Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[JOHN.KOOL]

I know most of y’all are into selling dreams but how does a breh get lots of Pusey without spending a dime on these women? I’m always tight with my money and I’d feel like a trick being a free meal to the women

Personality thats how. I have mentioned this before, the older homie who taught me game used to always take girls to the park, never spent a penny. If your funny and can develop and hold interesting conversation it will work.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

I get matches on tinder and hinge but can't get shyt off bumble. I use the same photos on all 3 but can't figure bumble out? Whose eatin off bumble? Got any tips?

I say as far as apps and sites for most attractive/higher caliber of womens IMO hinge>>bumble>>tinder>>pof>>okcupid.

I've paid for Tinder gold which is like $10 a month but you can see who likes you, get 5 boosts a day and you change what location you search from.

I'm letting my subscription run out tho. Seems like women with good jobs and shyt are over Tinder. I see way more doctors, lawyers etc. on Hinge and Bumble.

Since my Tinder gold is running out I started paying for Hinge. When you pay for hinge you get unlimited likes every day ( you get like 8-10 a day for free) and you can filter certain things out. So you can filter out race, if they have kids, all types of shyt.

Sometimes you gotta pay to play and between being able to see who likes you on Tinder and being able to filter out single moms on Hinge I say it's def worth it to at least try it out. I don't give a fukk if you got something to say about me paying for the apps so save that shyt for yourself. It is what it is, to me it's no different than corporations paying lobbyist to get bills passed .

That is such a poor comparision

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Personality thats how. I have mentioned this before, the older homie who taught me game used to always take girls to the park, never spent a penny. If your funny and can develop and hold interesting conversation it will work.

This is not true in 2020...
I remember a time when women resonated heavily to charisma and personality, they still do, but it's within a superficial context. It's not just charisma alone anymore.

That OG that used to take bytchs to the park would truly struggle pulling consistently in TODAY'S market.

I've made and lost and made and lost money in the last 5 years, I can unabashedly tell you that personality alone won't pull unless you come accross a chick that was molested, raped, grew up with a narcissistic mother, never had a positive male role model etc these girls will definitely resonate with being sold a dream, they are however extremely imbalanced and intrisicly hate alpha males. You'll be engaging in rough dominant sex and extreme bouts of mental instability/bat shyt craziness.

In today's game its not about spending the money, it's the fact that you got it. In whatever capacity or relative "rich" resourceful way.
Some girls want you to have your own pad and car, they don't necessarily wanna gold dig you per say, but if your logistics are in order, panties will drop.

The Game is different brehs

 

[Marzupial]

^^^ totally disagree

Me personally when I say charisma it's not just doing for this bytches

Is dudes that got it all day everyday, them dudes eat consistently in every part of the world, matter fact they don't need to do no work the women come to them

I know cause Iam one of them

facts!!

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

This is not true in 2020...
I remember a time when women resonated heavily to charisma and personality, they still do, but it's within a superficial context. It's not just charisma alone anymore.

That OG that used to take bytchs to the park would truly struggle pulling consistently in TODAY'S market.

I've made and lost and made and lost money in the last 5 years, I can unabashedly tell you that personality alone won't pull unless you come accross a chick that was molested, raped, grew up with a narcissistic mother, never had a positive male role model etc these girls will definitely resonate with being sold a dream, they are however extremely imbalanced and intrisicly hate alpha males. You'll be engaging in rough dominant sex and extreme bouts of mental instability/bat shyt craziness.

In today's game its not about spending the money, it's the fact that you got it. In whatever capacity or relative "rich" resourceful way.
Some girls want you to have your own pad and car, they don't necessarily wanna gold dig you per say, but if your logistics are in order, panties will drop.

The Game is different brehs

Not true. Personally is all I rely on, I don't ever spend money and inlet girls know upfront I don't like spending money on girls unless we are actually together, the result girls go halves on dates, girls suggest places that aren't very expensive like this Somali chick I was gonna go to some of talk with, suggest going to the the next day as the one she wanted to go was more expensive. I've had girls tell me that if I guy paid for everything they'd basically just see him as a meal ticket, girls, have admitted that to me.

The type of girls you talk about I don't mess with at all, you can tell from a glance, from a simple 5 minute conversation what type of girl she is and if she's about money that like I ain't checking for her.

