Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Jahmal]

I really hate taking women out on dates until after I have had sex with them.

I remember when I first moved to Atlanta I took a chick out 6 times(dinner twice,bowling,movies, drinks/dave and busters,concert ) and when I finally got her back to my place and tried to kiss her she gave me the "I'm not ready" speech. I stopped chillin with her after that and later found out that she had a boyfriend and was using me for attention and free meals. Spent like $400 on her and didnt even get a kiss. Ever since then I've been ruthless. Pick them up, bang them at the crib and drop them off.

 

[Ohms Law]

many men don't find this attractive in a woman, but the question is why. i would argue that for most men it is because of a social convention that measures a womans value at least in part in the amount of sex partners she had.

personally, i couldn't care less. if she fukked 100 men because she enjoyed it, more power to her. on the other hand, if she cheated in a past relationship, or slept with 100 men because of a lack of self esteem and because sex is a source of validation for her, i probably wouldn't want her. but that has nothing to do with the number of men she slept with, it's because she is unfaithful or has insecurity issues that would make a relationship with her a headache.

Sounds good in theory. But how would you know this ? Simply going by her word ? Because we know people are completely honest with themselves and others and would never put a spin on things to paint themselves in a better light.
No offense but people with views like yours don't typically live in reality.

 

[karim]

Sounds good in theory. But how would you know this ? Simply going by her word ? Because we know people are completely honest with themselves and others and would never put a spin on things to paint themselves in a better light.
No offense but people with views like yours don't typically live in reality.

lol, as if she would tell you that she slept with 100 men. if she is an attention whore or has other issues there are red flags.

 

[MikelArteta]

I really hate taking women out on dates until after I have had sex with them.

I remember when I first moved to Atlanta I took a chick out 6 times(dinner twice,bowling,movies, drinks/dave and busters,concert ) and when I finally got her back to my place and tried to kiss her she gave me the "I'm not ready" speech. I stopped chillin with her after that and later found out that she had a boyfriend and was using me for attention and free meals. Spent like $400 on her and didnt even get a kiss. Ever since then I've been ruthless. Pick them up, bang them at the crib and drop them off.

i learned my lesson years ago when i went out to dinner with a broad, paid for dinner and ish, chick even ordered a steak I WAS LIKE *@#@ inside knowing id have to pay, bill came up to like 75 bucks for dinner, then of course a movie after that i had to pay and of course she wanted popcorn and a drink, all i got was a hug at the end, and the next day I had a great time, but I don't think we have alot in common, good luck.

yeh we had alot in common when you eating that steak and sipping that drink and eating popcorn, wasnt untill i got wiser that i realize what broads do, they have like a date on friday and a date on saturday, OR EVEN two dates on friday your poindexter taking her to the movies and dinner, and then after that she meets up with raydon at the club and goes back home with him

now its eh, as she goes to the washroom, seperate bill waitor, go ahead order that steak and that 8 dollar martini go right ahead

 

[MikelArteta]

nonsense. it could mean she is impulsive, it could mean she has self esteem issues, it could mean she just enjoys sex.



most men will sleep with any woman when they are single, that doesn't mean they are not faithful when they are in a relationship. some of them are, some of them aren't. that is because sex is only one aspect of a relationship, and people getting into a relationship don't simply do so in order to have somebody they can regularly sleep with.

you cant tame a wild animal, you always hear stories of dudes with wild lions, snakes, tigers, monkeys etc. as pets, then one day the animal gasp shows animals tendacies, and swallows, kills, smother their owner. Just like with a broad who loves sex and sleeps around, all she knows is that, you may think you tamed her to be monagmous and just sleep with you but them old habits that animal gon animal

 

[karim]

you cant tame a wild animal, you always hear stories of dudes with wild lions, snakes, tigers, monkeys etc. as pets, then one day the animal gasp shows animals tendacies, and swallows, kills, smother their owner. Just like with a broad who loves sex and sleeps around, all she knows is that, you may think you tamed her to be monagmous and just sleep with you but them old habits that animal gon animal

what's the difference between a broad and a dude who love sex?

