Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[u mad son?]

i dont believe in "breaks" and geting back together.

Bro this was one rule I had from the start, infact before I even ever got in a relationship I always said to myself "this having a break and getting together stuff is bullshyt, either u riding with me or ur not"

it was when my ex told me she wanted a break, and i was simping on a "cool, well see how it goes" one, hoping she changed her mind. thats when it hit me like .... wtf? ive lost myself, this aint me! ive actually lost myself and need to find myself again.

dont ever let a chick change ur morals and guidelines in life like that

 

[MikelArteta]

Bro this was one rule I had from the start, infact before I even ever got in a relationship I always said to myself "this having a break and getting together stuff is bullshyt, either u riding with me or ur not"

it was when my ex told me she wanted a break, and i was simping on a "cool, well see how it goes" one, hoping she changed her mind. thats when it hit me like .... wtf? ive lost myself, this aint me! ive actually lost myself and need to find myself again.

dont ever let a chick change ur morals and guidelines in life like that

a break is always a breakup

and yeah man if you aren't aware with your rules/principles/guidelines you may be so emotionally caught up that everything you thought held dear you'll now be giving leeway.

I remember my rule always no friends with exes none at all, yet i broke it last tim eand almost took me 5 years to get out of that muck.

 

[u mad son?]

a break is always a breakup

and yeah man if you aren't aware with your rules/principles/guidelines you may be so emotionally caught up that everything you thought held dear you'll now be giving leeway.

I remember my rule always no friends with exes none at all, yet i broke it last tim eand almost took me 5 years to get out of that muck.

For real man, when you get emotionally caught up like that you feel like you would happily twist and forget about ur rules you had about relationships before just because you think this chick really is the one, and that you wont ever find a chick like that again. But little do you know (especially if you told her your rules and regulations) that she knows she got you caught up and are already making excuses and throwing that shyt out the window just to stay with her, from then on she thinks shes got a hold of you and if anything you do wrong (no matter how small it is) shell be saying she wants to end it ... and youll be there looking at her with them puppy dog eyes like "naw dont do me like that"

fukk all that, if she aint acting right and you gave her more than a few chances kick that bytch out the door

 

[twan83]

Same here. Ever since I broke up with my ex over 5 years ago, I just felt reluctant to jump in a relationship. The last chick I was stringing along honestly and everytime she tried to bring it up, I'd kind of beat around the bush. That girl wasn't going to be my GF because for one, she met me at a party and told me weeks later she had a BF after the fact we already hung out and made out. Since that happened, I never entertained being her BF. This other chick around the same time I was messing with was just fukking terms. She lived in my house so it was easy access to p*ssy but she liked me and tried to tie me down but I wasn't beat for her bs and plus she wasn't looking too good besides having a nice ass.

Now when I find a chick who's GF material, she's all the way in east bubblefukk . Yeah, I'll see her soon and all but I'm sure once I'm leaving it'll be all again.

I remembered she started tearing up on Skype one night because she wanted to be in my presence or so she said. shyt came out of nowhere too. It wasn't like she was telling me a sob story or anything, we were just having a regular azz convo and she listening and next thing you know I see

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thats just how it is breh
shyt comes out of nowhere

I'm very well experienced been married more than once I've learned a lot thru all the shyt i been thru in the past pre marriage and post marriage

shorty on the other side of country thing sux i feel u i was engaged that way to my first love planned on getting married the summer i was gonna visit but shyt fell thru

if she really wanna ride with u even being in another country just let her especially if she homegrown over there they are the best. if u decide to make it serious its gonna be tough but it can work on both ends if communication is open and constant

 

[MikelArteta]

For real man, when you get emotionally caught up like that you feel like you would happily twist and forget about ur rules you had about relationships before just because you think this chick really is the one, and that you wont ever find a chick like that again. But little do you know (especially if you told her your rules and regulations) that she knows she got you caught up and are already making excuses and throwing that shyt out the window just to stay with her, from then on she thinks shes got a hold of you and if anything you do wrong (no matter how small it is) shell be saying she wants to end it ... and youll be there looking at her with them puppy dog eyes like "naw dont do me like that"

fukk all that, if she aint acting right and you gave her more than a few chances kick that bytch out the door

yep that's why my word is my word and the moment you go back on your word you lose her respect.

