I love the term "save 'em," regardless if its coming from a woman or man. this
fairytale nonsense is just that, and its exactly what these hoes want you to do. trifling females with checkered pasts are just begging for all the simps out there to step up and "save her" from her own life. this is a job for the suckers, and ALL women know that this is the case.
with these "please save em" types, they look at it like its up to yall to always throw a lifeline because she has been doing wrong. in other words, its up to you, the big strong powerful man, to "save" this "victim" from harm. as if to be considered a real man you have to be able to, and be WILLING, to "save" these poor women. when you look at it, in todays context especially, all it usually means is youre trying to rescue irresponsible grown ups from their own dumb ass
if life was really like that, then why cant we all be saved by someone. oh I couldnt pay a bill? its okay, Ill be saved. someone out there will cover me. I made foolish, wreckless choices in my life and I have a record of poor working habits, no worries - Im going to eventually be saved. if I have children out of wedlock, it doesnt matter. Ill be saved, someone is coming to rescue me. its alright... remember when I got fired from my job? no problem, Im going to get saved! someone is going to sweep me away and carry me to the promise land!
just think about that. say it to yourselves.
now you realize how delusional, unreasonable, highly unfair, and impractical a lot of these thirsty women are. think about how they are being with you whenever they hit you up for help or act like they need you to "save" them. theyll be quick to say that its only right because "youre a man" and thats your job. all that sexism talk goes out the window and shes ready to throw her arm over her head then fall back waiting for you to catch her if you can do something for her. if you want to be with these women, this is the type of thinking and behavior you will have to deal with
the irony of it, is that all it does is reinforce the old sterotype that women need someone "better" than them. otherwise, why would they look for all of that saving from someone who is below them ... see that makes no sense at all. it is almost always coming from women who cant find their way in life, while theyre out here telling everybody that they need alimony and to get compensation for a relationship that theyre no longer a part of. that men are still responsible for things that women decide to do, or not want to do. that in general men are stronger in life than women, are more stable, have more common sense because a lot of women cant make good decisions if their life depended on it (and it yes, it does), and that essentially theyre just a drain on man. thats what a "I need rescuing" woman is telling the world
thats all THEYRE saying from their actions. dont look at their words, look at what theyre doing and asking for. its just them saying "help me, Im a poor little woman who cant manage her own life"
a lot of extreme feminists and ho happy jackies are calling us out to be "real men" and to bare their burdens just so we can even be with them (all the while you have to remain a "gentleman" and take her out, get her shyt, make her happy, help her with getting by) - but in the same breathe they want to sell you on their independance from you.
theyll try to tell you that we're exactly the same, no one deserves any special or particular treatment over one another, sex and what someone does with their body isnt important, and some even go the extremes to say that women are the more intelligent, and sensible sex.
well, if you do fall for all that bullshyt, then they would be right
if you allow yourself to be sold that dream, then youre the real fool. youre letting them get their hooks in you, and even convince you to believe its whats right. some women love to tell you that you, and what you think are not that important to them because she can do what she wants. but at the same time you HAVE to accept her and her burdens. like you have no say in anything, even your own choices. having standards and your own opinions make you an egotistical, slef centered a$$hole. yeah, save her brehs
the only real thing you will ever have a real claim to in life are the skin and meat on your bones, and what you decided to do with your life. do you need to save grown assed women who have made bad choices in the past in order to be happy with yourself and be considered "real?" do you feel that you have to settle down with these types, because thats all you can get? is this where we're at in life? do you have to come on down with a cape, sacrifice, put down all this time, money, and energy for someone who has squandered both their youth and good opportunities? in some cases, they have already bared offspring from another relationship that was a complete failure in terms of making a serious lifelong decision
why would you entertain that? why is it bad to NOT want that? why is it on you to save someone else? how wise is that, really
basically all Im saying is,
dont look to save em brehs. that whole frame of mind of thinking is dangerous to everyone involved. it reinforces bad stereotypes, rewards bad decision making for generations of women, and it becomes an extra drain on you. if you want to, fine. it is what it is.
the way I see it, is in this life, you have to choose wisely and not because people want you to do something. things have to make sense to you. you look at the rewards and the penalties for all of your actions, and you own up to that. people who are looking for you to fix their mistakes always try to manipulate you into doing it by trying to guilt you, or making it seem like youre some kind of hero. a hero to the selfish, and incapable is what it really is. rarely are women victim of circumstances, more often than not its because of her immature behavior