1) Never take a woman too seriously
- Building your life around women and making her the center of your existence will have you looking crazy, desperate and all other sorts of things. Always have several things you put ahead of dealing with women. You never know what a woman will do next, so enjoy her time while she is here, but you got to be able to keep a smile on your face if she leaves.
2) The flyer you are, the easier it is to deal with women
- It's almost as if women are Jekyll and Hyde. If she's not feeling your look/style/presence, conversing with her will be like having dental work done. If she is digging your presence, all of a sudden her conversation is sweeter and much more free-flowing. Working on your appearance is a must and makes things 10,000 times easier.
3) Always realize you have options
Occasionally we stumble upon a girl and start feeling like she is the only one for us, which puts us in a position that makes us dependent on her and just allowing a lot of things slide that shouldn't. When you realize that if you're handling business, the next woman is always around the corner, you will stop putting up with half the nonsense that you are dealing with. If a woman is to deal with you, she has to bring positivity towards your life, not drama and nonsense. When you think of a particular woman you're dealing with, if the overall vibe you get is one of negativity and worry, then it's time to keep it pushing. It may be painful at first like getting over some addiction, but in the long-run, it will be much better for your health. Sticking with a woman who is bringing you all kinds of drama because you just figure she's the best you can get is desperate and weak. Get out of that mindset, get out of that relationship and step your game up and bring something more positive and righteous into your realm.
4) Respect is to always be maintained
- If a woman attempts to bring nonsense and disorder to my life, she is getting cut out of my life, period. If a woman is making these sly, under-handed remarks to you, just flaking all the time, and acting a fool, kick her to the curb. There is no need to put up with a noncommittal woman when there are other women who would love to spend time with you. Part of being a man of value is to actually seek out those women who VALUE YOU. We give pretty women a longer leash, but you have to come to the point where you say bye bye to them too and just have consistency with how you treat people. Once you can see past looks, you will be much more able to judge personality and morals, which is what will truly determine long-term success.
5) Maintain your character and integrity
Don't become a vagina slave and allow the pursuit of women to completely morph you into a different person. It's easy to get into this line of thinking where you turn into some pick-up artist and you just start completely changing everything about you in order to attract women. If it comes down to maintaining your integrity and who you are or changing up your core, decent essence in order to keep some woman around, choose the former.