Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[AffordableSuplexReviews]

"Toxic environment" is a really appropriate term. Spot on.

Don't think I mentioned it in my long post (surprising), but, VO drove to the bar with 2 guys that night. I just recently learned that she is/was sexually involved with one of them. She left both guys at the bar when she left with me. She was badmouthing the guy heavily for the duration of the trip. "I am so sick of his shyt, I am so done, I am so tired" she would keep saying.

And apparently, VO has been steadily taking the soul of this guy, because he's been feeling pretty down as of late as a result of their issues. This girl is emotionally altering multiple dudes at once. I think she might get a joy out of that shyt, I dunno.

I agree with the notion that I was being used to ether BK's soul. While the argument was going on I kept imagining myself in his position. Tried to imagine how I would feel if I let my guard down again, got tampered and played with emotionally, and learned that a lady that I've done freaky things with, wants to now do that same shyt with a face I'm privy to.

There's a girl that I used to be sexually involved with, that I know is going to try and smash some of my boys, but I'm removed from the situation, and it's fine by me, that's not my vagina. But damn, if I'm currently involved with you, and out of nowhere you plan to smash someone I know, while leading me on, that's kinda odd. Seems to be a fixture in this present culture, however.

 

[CrossBones]

never let a woman barter with you over her p*ssy. as soon as shes bargaining with you into doing things just so she can give it up, youve lost the game. you cant ever accept that and let yourself be in that position.

in a relationship, what youre doing is effectively letting her overvalue her p*ssy and trick you into doing things for her, all for something normally she is willing to give up and she enjoys doing as well. so automatically it makes no sense, and its not a balanced trade. she enjoys sex too, so why should it be something that you have to work for and do things for?

and if its a girl youre just getting to know, youre only going to overpay for something - that again, she enjoys doing. fukk is that? honestly, if she is feeling you, she should want to give it up because of who you are and how well you know each other. not because youre bending over backwards and doing all this shyt for her. so why deal with all the hassle?

I hear of married men who let their wives talk them into certain tasks or doing something they didnt want to because of the wife's promise of sex/withholding sex.

you do that, sooner or later youll find that youre running through hoops and doing all sorts of things because you let her put her sexuality on you and hang it over your head. youre obediant to p*ssy. now shes playing fetch with you.

so dont let her use her body as an item to trade, negotiate, or bargain with you. its a fools game and its all a trick.

thats why when men are paying for it, its called tricking. and the reality of it is, the trick is on you.

women like sex. no, they mostly love sex. so letting them hold onto it as a a tool to manipulate and get things from you is a stupid idea. and why would you ever let them hold something over you? theyre not better than you, and theyre not being genuine with you when they do that. its a game for them. its just to use a thirsty ass man who cant think for himself. paying for it, and running through hoops for a vagina is not what a man is supposed to do.

 

[Malikthegod]

Anyone have an tips for financial independence? That's really what my focus has been on as of late..

 

[kevm3]

Anyone have an tips for financial independence? That's really what my focus has been on as of late..

Honestly, I'd much rather talk about things like this than keep going over the same things with women. You can only do so much when it comes to a woman and the rest is up to her. Financial independence is something that is in your own hands.

The key to financial independence is your mentality, because your mentality establishes your patterns of behavior, and it will eventually be your behaviors in regards to finance that determine where you end up financially. The first lesson you have to understand is that you have to take in more than is going out. You have to learn to get into a pattern where you are saving more than you are spending, so that means analyzing your spending habits and avoiding putting yourself in situations where you are constantly buying junk. This is especially true now that you have knowledge about dealing with women. Instead of spending all of these elaborate amounts on clothes, buying a car above your means, spending all this money on colognes and jewelry, you will keep that money in your pocket and use it towards productive purposes.

I learn that if I try to withhold from spending by buying nothing, it eventually makes me splurge, so I had to analyze my own behavior. We've been conditioned since birth in this nation to be consumers... so it's a sort of impulsive behavior. When I do buy, I make sure I buy things on sale to satiate that desire to buy, but also to save me a lot of money. For example, on entertainment, instead of buying full price games, I will go and buy games during the steam sale.

Getting in a pattern where you don't have more going out than you have coming in is the first habit you must develop. Analyze your expenditures and your behaviors in regards to finance and see where you can change things around to reduce how much is going out and how you can increase what is coming in.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

A very important aspect in dealing with people (not just women) is being honest with yourself. My mentality might make people think I'm an a$$hole, but I'd rather be disliked for who I am rather than liked for who I'm not. I personally don't see any benefit for myself in being in relationships apart from steady sex. Maybe thats immaturity, but thats the point I'm at in my life right now. I don't need companionship, I have friends for that. I don't need love, I have my family for that. I don't need any of that other bullshyt, but I will not be in a relationship with a chick who isn't giving it up whenever it is desired. I also will not allow a woman to use sex as a negotiation tactic, sex should be something enjoyed by both parties rather than used as leverage. If your current woman isn't willing to have sex with you without some sort of compromise then find someone who will

 

[kevm3]

This woman threw RGIII over the bus real quick... This is an example of what acting a fool out here with these women will get you. RGIII brought this all on himself if this is real

RG3 Texting A Side Piece On His Wedding Day?