like i said the only thing a woman can hold over you is sex, her beauty and a emotional connection

Any woman can give you sex
there will always be women out there hotter than her
and a emotional connection can be formed with any broad you date for awhile

 

[MikelArteta]

Same here. Ever since I broke up with my ex over 5 years ago, I just felt reluctant to jump in a relationship. The last chick I was stringing along honestly and everytime she tried to bring it up, I'd kind of beat around the bush. That girl wasn't going to be my GF because for one, she met me at a party and told me weeks later she had a BF after the fact we already hung out and made out. Since that happened, I never entertained being her BF. This other chick around the same time I was messing with was just fukking terms. She lived in my house so it was easy access to p*ssy but she liked me and tried to tie me down but I wasn't beat for her bs and plus she wasn't looking too good besides having a nice ass.

Now when I find a chick who's GF material, she's all the way in east bubblefukk . Yeah, I'll see her soon and all but I'm sure once I'm leaving it'll be all again.

I remembered she started tearing up on Skype one night because she wanted to be in my presence or so she said. shyt came out of nowhere too. It wasn't like she was telling me a sob story or anything, we were just having a regular azz convo and she listening and next thing you know I see

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like i said just enjoy it, dont worry about the future it will sort itself out.

everything happens for a reason man. You may go and have one of the best weeks ever and you'll prob come back kicking yourself for all the time you wasted thinking about or bent out ever shape over your ex. On some yes there are better women out there, women I can just be myself and there into me. Maybe that's all you need.

Your whole mindframe will change man you'll come and be like why im i wasting time on these bottom barrel low quality women.

It may not last but the positves will be great.

Breh just think i remember you posting in this thread like a year ago, still obsessed with your ex, being disrespected as she brought guys in, laying with her in bed wanting to make moves and just getting the friends line.

And now look breh now look , she ain't even on your mind anymore, your gong away and going to come back a changed man, your going to be treated like a gawt damn king.

and this is the way it should be, stop wasting time, thoughts, anything on women who do not have you as a priority who do not feel the same way or want the same things you do. Because yes the world is a damn big place and there will be a woman out there who will show you what its like when a woman is really into you.

 

[Fatboi1]

like i said just enjoy it, dont worry about the future it will sort itself out.

everything happens for a reason man. You may go and have one of the best weeks ever and you'll prob come back kicking yourself for all the time you wasted thinking about or bent out ever shape over your ex. On some yes there are better women out there, women I can just be myself and there into me. Maybe that's all you need.

Your whole mindframe will change man you'll come and be like why im i wasting time on these bottom barrel low quality women.

It may not last but the positves will be great.

Breh just think i remember you posting in this thread like a year ago, still obsessed with your ex, being disrespected as she brought guys in, laying with her in bed wanting to make moves and just getting the friends line.

And now look breh now look , she ain't even on your mind anymore, your gong away and going to come back a changed man, your going to be treated like a gawt damn king.

and this is the way it should be, stop wasting time, thoughts, anything on women who do not have you as a priority who do not feel the same way or want the same things you do. Because yes the world is a damn big place and there will be a woman out there who will show you what its like when a woman is really into you.

Plus I got my job back they called me today so I'm coming back to it when I return. Lol my ex isn't even a phase to me at all. i see her, say hi and keep it moving. Sometimes she does try to make small talk but that's it. I remember getting butterflies when I'd see her or see her with her man but now I feel nothing at all lol.