Btw your in Africa breh, I'm in UK. I'm from Uganda and when I gothere the girls are by the VAST majority money motivated, encountered the same thing in Jamaica, but in London it ain't like that. You don't need to have a car or money to grab a girl

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Be upfront?

Breh stop giving Game "advice" if you haven't gotten none.

Women who allow you to be their fukk buddies are girls who enjoy fukking you but got other prospects that have more resources than you or a woman who sees you as an ultimate prize and would rather just keep fukking you than lose you completely,...all that vaginal advice "be upfront, some will take it some won't" is too vague and ambiguous.

Also most importantly women will be down with just sex when they're not attached to you, but once they started liking will get jeaoulous, territorial and go back on everything "you agreed upon" when she was like "I don't want anything serious"

The best option for a broke breh is to get in shape, stack up your money and entertain some average looking broads whilst you hustle so you don't completely starve, give up on the young cute bytchs for the time being.

Completely false.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

^^^ totally disagree

Me personally when I say charisma it's not just doing for this bytches

Is dudes that got it all day everyday, them dudes eat consistently in every part of the world, matter fact they don't need to do no work the women come to them

I know cause Iam one of them

facts!!

Fam hes an african that lives in Africa. As an african i can tell you african men dont have game. They rely on flashing money or the appearance of money in order to get women thats how 90% of them (the ones that live in Africa whatever country it is, go Uganda, Ghana, Nigeria, Sierre Leone its all the same stunting game and even the older generation ones that live in the west) move and they believe you cant get women any other way. African all stunt like they balling to get girls.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Not true. Personally is all I rely on, I don't ever spend money and inlet girls know upfront I don't like spending money on girls unless we are actually together, the result girls go halves on dates, girls suggest places that aren't very expensive like this Somali chick I was gonna go to some of talk with, suggest going to the the next day as the one she wanted to go was more expensive. I've had girls tell me that if I guy paid for everything they'd basically just see him as a meal ticket, girls, have admitted that to me.

The type of girls you talk about I don't mess with at all, you can tell from a glance, from a simple 5 minute conversation what type of girl she is and if she's about money that like I ain't checking for her.

Btw your in Africa breh, I'm in UK. I'm from Uganda and when I gothere the girls are by the VAST majority money motivated, encountered the same thing in Jamaica, but in London it ain't like that. You don't need to have a car or money to grab a girl

I know brehs in London, it's a differnt context altogether. Different ball game, specifically London, lot of mixed, lot of foreign chicks, rent is dumb high so working class aren't "balling" like that.

But I guarantee you, you'd not be able to pull that shyt off in Cape Town, Johannesburg, Sao Paolo, Nairobi, Colombia, Jamaica, Trinidad, Montreal etc

London is a terrible example, it's like a breh living in downtown Manhattan talking about he doesn't have a car and gets girls... You're already vindicated by your location.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

I know brehs in London, it's a differnt context altogether. Different ball game, specifically London, lot of mixed, lot of foreign chicks, rent is dumb high so working class aren't "balling" like that.

But I guarantee you, you'd not be able to pull that shyt off in Cape Town, Johannesburg, Sao Paolo, Nairobi, Colombia, Jamaica, Trinidad, Montreal etc

London is a terrible example, it's like a breh living in downtown Manhattan talking about he doesn't have a car and gets girls... You're already vindicated by your location.

I get what your saying. I was struggling in Jamaica when I went there for that very reason. Girls wanted me to spend that and I wasnt on it. But other places like Colombia you'd get girls just off being foreign. My boy was travelling in South America, I met him in Ecuador he was coming from Colombia and he was eating there just off being foreign. Same in Ecuador all without spending nothing.

I used to smoke back then, we met some chick in Ecuador and she was tryna throw the p*ssy at nikkas and we did nothing but smoke all her weed.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

I got one major question to ALL you brehs talking about you're bagging dimes off charisma alone.......... WHY ARE YOU IN THIS THREAD?

That ability renders you the Apex Male in the sexual market, some us hit the gym daily, dress well, good cologne selection etc and still have to have our logistics in order to bag multiple bad bytchs, whilst having game and charisma, you guys are claiming to get girls off charisma alone, wtf you're doing in this thread.

