Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Real spit. This is also applies to men approaching women in person. Honesty, I do not even approach women at all because doing so put me at risk for being deemed as thirsty by women even if I am not exhibiting such behavior in any way since many of them have been gassed up so much by dudes who are indeed thirsty. My rule is to let women initiate conversations with me to avoid that risk, which gives me the upper hand essentially.

a comment i read

The distinguishing characteristic of the pump-and-dumpers is the ability to both create and maintain physical AND mental distance from their conquests. Show no interest in her unless she first shows interest in you, and walk away from her before she has the chance to do so to you. That way, you exercise power throughout. Power, and nothing else, is what counts in male-female relations.

L.I.F.O. (Last In, First Out) = You're In Charge + You Get What You Want + You Have No Regrets

F.I.L.O. (First In, Last Out) = She's In Charge + You Don't Get What You Want + You're Saddled with Regret

I remember reading a brief anecdote in now-deceased journalist Charles Kuralt's memoir A Life on the Road. As Kuralt related it, when he was a young journalist working in North Carolina, an old editor once told him "Son, when you get to be my age, all you think about are the women you could have gone to bed with and didn't." That poor old fukker was a prime example of not only the dangers of p*ssy-worship, but also what happens when you're a F.I.L.O. guy.

Incidentally, this is why you don't get involved with co-workers. There's that whole physical distance thing with which to contend, to say nothing of jeopardizing your livelihood and prospects.

One may read about the "alpha wolves" in the story above with any of a sense of identification, approval, or envy. Remember, though, that today's "alpha" could very easily become tomorrow's "Bubba's new jailhouse girlfriend". In the sexual marketplace, a man operates under the delusion that he is the determiner of his "alphaness" at his peril. Women place the crown of "alphaness" on a man, and they can just as easily AND capriciously take that crown away.

The solution is not to participate. Don't just walk away from the royal court; exit the gates of the city and blaze a trail of your choosing.

 

[kevm3]

To all the fellas in the room I have a question to ask yall ...and I know yall gon keep it 100 wit me

If women didnt have vaginas how else would they keep a man ?

That's one of the underlying currents to this thread. If women didn't have a vagina, what else would the modern woman bring that would attract a man? The answer? Absolutely nothing... and that vagina isn't even anything that's exclusive to the confines of a relationship. In fact, a lot of women reward it more to men outside of the relationship than within. The only reason a lot of these men keep on dealing with these women infected with the neo-feminism virus is because they think that that is what they are 'supposed to do' or they have no standards for themselves and are happy simping to the extreme and taking the very short end of the stick.

Tim Duncan was the picture perfect example of what happens when you take one of these 'modernized' western women too seriously Gave her a millionaire lifestyle, likely didn't cheat on her, he's not involved in any crime, not beating her, etc., but she turned her back on him for a personal trainer. So the question is, why would any dude pay ownership prices for something that is only being rented? Men are doing full duty things for a woman who is sharing her vagina with everybody.

That's why I recommend improving yourself for your OWN sake and not for women's sake. You do all this improvement and the only thing you do is attract more of the same caliber of women who don't bring anything to the table. Nobody is really telling these women to step it up. Instead, they are being fed trash by other women or 'relationship gurus' who pretty much tell women any and everything they do is gold... these same guys will be laughing after getting rich off of these women while the woman is in her 30s and completely alone and miserable.

 

[Huellz Santana]

I'm [23f] a single mom and I think no one will ever want to date me again. : relationships

"Before I had my daughter, it seemed that every guy I knew wanted to date me. I would get hit on, guys would leave flirty comments on my pictures on FB and it seemed like I never spent a Friday night alone.

After I became a single mom, I had a bunch of guys trying to catch me on the rebound. I wasn't really ready to start dating again, so I didn't. About four months after the break up, I started to put myself out there to try dating again- it has been a nightmare.

First guy dumped me after three months because I had the radical idea that I wanted to be taken out on dates and not spend every single night on his couch watching him playing video games. He would go out and do stuff during the week but I'd never get invited to go along because I have my daughter during the week and her father has her on the weekend."

reddit shamed her into deleting her account and post. i fux with reddit for that.

funny thing is most people are nice on there. way nicer than people in this thread actually.​

 

[MikelArteta]

That's one of the underlying currents to this thread. If women didn't have a vagina, what else would the modern woman bring that would attract a man? The answer? Absolutely nothing... and that vagina isn't even anything that's exclusive to the confines of a relationship. In fact, a lot of women reward it more to men outside of the relationship than within. The only reason a lot of these men keep on dealing with these women infected with the neo-feminism virus is because they think that that is what they are 'supposed to do' or they have no standards for themselves and are happy simping to the extreme and taking the very short end of the stick.