The guy got caught up texting another woman on his wedding day... this girl ends up posting his private messages and even offers to sell them. This is all on RGIII, but it's amazing how ruthless she can get while she acts all sweet with him. Offers to sell him out REAL quick.

 

[Jahmal]

She told me she only has sex while in relationships and hadn't had sex since her last relationship ended 2 years ago. She slept with me on the 2nd date...

 

[MikelArteta]

She told me she only has sex while in relationships and hadn't had sex since her last relationship ended 2 years ago. She slept with me on the 2nd date...

"i never felt this way before"

 

[FukyourFort]

well I just ended a relationship after a year and some change. it was a long distance one but that wasn't the problem. after the honeymoon period the passion and affection went down. on random occasions shed have a long day or a crisis and she never wanted to talk to me.....yet she wanted to marry me. we supposed to be there for eachother "through thick and thin" yet she wouldn't let me....she had no problems not talking to me for the whole day or a couple(just found this out)I might be a simp or whatever but if im interested in the person...let alone love them I like to hear from them once a day or more. why wouldn't I? its really to much just to check in?
our convos were always at night before bed so its not like im hitting her up constantly.


it wasn't what I signed up for and I damn well wasn't gonna marry someone whod switch up on me like that. I attributed it to her taking the pill a bit after we started but I shouldn't have to ask for your love or affection. these girls crave commitment but reveal their true colors when they get it....smh...anyway im on that recovery now...I aint really dropped no long posts in here but I stay lurking and dapping.

 

[Kartel13]

well I just ended a relationship after a year and some change. it was a long distance one but that wasn't the problem. after the honeymoon period the passion and affection went down. on random occasions shed have a long day or a crisis and she never wanted to talk to me.....yet she wanted to marry me. we supposed to be there for eachother "through thick and thin" yet she wouldn't let me....she had no problems not talking to me for the whole day or a couple(just found this out)I might be a simp or whatever but if im interested in the person...let alone love them I like to hear from them once a day or more. why wouldn't I? its really to much just to check in?
our convos were always at night before bed so its not like im hitting her up constantly.


it wasn't what I signed up for and I damn well wasn't gonna marry someone whod switch up on me like that. I attributed it to her taking the pill a bit after we started but I shouldn't have to ask for your love or affection. these girls crave commitment but reveal their true colors when they get it....smh...anyway im on that recovery now...I aint really dropped no long posts in here but I stay lurking and dapping.

Were you sharing her?

 

[FukyourFort]

Were you sharing her?

very possible sir

 

[Kartel13]

very possible sir

You said you would go days without hearing from her? Ever tried calling her and she wouldn't pick up?

 

[FukyourFort]

You said you would go days without hearing from her? Ever tried calling her and she wouldn't pick up?

it was one occasion when her moms boyfriend left her stranded in Michigan. my girl lives in Cleveland so she was stressed about it so she wasn't trying to talk. I understood but obviously concerned so I just told er to check in and let me know how everything goes. I didn't hear from er at all until a couple days later...the other couple times was just her being stressed and not wanting to talk to me. it wasn't all the time....overall it was 4 times outta tha year she did that but it wasn't the main reason I ended it....I hate that phony honey moon period shyt. im real from the jump with who I am so that they can decide if they fukk with it or not. she was up and down and very moody. our visits got gradually worse on the passion side and im not with that

 

[MikelArteta]

well I just ended a relationship after a year and some change. it was a long distance one but that wasn't the problem. after the honeymoon period the passion and affection went down. on random occasions shed have a long day or a crisis and she never wanted to talk to me.....yet she wanted to marry me. we supposed to be there for eachother "through thick and thin" yet she wouldn't let me....she had no problems not talking to me for the whole day or a couple(just found this out)I might be a simp or whatever but if im interested in the person...let alone love them I like to hear from them once a day or more. why wouldn't I? its really to much just to check in?
our convos were always at night before bed so its not like im hitting her up constantly.


it wasn't what I signed up for and I damn well wasn't gonna marry someone whod switch up on me like that. I attributed it to her taking the pill a bit after we started but I shouldn't have to ask for your love or affection. these girls crave commitment but reveal their true colors when they get it....smh...anyway im on that recovery now...I aint really dropped no long posts in here but I stay lurking and dapping.

how you feeling breh, i know the first few days/weeks/months are gonna be hard

stay strong

 

[Jahmal]

it was one occasion when her moms boyfriend left her stranded in Michigan. my girl lives in Cleveland so she was stressed about it so she wasn't trying to talk. I understood but obviously concerned so I just told er to check in and let me know how everything goes. I didn't hear from er at all until a couple days later...the other couple times was just her being stressed and not wanting to talk to me. it wasn't all the time....overall it was 4 times outta tha year she did that but it wasn't the main reason I ended it....I hate that phony honey moon period shyt. im real from the jump with who I am so that they can decide if they fukk with it or not. she was up and down and very moody. our visits got gradually worse on the passion side and im not with that

There are plenty of fly chicks in Toronto. No need to stress over a chick in Cleveland