Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf How would yall feel if you found out your woman keeps old photo albums full of pictures of her exes from over a decade ago locked up in the closet even though she never looks at them? Those pics gotta go, right???

You're being insecure

People are allowed to keep their memories of things that happened in their life

I still have photos of exes.
 

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@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf How would yall feel if you found out your woman keeps old photo albums full of pictures of her exes from over a decade ago locked up in the closet even though she never looks at them? Those pics gotta go, right???
I keep mostly everything, iPhone is great because it keeps all the text and pictures for years. If ever one of them try and play me on some funny shyt like i ain't smash or had them telling me that they love me, I got proof :youngsabo:
 

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@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf How would yall feel if you found out your woman keeps old photo albums full of pictures of her exes from over a decade ago locked up in the closet even though she never looks at them? Those pics gotta go, right???

I mean if they are pics among several other pics and she has no lines of communication open with them ala phone numbers, facebook, etc., then I could see it as possibly being ok, but if it's more like she's still cool with all of them and keeps in touch, that would be a concern.
 

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@kevm3 @Emperor_ReinScarf How would yall feel if you found out your woman keeps old photo albums full of pictures of her exes from over a decade ago locked up in the closet even though she never looks at them? Those pics gotta go, right???


If its just a bunch of pictures of one random ex and they weren't like married or something then I might have issue with it. If its random pics from a couple different exes then nah, some people like to hold on to memories.
 

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Its sad though, and its not just women in general. Luckily volunteering is bringing our my old shell again

I remember buying flowers, writing poetry. Cooking a meal.

Showing up unexpectedly etc. Now that ish would prob get me screen capped and laughed and looked at a simp or sucker.

I did all that ish and still got stabbed in the back so now I'm cautious. It doesn't matter how close I get to a chick if necessary I'm always prepared to walk away.
 

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I mean if they are pics among several other pics and she has no lines of communication open with them ala phone numbers, facebook, etc., then I could see it as possibly being ok, but if it's more like she's still cool with all of them and keeps in touch, that would be a concern.


Yeah I have pics of me and exes from college just saved on a Hard Drive. Haven't thought about them in years.....just old memories.
 

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What happened?
Idk man it's complicated. I'm just ready to have some fun and shorty was too hesitant on meeting me halfway on a few things. she has a "take it or leave it attitude" when I'd bring up concerns. She treated me like a king but I want her to behave more like a queen. It's complicated. Knowing us we'll get back together one day. But I need to "acquaint" myself with other women in the meantime.
 

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@twan83

Its sad though, and its not just women in general. Luckily volunteering is bringing our my old shell again

I remember buying flowers, writing poetry. Cooking a meal.

Showing up unexpectedly etc. Now that ish would prob get me screen capped and laughed and looked at a simp or sucker.

I did all that ish and still got stabbed in the back so now I'm cautious. It doesn't matter how close I get to a chick if necessary I'm always prepared to walk away.


man I'm married i aint like how i use to be I'm a straight ass to be honest i dont deny that
back in day i was same way as u but its like when i try to do those things it dont feel right or organic dont like to force it cuz i feel uncomfortable doing it that way

kind of accepted its who i am now but at same time i do wish i wasn't that same way cuz even tho i was nice and romantic and all that shyt never caused me issues a lot in a sense but when it did it was way too severe cuz i didnt see some things coming or if i did i turned a blind eye like a dumbass and thats my fault
 

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Idk man it's complicated. I'm just ready to have some fun and shorty was too hesitant on meeting me halfway on a few things. she has a "take it or leave it attitude" when I'd bring up concerns. She treated me like a king but I want her to behave more like a queen. It's complicated. Knowing us we'll get back together one day. But I need to "acquaint" myself with other women in the meantime.

How do you feel knowing shes acquainting herself with other dudes before you magically get back together

:win:

its done breh
 
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