Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs tell me how I can reduce the platonic female energy in my life

Dont really mind having female acquaintances cause @Hennessypapi already schooled me on how to use them but I need some romantic energy
 

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Brehs tell me how I can reduce the platonic female energy in my life

Dont really mind having female acquaintances cause @Hennessypapi already schooled me on how to use them but I need some romantic energy
Kinda hard to do over the internet since I can't see you in person but

a lot of it has to do with your aura and how you approach women

Don't give off a friendly vibe, give off a sexual vibe
 

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Kinda hard to do over the internet since I can't see you in person but

a lot of it has to do with your aura and how you approach women

Don't give off a friendly vibe, give off a sexual vibe

Yeah I think i'm giving off way too much of a friendly vibe.

Hopefully a new diet, gym and building my confidence up will help a bit more:manny:

Appreciate the game as always, your gems on female friends really helped me out :salute:
 

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Yeah I think i'm giving off way too much of a friendly vibe.

Hopefully a new diet, gym and building my confidence up will help a bit more:manny:

Appreciate the game as always, your gems on female friends really helped me out :salute:
How's the female friends thing working out?

U been hittin the scene with them lately?
 

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How's the female friends thing working out?

U been hittin the scene with them lately?

Im learning to build boundaries better, express my feelings better and most importantly learn more about the true nature of women cause they're comfortable with me.

On the other hand, I still feel like an orbiter/bestie type nikka:scust:

Went clubbing with them and my boy the other day. My (girl) friend bought a new girl through but she weren't really feeling me :yeshrug:

Still had fun and learnt some new shyt:myman:
 

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Im learning to build boundaries better, express my feelings better and most importantly learn more about the true nature of women cause they're comfortable with me.

On the other hand, I still feel like an orbiter/bestie type nikka:scust:

Went clubbing with them and my boy the other day. My (girl) friend bought a new girl through but she weren't really feeling me :yeshrug:

Still had fun and learnt some new shyt:myman:

how tall are you and have you ever been called ugly?
u might need to talk less. or do the complete opposite of whatever it is you do when you're around girls.
 

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Im learning to build boundaries better, express my feelings better and most importantly learn more about the true nature of women cause they're comfortable with me.

On the other hand, I still feel like an orbiter/bestie type nikka:scust:

Went clubbing with them and my boy the other day. My (girl) friend bought a new girl through but she weren't really feeling me :yeshrug:

Still had fun and learnt some new shyt:myman:
You tried to holla?



Should played the cool role until yall got yo know each other better
 

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Brehs tell me how I can reduce the platonic female energy in my life

Dont really mind having female acquaintances cause @Hennessypapi already schooled me on how to use them but I need some romantic energy

a lot of guys text women a lot throughout the day but about regular shyt like hey hows ur day going or what are you up to
which is fine but if u dont sprinkle in some sexual shyt they're just gona see u like one of their girl friends.
or when they chill they dont initiate physical contact or try to kiss them and shyt so they're like oh this guys nice but hes not tryna fukk me
i talk about sex real casual and not random shyt like "so what do u like during sex"
i also change the subject whenever they start complaining about shyt. i dont give a fukk about their problems and dont wana read about other ppls shyt so i change it to something fun/positive.
a girl telling u all her problems and not giving you ass :camby:
 

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Kinda hard to do over the internet since I can't see you in person but

a lot of it has to do with your aura and how you approach women

Don't give off a friendly vibe, give off a sexual vibe

This is gospel. I realized in an attempt to curtail my natural demeanor to be more...approachable? To women I was actually lighting a super flare for them to place me in do not fukk zone. Ive noticed a big difference not just with hoes but in general just accepting how dark and myopic my aura is and rolling with it. Unapologetically being you (best version of you I suppose cuz if you naturally lame, might not be the best) is attractive. If they dont like it peqce but Im done trying to change up how I really am for anyone or anything.
 

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This is gospel. I realized in an attempt to curtail my natural demeanor to be more...approachable? To women I was actually lighting a super flare for them to place me in do not fukk zone. Ive noticed a big difference not just with hoes but in general just accepting how dark and myopic my aura is and rolling with it. Unapologetically being you (best version of you I suppose cuz if you naturally lame, might not be the best) is attractive. If they dont like it peqce but Im done trying to change up how I really am for anyone or anything.
Just be the best version of YOU
 

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how tall are you and have you ever been called ugly?
u might need to talk less. or do the complete opposite of whatever it is you do when you're around girls.

Im 5'7, skinny and average looking but I have glasses atm.

Dont think I've been called ugly but definitely have a lot to improve on.

I'll try talking less and see how that goes :yeshrug:
 

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Im 5'7, skinny and average looking but I have glasses atm.

Dont think I've been called ugly but definitely have a lot to improve on.

I'll try talking less and see how that goes :yeshrug:
Your problem is probably not creating any attraction with these women in fear of losing their friendship. You need to let them know your attracted to them in a non creepy way and if they don’t want to be cool stop talking to them. Your pulling the trigger to late or not pulling it a all. Most of my homies are short but they never had a problem with women because they were uber confident and went for it.
 
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