Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm saying. And thats not even to say my bro is a bum or that anybody who lives with their parents are...everyone has certain reasons. The point is that most girls dont fukk with dudes for material reasons unless the dude is a trick. Theres no way around it. In fact...a girl could even like a dude but as soon as he starts tricking I can guarantee she'll stop feeling homie and will just use him for gifts/favors.
yep that's why you should never take anything a women says seriously some of these women who say they only wants ballers are fukking with bums
 

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i swear some of these dudes are clueless.

my brother is 28, still lives at home with me and my parents, and has a subway pass as his transportation. My bro doesnt even dress well man.

his girl comes here, stays the night and fukks here too. It's whatever. If a girl sees promise / attraction in you she will deal with it. Mind you she was doing this even when she had her own condo/whip.

I dont have my own place, car either but I believe I'm still that nikka regardless so i'll never let that stop me. Especially when not having a car has allowed me to save money very astutely.

im almost 30 and i still live at home, never had a problem, my ex basically moved in at one point

i already said before i fa girl likes you , height , weight, status, ugliness, money, none of that matters
 

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Having a car and your own place or not, is not the be all or end of all things. I wont lie to you guys, it helps and women look at you differently because you become a man of value.
100%. It also makes your more comfortable knowing that if you bag a chick, you can go out on a date in your whip / invite her over to your place and that will increase your confidence.

But you should never let it hold you back or push yourself to get those things just for women.
 

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100%. It also makes your more comfortable knowing that if you bag a chick, you can go out on a date in your whip / invite her over to your place and that will increase your confidence.

But you should never let it hold you back or push yourself to get those things just for women.

This is what Im dealing with right now. Ive been living back at home with my moms since the end of last July :snoop: Not because I can't afford my own pad (I was on my own for nine years) I have a ding on my renters history that's scaring away leasing managers . shyt is a unlawful retainer eviction from where I lived at SIX YEARS AGO . Long story short, when I lived there, I was given a voucher for a free months rent that was signed and dated by their manager. They accepted it only to tell me that it was invalid two weeks later :comeon: I disputed the claim, took it to small claims court only to lose the case because the judge was friends with their attorney. I paid that month's rent , along with their attorney fees and I agreed to terminate my lease and move out . The last apartments I lived at never brought this up because I had my mom co sign my lease there for I was inbetween jobs but I had funds . Also, I thought it was all resolved instead of them trying to say that I owe them over $1400 (rent and legal fees) which I paid them already :mindblown: I gotta go to the courthouse this week to clear my name because it looks like this will stay on my renters history until next year if I don't :damn:

Not having my own place while trying to date feels like someone's clipped my wings . Especially at 33 :beli:
 

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Ended up having a convo with ole girl and after a while of talking she basically agreed to being a friend with benefits(As if that really matters lol.)
 

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Want to make sure I'm not pulling a Kent here.

Cashier at this place I frequent made conversation with me out of the blue about a week ago. Commented on how frequently I come in since I work at a neighboring business. Made a little small talk after that and then I went on my way.

I know that it's a cashier's job to be nice to everyone, but still I wanted to see if there was something there I could run with or not. First instinct was it probably wasn't anything.
 

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Want to make sure I'm not pulling a Kent here.

Cashier at this place I frequent made conversation with me out of the blue about a week ago. Commented on how frequently I come in since I work at a neighboring business. Made a little small talk after that and then I went on my way.

I know that it's a cashier's job to be nice to everyone, but still I wanted to see if there was something there I could run with or not. First instinct was it probably wasn't anything.

It's impossible to read a woman's mind, so talk to her some more and make some invitation to remain in contact or to spend time together if you see she is receptive to your conversation

if she rejects you, oh well, there are a ton of other women out there. In other words, it's a waste of time to try to 'predict' what a woman is really thinking. you'll miss out on ones who may not be outwardly showy with their interest or you'll convince yourself she's not interested when she really is. You will never really know unless you make that move.
 

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I haven't dated or talked to a woman who has been genuinely interested in me for years. The girl I'm currently talking to, is sending me pics of herself everyday, initiating convos, she flying hundreds of miles to come see me next weekend for our first date. This is soooo foreign to me, not used to a woman making the effort to get to know me and flying out for me.:mjcry:
 

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I haven't dated or talked to a woman who has been genuinely interested in me for years. The girl I'm currently talking to, is sending me pics of herself everyday, initiating convos, she flying hundreds of miles to come see me next weekend for our first date. This is soooo foreign to me, not used to a woman making the effort to get to know me and flying out for me.:mjcry:


remember how we always state in this thread
When a woman IS INTO YOU, you will know it.

This is why I don't chase, pin etc. mope over chicks who don't have that enthuasim because I know when a woman is totally into you how they act.
 

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remember how we always state in this thread
When a woman IS INTO YOU, you will know it.

This is why I don't chase, pin etc. mope over chicks who don't have that enthuasim because I know when a woman is totally into you how they act.

Yep.

My co-worker is feeling me, can't do anything about it though (boyfriend...and he works there too). :huhldup:
 
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I pulled the plug on things with my shorty. She was getting way too needy for my taste. Constantly arguing with me about not seeing me enough. My work schedule is hellacious and I have to get my gym time in. She's bummed and still wants to chill. I'm good though. Only here until July, then I'm going back to Virginia. I have plenty of shorties lined up for the summer anyway. Life is great gentlemen.

Call me crazy, but I didn't see anything wrong with homie and the Japanese girl. That picture was harmless in my opinion. I wouldn't have been upset about that at all. Especially given our distance.
 
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