app dependency on here is yet another weird place (white boy pick up artist incel culture) this thread has gone to.

Ok Breh you finally convinced me to delete the apps. It’s easy for me because I take part in a lot of activities already(yoga, Bjj classes) but I’m finally going to let it go. Nothing but trash on them any way.