 

[MikelArteta]

what's the difference between a broad and a dude who love sex?

women think with emotions not logic thats why

 

[Ohms Law]

what's the difference between a broad and a dude who love sex?

99% of the time when a guy has sex, its because his dikk got hard and he wanted some p*ssy.

When women have sex, sometimes its for validation, for financial motives, bargaining power or the self esteem boost of sleeping with someone in the public eye.

 

[karim]

women think with emotions not logic thats why

Are you trying to tell me that a horny dude is thinking with logic?

 

[karim]

99% of the time when a guy has sex, its because his dikk got hard and he wanted some p*ssy.

When women have sex, sometimes its for validation, for financial motives, bargaining power or the self esteem boost of sleeping with someone in the public eye.

There are a lot of guys who "bag" chicks for validation. Plus if you abolished the notion that a woman should keep her legs closed as a social norm and got rid of the idea that a man should "earn" the privilege of sleeping with her through courtship, the bargaining power and financial profits would be non existant.

 

[George Gooney]

many men don't find this attractive in a woman, but the question is why. i would argue that for most men it is because of a social convention that measures a womans value at least in part in the amount of sex partners she had.

personally, i couldn't care less. if she fukked 100 men because she enjoyed it, more power to her. on the other hand, if she cheated in a past relationship, or slept with 100 men because of a lack of self esteem and because sex is a source of validation for her, i probably wouldn't want her. but that has nothing to do with the number of men she slept with, it's because she is unfaithful or has insecurity issues that would make a relationship with her a headache.

nonsense. it could mean she is impulsive, it could mean she has self esteem issues, it could mean she just enjoys sex.



most men will sleep with any woman when they are single, that doesn't mean they are not faithful when they are in a relationship. some of them are, some of them aren't. that is because sex is only one aspect of a relationship, and people getting into a relationship don't simply do so in order to have somebody they can regularly sleep with.

what's the difference between a broad and a dude who love sex?

Is this guy serious???

 

[MikelArteta]

Are you trying to tell me that a horny dude is thinking with logic?

most guys can sleep with a chick and just get on with their day not caring if they see her again, not having any emotional ties just shrug

most girls associate sex with love/emotion, that is why if a broad has slept with over 100 guys she has emotional ties with over 100 guys.

when i was going through my a$$hole stage, i slept with around 15 women in like a 6 month span, i felt nothing for these broads it was just a nut for me, sometimes i smashed and 5 min later i was in my car driving home.

 

[Medio]

I really hate taking women out on dates until after I have had sex with them.

I remember when I first moved to Atlanta I took a chick out 6 times(dinner twice,bowling,movies, drinks/dave and busters,concert ) and when I finally got her back to my place and tried to kiss her she gave me the "I'm not ready" speech. I stopped chillin with her after that and later found out that she had a boyfriend and was using me for attention and free meals. Spent like $400 on her and didnt even get a kiss. Ever since then I've been ruthless. Pick them up, bang them at the crib and drop them off.

It took you 6 dates to man up and try to kiss her?

 

[Ohms Law]

There are a lot of guys who "bag" chicks for validation. Plus if you abolished the notion that a woman should keep her legs closed as a social norm and got rid of the idea that a man should "earn" the privilege of sleeping with her through courtship, the bargaining power and financial profits would be non existant.

Yep, you definitely don't live in reality.
The bolded is somewhat correct. But we both know it'll never happen.

 

[karim]

most guys can sleep with a chick and just get on with their day not caring if they see her again, not having any emotional ties just shrug

most girls associate sex with love/emotion, that is why if a broad has slept with over 100 guys she has emotional ties with over 100 guys.

when i was going through my a$$hole stage, i slept with around 15 women in like a 6 month span, i felt nothing for these broads it was just a nut for me, sometimes i smashed and 5 min later i was in my car driving home.

Your argument is inconsistent. On the one hand you say that a woman who has slept with 100 men will sleep with anyone, on the other hand you say she has emotional ties to every guy she ever slept with.