i dont believe in "breaks" and geting back together.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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neither do i
same shyt with separation hit em with the
and say i rather be single and ready to mingle legally not some break shyt and say ya were separated or on a break shyt to another broadthe most important thing about love being in love is if you are true to urself aka remain who u are
tread lightly cuz its a good chance its that blind love that u cant see what it truly is but the feeling is so great u dont wanna let go but in reality its better to let go if it is that love cuz u love urself in the long run and when u find out its that it maybe really hard to recover whats left of urself
tread lightly cuz its a good chance its that blind love that u cant see what it truly is but the feeling is so great u dont wanna let go but in reality its better to let go if it is that love cuz u love urself in the long run and when u find out its that it maybe really hard to recover whats left of urself
DeeezNuts
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Yea I'm with you on this... fukk all that "breaks" or "need some space" shyt... I dont even entertain that shyt.... gotta let birds fly... but bytch once them words come out your mouth... its a wrap... and I let them know that shyt
whenever a woman drops that "break" it just means she wants to date another guy, or get some new dikk and if it doesn't work out we were on a break I'm ready. And if it does work out well this break showed me we weren't really compatible for each other.
DeeezNuts
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i always did this when i was single
dating = we talking probably fukking but not exclusive. let them know it very clearly u do u and i'll do me and if things progress great well go to the next step
gf/bf = exactly what it means were exclusive nobody fukking u or me. no excuses for cheating since were gf/bf
ive dated so many damn females its absurd i even dated one female over a damn yr if memory served me correct
I'm extremely picky bout the gf thing i take it serious I've never had many serious relationships i can count them all on one hand
dating = we talking probably fukking but not exclusive. let them know it very clearly u do u and i'll do me and if things progress great well go to the next step
gf/bf = exactly what it means were exclusive nobody fukking u or me. no excuses for cheating since were gf/bf
ive dated so many damn females its absurd i even dated one female over a damn yr if memory served me correct
I'm extremely picky bout the gf thing i take it serious I've never had many serious relationships i can count them all on one hand
I'm at the point in my life, where I'm perfectly fine being single. It's funny because at 21 I was engaged and went through my whole 20's it seems in and out dating, or always talking to someone or getting over someone or casual dating, and now it's just nothing. Not getting over anyone, not dating, not in a relationship I just have an old ex who comes by and we hang but it's like platonic even though I know I could if I wanted to
but I just don't care 
.I constantly weigh the risk v the reward. I remember all those nights in darkness, how long it took me to recover and get to this point and I dunno if it's worth it to be honest. I see what's out there and I'm not impressed. my life is damn GOOD for once in a very long time,
sad thing is I have options, sad thing is I'd make a great husband and a great dad, I just don't see the reward.
It's like being at a level of 95/100 you can take a risk and open that box and maybe you'll be at 100/100 but maybe after a while that box will bring you down to even 75/100 or even like 50
is it worth it for that 5? I really don't know I really don't know
i've only had 2 serious relationships
ive prob been on dates with like over 100 women
im like you i'm picky. As i always say commitment is the male vagina. And only 2 people have gotten my commitment.
I'm at the point in my life, where I'm perfectly fine being single. It's funny because at 21 I was engaged and went through my whole 20's it seems in and out of relationships, or always talking to someone or getting over someone or dating, and now it's just nothing. Not getting over anyone, not dating, not in a relationship I just have an old ex who comes by and we hang but it's like platonic even though I know I could if I wanted to
I constantly weigh the risk v the reward. I remember all those nights in darkness, how long it took me to recover and get to this point and I dunno if it's worth it to be honest. I see what's out there and I'm not impressed. my life is damn GOOD for once in a very long time,
sad thing is I have options, sad thing is I'd make a great husband and a great dad, I just don't see the reward.
It's like being at a level of 95/100 you can take a risk and open that box and maybe you'll be at 100/100 but maybe after a while that box will bring you down to even 75/100 or even like 50
is it worth it for that 5? I really don't know I really don't know
with u its gonna come down too this
ur in a great point and space in life where u wont let any woman bring u down at all which is a great thing
past experiences taught u so much and u learned from it unlike most
u will get married and be a father when the time is right and that time will be unexpected and hit u outta the blue but at the same time u will be smart, wise and still be the same person that u could find happiness with the proper lady
if not u still will have that proper happiness without the proper lady
which most men should strive for happiness without a lady and when the lady part comes and its organic and right even better
with u its gonna come down too this
ur in a great point and space in life where u wont let any woman bring u down at all which is a great thing
past experiences taught u so much and u learned from it unlike most
u will get married and be a father when the time is right and that time will be unexpected and hit u outta the blue but at the same time u will be smart, wise and still be the same person that u could find happiness with the proper lady
if not u still will have that proper happiness without the proper lady
which most men should strive for happiness without a lady and when the lady part comes and its organic and right even better
yeah Im not even looking, just like this job I'm starting in a week I wasn't even looking, my brother in law just told me and boom.
I'm thankful for all my past experiences even though some were hard but I learned alot. I'm smarter and wiser in terms of relationships or just reading women. I'm not afraid to leave, actually the only think im afraid of is just wasting my time and well I don't anymore. The old reinscarf who would just date for the fun of it even if she didn't reach one checkpoint but she was beautiful etc. is dead.
true whatever happens happens, ill just concentrate on teh things i can control
Rocket Scientist
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There is a season for everything.Some find love in their 20's,some in their 30's.Just keep doing your thing and women will come.Love your craft,job,hobbies,and women will come.Remember not everyone in a relationship or marriage is happy.Grass is never green.
bytch won't stop blowing me up and texting me, but when I ask her a time to go out..."When my life chills out...got a lot of shyt going on." But you telling me you playing 3rd wheel to your homegirl and cockblocking on her date on Saturday night.. 
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Isn't it amazing that women can demand this and that he has to be tall, has to have a good job has to have his own place bla bla bla.
But if a man you have qualifications your slut shaming, your a misognyst, you want to control woman
Every man has the right to want a woman that lives the same lifestyle he is adhering to.
If you don't sleep around, don't club hop, treat people with respect have no kids etc., it's not slut shaming to want a woman that hasn't bonded with 20 dudes, its not misognyst to want a respectful submissive women.
But if a man you have qualifications your slut shaming, your a misognyst, you want to control woman
Every man has the right to want a woman that lives the same lifestyle he is adhering to.
If you don't sleep around, don't club hop, treat people with respect have no kids etc., it's not slut shaming to want a woman that hasn't bonded with 20 dudes, its not misognyst to want a respectful submissive women.
Same here. Ever since I broke up with my ex over 5 years ago, I just felt reluctant to jump in a relationship. The last chick I was stringing along honestly and everytime she tried to bring it up, I'd kind of beat around the bush. That girl wasn't going to be my GF because for one, she met me at a party and told me weeks later she had a BF after the fact we already hung out and made out. Since that happened, I never entertained being her BF. This other chick around the same time I was messing with was just fukking terms. She lived in my house so it was easy access to p*ssy but she liked me and tried to tie me down but I wasn't beat for her bs and plus she wasn't looking too good besides having a nice ass.
Now when I find a chick who's GF material, she's all the way in east bubblefukk
. Yeah, I'll see her soon and all but I'm sure once I'm leaving it'll be 
all again.I remembered she started tearing up on Skype one night because she wanted to be in my presence or so she said. shyt came out of nowhere too. It wasn't like she was telling me a sob story or anything, we were just having a regular azz convo and she listening and next thing you know I see