 

[MikelArteta]

Plus I got my job back they called me today so I'm coming back to it when I return. Lol my ex isn't even a phase to me at all. i see her, say hi and keep it moving. Sometimes she does try to make small talk but that's it. I remember getting butterflies when I'd see her or see her with her man but now I feel nothing at all lol.

indifference

as I always say these women aren't special. Any woman that is not with you in a committed loving relationship is NOT SPECIAL. Once you kill the emotional connection its meh, INDIFFERENCE!! They can all be replaced, and I guarantee you one day your ex will try and come back now that you are the man she fell for before.

and see how great everything is going? LIfe can change in a instant, sometimes gotta rot in the muck but when your out of it

 

[reserved_one]

So I finally got the chance to kick it with the redbone during the weekend......Yeah its not gonna workout lol. First she asked me about my recent failed relationship that I wanted to avoid discussing. But I let her know what was what so she can move on



The other half of the conversation was mostly about religion and current events surrounding black people.Its cool that she's conscious and her eyes lit up when I was dropping some gems but she spent nearly the entire time rambling going on & on until I began getting . I don't mind talking about our issues but damn....I wanted to use the wrap it up button if I had one.


Also she's an Israelite.....I consider myself to be Agnostic. She was trying to force her beliefs on to me and I'm just sitting there nearlye passed out likecause I had been drinking . She was happy that I sat through all of that and listened so I thought "Yes, now here we go..its time"


and boom her mother walks in which I thought was spending the night with her boyfriend


It turns out her night got cut short because he took her out on a date to McDonalds which made her irriate



So I already know we aint gonna smash, so I'm working my way out to go home and go to sleep....until her mother runs her mouth to redbone's ex that my boy tried to hook me up with her.

So now i gotta deal with this man and he's also an Isrealite but cooler heads prevailed and he pretty much said "If yall gonna talk, yall gonna talk" and that was that.


He's cool with me but her mother just had to put my biz on front street because she's don't want to see her daughter with me. Even though we both know theres something there, I'm just gonna remain friends with her.

 

[MikelArteta]

So I finally got the chance to kick it with the redbone during the weekend......Yeah its not gonna workout lol. First she asked me about my recent failed relationship that I wanted to avoid discussing. But I let her know what was what so she can move on



The other half of the conversation was mostly about religion and current events surrounding black people.Its cool that she's conscious and her eyes lit up when I was dropping some gems but she spent nearly the entire time rambling going on & on until I began getting . I don't mind talking about our issues but damn....I wanted to use the wrap it up button if I had one.


Also she's an Israelite.....I consider myself to be Agnostic. She was trying to force her beliefs on to me and I'm just sitting there nearlye passed out likecause I had been drinking . She was happy that I sat through all of that and listened so I thought "Yes, now here we go..its time"


and boom her mother walks in which I thought was spending the night with her boyfriend


It turns out her night got cut short because he took her out on a date to McDonalds which made her irriate



So I already know we aint gonna smash, so I'm working my way out to go home and go to sleep....until her mother runs her mouth to redbone's ex that my boy tried to hook me up with her.

So now i gotta deal with this man and he's also an Isrealite but cooler heads prevailed and he pretty much said "If yall gonna talk, yall gonna talk" and that was that.


He's cool with me but her mother just had to put my biz on front street because she's don't want to see her daughter with me. Even though we both know theres something there, I'm just gonna remain friends with her.

smart no need to try and force whats not there just because she's fine

 

[MikelArteta]

I only believe in second chances if someone moved away and then moved back. Or if the split was amicable (no infidelity etc.) and years have gone by and your both diff people and start from the beginning.

Minus that nope, all these breaks i need space and try and come back ,
all thes i dumped you and made a mistake

 

[Music Fiend]

Most men don't agree with "breaks", but tell me this.

Does it make you insecure or hurt you emotionally to know that you and your main chick go on a "break" and she gets pounded by another nikka or two before getting back together.

 

[George Gooney]

I met up with two girls last night. HORRIBLE!!!!! I was stupid to leave my girl for the thots of this generation! Went to a bar got pissy drunk. woke up at wifey's crib. I love this woman!

 

[George Gooney]

New gem for yall while I sit here eating this breakfast my girl made for me Never Let A Woman Believe She's Irreplaceable In Your life.

 

[MikelArteta]

Makes me happy I dodged a bullet.

Most men don't agree with "breaks", but tell me this.

Does it make you insecure or hurt you emotionally to know that you and your main chick go on a "break" and she gets pounded by another nikka or two before getting back together.