Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I've been talking to this woman on okcupid back and forth for the past 3 days I just sent her a message asking for her phone number, I hope i didnt turn her off, but shyt the message thing is too much, im trying to progress things, plus, if I was to ask for her number if i ran into her out and about she would have to decided right then and there if she wants me to have it or not

thats the thing about dating sites women have so much options if you try the slow and methodical look unless your brad pitt, or tyson beckford you already lost.

a few msgs back and forth drop the i dont use this alot can i get your number?

if you get it then proceed to set up plans to hang out, if you dont get it then dont even reply and go msg another chick

when i messed with dating sites, i always put the ball in their court by dropping my number once i got tired of messaging, if they texted me then cool if not shrugs .
 

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thats the thing about dating sites women have so much options if you try the slow and methodical look unless your brad pitt, or tyson beckford you already lost.

a few msgs back and forth drop the i dont use this alot can i get your number?

if you get it then proceed to set up plans to hang out, if you dont get it then dont even reply and go msg another chick

when i messed with dating sites, i always put the ball in their court by dropping my number once i got tired of messaging, if they texted me then cool if not shrugs .


She i feel you, im really curious how this will turn out because she is Indian, born here in America, seems very intelligent. She has a beautiful smile and long flowing hair. When I call her tomorrow night im going to try and keep the convo less than 30 min
 

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She i feel you, im really curious how this will turn out because she is Indian, born here in America, seems very intelligent. She has a beautiful smile and long flowing hair. When I call her tomorrow night im going to try and keep the convo less than 30 min

30 minutes? The fukk are you gonna talk about for 30 minutes? :dahell:

Better yet, if you're having these long ass phone conversations what are you going to have to talk about when you eventually go on dates? :usure:
 

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30 minutes? The fukk are you gonna talk about for 30 minutes? :dahell:

Better yet, if you're having these long ass phone conversations what are you going to have to talk about when you eventually go on dates? :usure:



First off 30 minutes isnt long, once you start talking it goes back so damn quick, secondly there is a lot of stuff to talk about especially when you are knowledgeable in different areas beyond sports you bozo

Dont worry about my game son, Im out here winning
 

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I've been talking to this woman on okcupid back and forth for the past 3 days I just sent her a message asking for her phone number, I hope i didnt turn her off, but shyt the message thing is too much, im trying to progress things, plus, if I was to ask for her number if i ran into her out and about she would have to decided right then and there if she wants me to have it or not

your relationship with the female that you wanted to go all out for on your anniversary went sour I see
 

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First off 30 minutes isnt long, once you start talking it goes back so damn quick, secondly there is a lot of stuff to talk about especially when you are knowledgeable in different areas beyond sports you bozo

Dont worry about my game son, Im out here winning

30 minutes is long, phoen call should only be to set up the date.

you never met this chick and talking for 30 minutess?
 

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I don't think 30 minutes is too long if the convo is flowing naturally. Gives you chance to see where her head is at/if he convo game is popping. It's better than going into a date blind and finding out the hard way after you've already invested time you can't get back.
 

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I'm gonna get back into this thread again regularly real soon, but just wanted to post another example as to why you should never save a hoe:

My girlfriend is an escort | Just Jane | Lifestyle | Daily Star. Simply The Best 7 Days A Week

My girl was doing escort work when we first met in 2011.

I offered her love and we settled down.

Now I’ve discovered that not only has she cheated on me with two of my friends, but she’s been escorting again.

I’m devastated. She says that the by safesaver">extra money is just too good to pass up, but she doesn’t have to do this.

She seems to be addicted to the low life.

Am I fighting a losing battle?




:snoop: Just don't do it fam, because you will never get any gratitude and it never ends well for the guy.
 

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Step up to the plate, Houston brehs:

"We met on March 6, 2013, at the Galleria ice rink. I was staying at the Doubletree hotel near the mall on business trip from San Francisco. You said you were 23 and worked nearby. I was the 38 year old who worked for Baker Hughes in the red dress and flip flops. We hit it off and I invited you back to my hotel room. You only gave your name as Rick. Well I'm pregnant and need you to contact me urgently. Need your medical history. Urgent you contact me quickly to also arrange child support."

I'm pregnant. Need you to contact me - w4m
 

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Step up to the plate, Houston brehs:

"We met on March 6, 2013, at the Galleria ice rink. I was staying at the Doubletree hotel near the mall on business trip from San Francisco. You said you were 23 and worked nearby. I was the 38 year old who worked for Baker Hughes in the red dress and flip flops. We hit it off and I invited you back to my hotel room. You only gave your name as Rick. Well I'm pregnant and need you to contact me urgently. Need your medical history. Urgent you contact me quickly to also arrange child support."

I'm pregnant. Need you to contact me - w4m
I wasn't there :mjpls:
 

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Step up to the plate, Houston brehs:

"We met on March 6, 2013, at the Galleria ice rink. I was staying at the Doubletree hotel near the mall on business trip from San Francisco. You said you were 23 and worked nearby. I was the 38 year old who worked for Baker Hughes in the red dress and flip flops. We hit it off and I invited you back to my hotel room. You only gave your name as Rick. Well I'm pregnant and need you to contact me urgently. Need your medical history. Urgent you contact me quickly to also arrange child support."

I'm pregnant. Need you to contact me - w4m


The guy aint gon contact u when u talkin bout child support. Stupid broad
 

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How do you normally approach women? I can help you...

That's the problem g I don't approach them at all. Not tryna act like I'm on some playa shyt but I've been so used to havin females come up to me or have them initiate that I've never really stepped to em like that. I'm more of an introverted type of dude but I know could really eat if I actually made an effort with these broads..I don't think I'm necessarily "scared" of rejection it's just I'm more worried about runnin out of shyt to say and end up lookin like a straight ass
 
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