Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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so this chic that turned me down like 3 years ago hits me up out of no where like "heyy sweetie kiss kiss"...


-_- we havent talked in 3 years shorty, fukk off

Don't miss an opportunity at some new out of resentment, breh. You have learned from the past that she prolly shouldn't be taken seriously, if she wants to holla at you humor her for a bit. But make it sexual from the get-go, flirt with her, tease her etc., but make it clear what your intentions are. If she's not about that life then toss her number in the bushes :ufdup:

Note: It's all a game, brehs. The less seriously you take this shyt the easier it becomes, just don't spend any money on her as she has proved she is not worth it.
 

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Don't miss an opportunity at some new out of resentment, breh. You have learned from the past that she prolly shouldn't be taken seriously, if she wants to holla at you humor her for a bit. But make it sexual from the get-go, flirt with her, tease her etc., but make it clear what your intentions are. If she's not about that life then toss her number in the bushes :ufdup:

Note: It's all a game, brehs. The less seriously you take this shyt the easier it becomes, just don't spend any money on her as she has proved she is not worth it.
cosign if you choose to reply. if you do choose to reply, you definitely should be the one setting the terms. She tried to play you and leave in the middle of the game. now she wants to come back and resume the game as if nothing happened. you decide if you want to continue it or not. but if you do, she can't start with the ball. you gotta start with it. you make it clear what you want and if she's not down :manny:
 

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so this chic that turned me down like 3 years ago hits me up out of no where like "heyy sweetie kiss kiss"...


-_- we havent talked in 3 years shorty, fukk off

Wouldn't be shocked if she got kids now


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Wouldn't be shocked if she got kids now


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You're right. Either she has kids or she got dumped and right now has no other man to be her little convo buddy to lift her spirits up, so magically she reappears. I guarantee you if he hits her back, she'll be cool with him for maybe 2 weeks before she disappears into the clutches of another man. She's fishing for a rest haven. If she didn't like you 3 years ago in her prime, what makes her like you now, especially when she hasn't even seen or had conversations with you?

You have to put your respect way above just dealing with some woman. It would be one thing if she wasn't really feeling you back then, but years later ya'll happened to come across each other and just started conversing and found out that ya'll are actually really cool with each other and built from there... but some woman that mysteriously pops up out of the blue after three years of not hitting you up talking about sweety this or sweety that? Naw ma gone somewhere with that.
 

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Don't miss an opportunity at some new out of resentment, breh. You have learned from the past that she prolly shouldn't be taken seriously, if she wants to holla at you humor her for a bit. But make it sexual from the get-go, flirt with her, tease her etc., but make it clear what your intentions are. If she's not about that life then toss her number in the bushes :ufdup:

Note: It's all a game, brehs. The less seriously you take this shyt the easier it becomes, just don't spend any money on her as she has proved she is not worth it.

I hear that, she just turned me down on some disrespectful shyt though...im actually surprised she thought it was ok to hit me up after all this time....maybe because I aint cry like a bytch when she turned me down, and moved on swiftly but she :ufdup:
 

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There are so many beautiful women in the world I'm really having trouble with the idea of just being with one. I've been using tagged and talking to women from all over the world and it makes me question just settling on one for life.
 

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There are so many beautiful women in the world I'm really having trouble with the idea of just being with one. I've been using tagged and talking to women from all over the world and it makes me question just settling on one for life.

Falling in love with a woman for her shell is a sure fast way to self destruction my breh. Look out and be careful beauty ain't shyt...
 

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In life, making adaptations is always necessary based upon the context of the situation. The danger is completely deviating or discarding your principles and character in order to procure a situation of minor benefit. One such example is donning a new completely new personality because you feel 'that's what the women want.' You don't want to metamorph into some wannabe bad-boy because that's what some broads like. What you DO do is alter how you apply your positive characteristics in order not to be taken advantage of.

For example, you might have been a guy who was quick to take women out to dinner because of your generous nature, but it's well known that a lot of women abuse that generosity for their selfish benefit. Now instead of completely discarding your generous nature, you will change how you approach that situation. Instead of taking out a woman you just met to dinner, you will save that generosity for a woman who actually deserves it and has showed you that she likes you without regard to your material status. In other words, you will qualify her first, but after she has qualified, then you will show her generosity given she can appreciate it.

Jesus said in the Bible, Do not toss your pearls to swine, lest they trample them underfoot. In other words, do not give your precious gifts to those who are unable to appreciate them. Generosity is a gift. If a woman is unable to appreciate my generosity, she will no longer be able to participate in it... Do not cast aside your positive characteristics because 'that gets the hoes.' Just alter the level of that particular characteristic that you show to the woman you are dealing with to see if she can appreciate what you are doing or not.

Yea I get what you're saying. I think a few of you guys think I want take a complete 360 turn and turn into a PUA type dude and completely change who I am and how I dress and shyt just to get a girl, it's not like that at all. I"m just not taking shyt and excuses anymore.
 

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I dont get women some times. :childplease: (Yea I know I fukked up)

I was sexting with this chick I smashed and met a couple weeks ago tonight and she tell me her cousin, sister, and friend saw it and she it play it off:shaq2::lupe::noah:

Had me feelin like:beli:

But moving on like:myman:
 

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I dont get women some times. :childplease: (Yea I know I fukked up)

I was sexting with this chick I smashed and met a couple weeks ago tonight and she tell me her cousin, sister, and friend saw it and she it play it off:shaq2::lupe::noah:

Had me feelin like:beli:

But moving on like:myman:

:what:
 

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I hear that, she just turned me down on some disrespectful shyt though...im actually surprised she thought it was ok to hit me up after all this time....maybe because I aint cry like a bytch when she turned me down, and moved on swiftly but she :ufdup:

girls like that are not used to being held accountable for their bullshyt :yeshrug:
 
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