100%. It also makes your more comfortable knowing that if you bag a chick, you can go out on a date in your whip / invite her over to your place and that will increase your confidence.
But you should never let it hold you back or push yourself to get those things just for women.
This is what Im dealing with right now. Ive been living back at home with my moms since the end of last July

Not because I can't afford my own pad (I was on my own for nine years) I have a ding on my renters history that's scaring away leasing managers . shyt is a unlawful retainer eviction from where I lived at SIX YEARS AGO . Long story short, when I lived there, I was given a voucher for a free months rent that was signed and dated by their manager. They accepted it only to tell me that it was invalid two weeks later

I disputed the claim, took it to small claims court only to lose the case because the judge was friends with their attorney. I paid that month's rent , along with their attorney fees and I agreed to terminate my lease and move out . The last apartments I lived at never brought this up because I had my mom co sign my lease there for I was inbetween jobs but I had funds . Also, I thought it was all resolved instead of them trying to say that I owe them over $1400 (rent and legal fees) which I paid them already

I gotta go to the courthouse this week to clear my name because it looks like this will stay on my renters history until next year if I don't
Not having my own place while trying to date feels like someone's clipped my wings . Especially at 33