You should be writting books and doing podcast schooling the rest of us, especially if you're pulling this off with the current 18-30 year old women of today.. That's Iceberg Slim level Pimpin, it not better coz even Pimps dress sharp and drive nice cars to imply resources, y'all not even doing that, just mouth piece.


That's amazing brehs

 

[Marzupial]

I got one major question to ALL you brehs talking about you're bagging dimes off charisma alone.......... WHY ARE YOU IN THIS THREAD?

That ability renders you the Apex Male in the sexual market, some us hit the gym daily, dress well, good cologne selection etc and still have to have our logistics in order to bag multiple bad bytchs, whilst having game and charisma, you guys are claiming to get girls off charisma alone, wtf you're doing in this thread.

You should be writting books and doing podcast schooling the rest of us, especially if you're pulling this off with the current 18-30 year old women of today.. That's Iceberg Slim level Pimpin, it not better coz even Pimps dress sharp and drive nice cars to imply resources, y'all not even doing that, just mouth piece.


That's amazing brehs

Iam gonna answer this

To me personally is to laugh at other peoples stories

To have charisma you gotta know thyself, you gotta know what makes you laugh what makes you feel good

And go for it

Reading nikkas Ls to me is good in two ways:

It makes me laugh

And also it makes me learn from others mistakes

 

[Cape Town JHB]

I get what your saying. I was struggling in Jamaica when I went there for that very reason. Girls wanted me to spend that and I wasnt on it. But other places like Colombia you'd get girls just off being foreign. My boy was travelling in South America, I met him in Ecuador he was coming from Colombia and he was eating there just off being foreign. Same in Ecuador all without spending nothing.

I used to smoke back then, we met some chick in Ecuador and she was tryna throw the p*ssy at nikkas and we did nothing but smoke all her weed.

I fully understand the "foreign guy" appeal, I've played it to the tee multiple times, even the "out of town guy" card.

What I'm struggling to belive is that ALL things are equal, you don't dress up to suggest resourcefulness, you don't have no nice Yves or Paco Ronan or Creed cologne, you dresses regular, look regular (no gym in shape cut and lean body) you spit Game at random hot chicks and don't even suggest anything that might require money (like drinks later on Orr anything of the nature) and you consistently get bad bytchs, globally. In all my life and travels I've never seen anything like that.

Part of a foreign guy appeal is the fact that you could afford to fly half way accross the world to be wherever you're at!(money is already implied there), if you're dressed well (that implies money too,even if the clothes you're wearing ain't expensive), all the courting signals are usually subconscious communication of being resourceful, THEN your mouthpiece (Game/Charimsa) seals the deal.

But I'm very interested in hearing other brehs chiming in. Especially brehs who've made money, and lost and made it again.

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Oh BTW if you brehs are a bunch of pretty boys ima punch you in the face

That shyt don't count.

"how" a pretty boy gets girls is completely irrelevant and useless for regular brehs, whether he's broke or frugal.
Come back to us when your looks plummet

 

[Cape Town JHB]

Fam hes an african that lives in Africa. As an african i can tell you african men dont have game. They rely on flashing money or the appearance of money in order to get women thats how 90% of them (the ones that live in Africa whatever country it is, go Uganda, Ghana, Nigeria, Sierre Leone its all the same stunting game and even the older generation ones that live in the west) move and they believe you cant get women any other way. African all stunt like they balling to get girls.

Come to Cape Town and bring your girl breh... We got no Game here whastover, everything I know I learned from the Coli

I assumed everyone on the forum was
"African from Africa"

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Come to Cape Town and bring your girl breh... We got no Game here whastover, everything I know I learned from the Coli

I assumed everyone on the forum was
"African from Africa"

Then i know your games trash You learned from the coli simps and nikkas who spend all day swiping right on tinder. As for the last bit you are well aware most nikkas in here dont live in Africa, i dont know why you put African from Africa in quotations when clearly in the post you quoted i said African who LIVES IN Africa.

Oh BTW if you brehs are a bunch of pretty boys ima punch you in the face

That shyt don't count.

"how" a pretty boy gets girls is completely irrelevant and useless for regular brehs, whether he's broke or frugal.
Come back to us when your looks plummet

This is true