Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Falling in love with a woman for her shell is a sure fast way to self destruction my breh. Look out and be careful beauty ain't shyt...

Beauty is fleeting .

Many beautiful women are broken

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I fukked up brehs :snoop: but i was head over heels for this one chick, and let all the simp tendencies flow outta me. The disgusting part is I KNEW I WAS SIMPING AND DID NOT STOP MYSELF :smh: and in the end i got served that ether. :sadcam: so now not only am i hurt but i have made myself look like a fool in the process. Im totally to blame in this situation and have a lot of room for improvement
 

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Yea I get what you're saying. I think a few of you guys think I want take a complete 360 turn and turn into a PUA type dude and completely change who I am and how I dress and shyt just to get a girl, it's not like that at all. I"m just not taking shyt and excuses anymore.

Exactly. That's what you should do. You as you are are worthy of a high quality woman, which is why you won't put up with their trash when they come around.
 

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Telling a woman your feelings, revealing your undying love for her, etc., won't do anything more but get an 'awww' from her, and then she'll eventually think you're weak and disappear. Keep your heart in your chest and avoid 'expression your emotions' as much as you feel like you should and as much as you've seen on television how 'telling women how you feel' will eventually win her over.
 

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Telling a woman your feelings, revealing your undying love for her, etc., won't do anything more but get an 'awww' from her, and then she'll eventually think you're weak and disappear. Keep your heart in your chest and avoid 'expression your emotions' as much as you feel like you should and as much as you've seen on television how 'telling women how you feel' will eventually win her over.

Yep, learned this the hard way
 

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I fukked up brehs :snoop: but i was head over heels for this one chick, and let all the simp tendencies flow outta me. The disgusting part is I KNEW I WAS SIMPING AND DID NOT STOP MYSELF :smh: and in the end i got served that ether. :sadcam: so now not only am i hurt but i have made myself look like a fool in the process. Im totally to blame in this situation and have a lot of room for improvement

tell us what happened bruh
 

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I fukked up brehs :snoop: but i was head over heels for this one chick, and let all the simp tendencies flow outta me. The disgusting part is I KNEW I WAS SIMPING AND DID NOT STOP MYSELF :smh: and in the end i got served that ether. :sadcam: so now not only am i hurt but i have made myself look like a fool in the process. Im totally to blame in this situation and have a lot of room for improvement

what happen?
:popcorn:
 

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Telling a woman your feelings, revealing your undying love for her, etc., won't do anything more but get an 'awww' from her, and then she'll eventually think you're weak and disappear. Keep your heart in your chest and avoid 'expression your emotions' as much as you feel like you should and as much as you've seen on television how 'telling women how you feel' will eventually win her over.

yup that ish only works in the movies, i remember being young and naive and doing this, cards, flowers ad all that.
 

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I fukked up brehs :snoop: but i was head over heels for this one chick, and let all the simp tendencies flow outta me. The disgusting part is I KNEW I WAS SIMPING AND DID NOT STOP MYSELF :smh: and in the end i got served that ether. :sadcam: so now not only am i hurt but i have made myself look like a fool in the process. Im totally to blame in this situation and have a lot of room for improvement


same shyt happened to me last year. put my life on hold for her :smh: never again brehs, never again
 

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yep ya'll are learning. never go follow behind a woman when she chooses her career over you, don't go on some tirade exposing your feelings... don't go driving or flying some excessive distance to see a woman who hasn't saw you first. it's bizarre when you think about how the less you do for a woman, the more worth you have for her in her eyes, but many men were raised on the wrong paradigm of the more you give in to a woman and the more you do for her, the more loyal she will be to you. It's more like the opposite of that. The less you do, the less emotions you give, typically the more attracted she will be to you because 'you are sooo mysterious' or 'you are sooo different from the other guys that hound her.'

that's why that nonchalant, not caring attitude is something women love. You never give her too much and you don't really care if she leaves or not, which knocks off a couple of those checkboxes in her mind. when it really gets a lot more powerful is when you really DON'T care instead of feigning it.. and it will happen the more you realize how stupid this whole charade is.
 

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Falling in love with a woman for her shell is a sure fast way to self destruction my breh. Look out and be careful beauty ain't shyt...

I know that however it is more of a revelation. I've had great convos with several women on Skype from Colombia to the Philippines to Brazil. It's just hard to imagine being with one woman till I die when there's just so many in the world I can get along with.
 

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I know that however it is more of a revelation. I've had great convos with several women on Skype from Colombia to the Philippines to Brazil. It's just hard to imagine being with one woman till I die when there's just so many in the world I can get along with.

how did you meet them :ld:
 
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