Tim Duncan was the picture perfect example of what happens when you take one of these 'modernized' western women too seriously Gave her a millionaire lifestyle, likely didn't cheat on her, he's not involved in any crime, not beating her, etc., but she turned her back on him for a personal trainer. So the question is, why would any dude pay ownership prices for something that is only being rented? Men are doing full duty things for a woman who is sharing her vagina with everybody.

That's why I recommend improving yourself for your OWN sake and not for women's sake. You do all this improvement and the only thing you do is attract more of the same caliber of women who don't bring anything to the table. Nobody is really telling these women to step it up. Instead, they are being fed trash by other women or 'relationship gurus' who pretty much tell women any and everything they do is gold... these same guys will be laughing after getting rich off of these women while the woman is in her 30s and completely alone and miserable.

Women think the show lasts for ever I equate it to like tennis, from like 16-30 you are the bomb, attention top rankings then boom vanish for the majority as someone younger takes your spot

Think of all the great tennis players

Pete sampras retired at 31 etc

Women think the show goes on forever they waste their youth and prime years on thugs, vagabonds, a$$holes etc.



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[Huellz Santana]

the thing is its like that with most single moms, if your hot guys just want to beat and that's it.

I bring up again my godson mom who is a single mom, lol her and her baby dad broke up again, heads right to pof been in like 3 relationships since in the past few months, these chicks dont get it. No rational male wants all that baggage, wants to rasie another mans kid. Yeah you want to suck my dikk and get laid sure every guy will sign up for that, you want a reasonable long term relationship?

no guy with options wants a single mom sorry it has to be said

i cosign but i will also say it depends on how attractive the woman is. simps are always gonna simp, even if they have options. ironically, my godson's mom is single as well. and she is fine as fukk. so nikkas really be tryna for real.

so she's still entitled in her head and playing games with nikkas like most attractive 20 somethings, despite the fact she has a 2 yr old daughter. right now she's fukking 2 dudes (technically 1 because the other is away in the military) and dating at least 2 others (aka getting free meals).

she had a young doctor to be simping her, a white collar professional, and now some athlete. i think 75% of the cats are just tryna beat but i know the doctor-to-be and white collar cat are really tryna wife her.

i dont get it. ​

 

[Brandsdale]

Question: If you JUST met a chick and first time you start texting her she starts giving those hours long responses do you throw in the bushes? or confront her?

 

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[MikelArteta]

i cosign but i will also say it depends on how attractive the woman is. simps are always gonna simp, even if they have options. ironically, my godson's mom is single as well. and she is fine as fukk. so nikkas really be tryna for real.

so she's still entitled in her head and playing games with nikkas like most attractive 20 somethings, despite the fact she has a 2 yr old daughter. right now she's fukking 2 dudes (technically 1 because the other is away in the military) and dating at least 2 others (aka getting free meals).

she had a young doctor to be simping her, a white collar professional, and now some athlete. i think 75% of the cats are just tryna beat but i know the doctor-to-be and white collar cat are really tryna wife her.

i dont get it. ​

And when the ship sails she will be crying no good men are left

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[MikelArteta]

Question: If you JUST met a chick and first time you start texting her she starts giving those hours long responses do you throw in the bushes? or confront her?

She's either playing dumb games or not interested

Pick up the phone and ask her out

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[Brandsdale]

She's either playing dumb games or not interested

Pick up the phone and ask her out

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the words I wanted to hear. I feel as if the whole texting phase is annoying I'm more of a one on one person.

Pos rep breh

 

[MikelArteta]

the words I wanted to hear. I feel as if the whole texting phase is annoying I'm more of a one on one person.

Pos rep breh

I was in your spot about a month ago.

I stopped texting her, haven't heard from her since.



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[Turbulent]

don't let specific moments or interactions define you. Have a relaxed mindset and be a little detached from the results you expect. this is not to say you should not care about anything and be a vegetable. but at the same time don't think everything is make or break, it's not brain surgery. Place yourself in he proper mindset and allow your intuition and gut to do some of the work.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'd just like to say it amazes me about single mom's crying about their dating prospects. Many women won't date me because I'm black, or because I'm skinny, or because of the car I drive, my height, my Job etc.

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[Brandsdale]

I was in your spot about a month ago.

I stopped texting her, haven't heard from her since.



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lol word eh? Literally just started texting this broad and get this bullshyt. Yet, she'll continue the conversation like it was nothing

After these many times at the gym I told myself I gotta rejoin the hunt.

 

[DaRealness]

It's a shame when even something like texting turns into something so silly. Mankind is doomed.

"Nothing makes many sense anymore"