Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

They do like respect and kindness at times... but yes. I can go back and hit most of the chicks I've shytted on in the past. The ones who I was nice to would make me put in work. Society messes w their minds since elementary school. I feel bad for bytches.

the women that do like respect adn kindness are the wifeable types, the types you find volunteering etc.

most women feed off attention, confrontation and drama.

 

[MikelArteta]

Most certainly have. This is indicative of many women who hold such men in high regard. As we know, when a woman holds a man in high regard, she will be very respectful of him and therefore will be very hesitant to disrespect him or even leave him no matter what. Also if the man ended the relationship for whatever reason, she will continue to pine after him and speak highly of him the majority of the time if he was the type to treat her like shyt. But it is the complete opposite when women dealing with dudes who do not treat them like shyt. Insane.

Again, women have shown that they enjoy and respect disrespectfulness from men and that they despise any display of respectfulness. So in my opinion, being that completely dirty, disrespectful, fukk 'em and chuck 'em type of dude since it is obvious I will be respected more by women for being that way as opposed to the decent human being I have been raised to be.

its sad but :barney:

the worse thing is that im a extremely nice person but with most women I can't be

women and men think totally different, when I was younger and had a different mindset i'd talk to numerous women and have numerous women interested me and I thought I was the king, as I got older and looked back all those women were ratchet offering me nothing, the different between men and women is that women have a bunch of suitors but the majority just want to pump and dump but they mix that up with guys who will actually stay around be committed be in a relationship with.

it always chuckles me :mandela: going on dating sites and women looking for a good man etc. , i was trolling o pof earlier this week in portland and this chick hit me up she has 2 kids at 25, looking for that great guy but its so hard to date with such little time. I asked her why are you single mom and shes like my ex was a abusive alcoholic. So i'm like he only became a abusive chocaholic after the two kids? And she's like no he was before, but she just got the "courage" to leave. Then she went on how shes only dated twice in those 3 years since and both guys were immature and losers.

And im exactly you decided to lay with swine and dug your own hole, And I'm like what do you expect to attract with children out of wedlock?

I deleted my profile but let me see if i can dig up her profile on my email


GenuineJess Dancing, art, rollerskating, horseback riding

 

[sixsixtwo]

its sad but :barney:

the worse thing is that im a extremely nice person but with most women I can't be

women and men think totally different, when I was younger and had a different mindset i'd talk to numerous women and have numerous women interested me and I thought I was the king, as I got older and looked back all those women were ratchet offering me nothing, the different between men and women is that women have a bunch of suitors but the majority just want to pump and dump but they mix that up with guys who will actually stay around be committed be in a relationship with.

it always chuckles me :mandela: going on dating sites and women looking for a good man etc. , i was trolling o pof earlier this week in portland and this chick hit me up she has 2 kids at 25, looking for that great guy but its so hard to date with such little time. I asked her why are you single mom and shes like my ex was a abusive alcoholic. So i'm like he only became a abusive chocaholic after the two kids? And she's like no he was before, but she just got the "courage" to leave. Then she went on how shes only dated twice in those 3 years since and both guys were immature and losers.

And im exactly you decided to lay with swine and dug your own hole, And I'm like what do you expect to attract with children out of wedlock?

I deleted my profile but let me see if i can dig up her profile on my email


GenuineJess Dancing, art, rollerskating, horseback riding

Decent looking broad but this nonsense right here:

Things important to me: RESPECT, Family relations/traditions, genuine friendship, my elders, treating others as you wish to be treated, human communication, virtue, making the best of every experience, learning, the worth and meaning of Marriage and much more youll learn if you take time to

Things NOT important to me: Alcohol, drugs, casual encounters, ignorance, closed-mindedness, arrogance, hate, violent tendencies

2 kids out of wedlock huh?

 

[MikelArteta]

Decent looking broad but this nonsense right here:

Things important to me: RESPECT, Family relations/traditions, genuine friendship, my elders, treating others as you wish to be treated, human communication, virtue, making the best of every experience, learning, the worth and meaning of Marriage and much more youll learn if you take time to

Things NOT important to me: Alcohol, drugs, casual encounters, ignorance, closed-mindedness, arrogance, hate, violent tendencies

2 kids out of wedlock huh?

:mandela:

 

[MikelArteta]

You will find as you get older that you were indeed saved from a trap. I am 38 and was raised a Christian and believed marriage was my calling only to find out that all the girls I observed were too screwed up to make suitable wives/mothers

I know the feelings you describe and know I too could have made a lucky young lady VERY happy if she would have just fought off her natural instict to be a rotten bytch at least until I married her, lol.

With the feminist movement "liberating" women (men) what you are seeing in modern times are females in their true natural form, warts and all, and as you have found out they are not so pretty and far removed from what we pictured in our childhood dreams as ideal mates.

Girls in generations past were taught to use their youthful looks, virginity and charm and act "lady like" until they landed a lifelong supportive, respectful husband because single females had little means of self support and being an old maid stuck on Mom and Dads' farm was considered a fate worse than death. Although some girls may have secretly lusted after trashy badboys from the wrong side of the tracks they were usually smart enough to know to avoid them or pay the price with a lifetime of abandonment,poverty and abuse.


With inventions like the electric car starter, birth control pill, welfare and telecommunications girls are no longer stuck on Dads' farm or have to rely on a husband for support or even to make babies for that matter. The shytty attitude towards good men and love of a$$holes was always there, where once it was kept hidden out of necessity of survival, with modern feminism it now is out in the open for all to see.

 

[MikelArteta]

LAS VEGAS (AP) - A missing burlesque dancer last seen by her ex-boyfriend told police he had beat her while she was pregnant with his child more than a month before her disappearance, according to Las Vegas police records.

Here, the guy ADMITTED to beating her, yet she stayed with him anyway! If you click the link to the article, you'll see that this woman is attractive; you'll see that getting male attention would be NO PROBLEM WHATSOEVER for her. IOW, here's a woman who could pretty much have her pick of men, yet she took up with an a$$hole anyway. Then folks wring their hands wondering what happened to her?! Come on!

Deborah Flores-Narvaez, 31, was reported missing Dec. 14 after she didn't show up for a rehearsal of "Fantasy," the nightly burlesque show at the Luxor hotel and casino where she worked.


She was last seen on Dec. 12 by Jason Omar Griffith, who has not been named as a suspect. Police said Griffith has been cooperative and there is no evidence to suggest Flores-Narvaez has been harmed.

But police records show the Las Vegas Strip dancer and her former beau had a rocky past.

Is it any surprise that this woman dated bad boy? Is it any surprise that she sought out someone who treated her like crap? That's what 'having a rocky past' means...

Flores-Narvaez and Griffith had been dating for about a year when police responded to a domestic violence call involving the couple on Oct. 22.

Flores-Narvaez told police officers she had been visiting Griffith's ex-girlfriend when he showed up. She said he stole her iPhone and elbowed her in the chin, according to an arrest report.

Sounds like a real nice guy-not!

He drove away, and Flores-Narvaez and the ex-girlfriend followed him.

So, even after he hit her, Little Miss Debbie STILL wanted him!

Griffith stopped his car less than a mile away and confronted the women. Flores-Narvaez said Griffith threw her phone and told her that he was not going to jail, police said.


As she picked it up, she said he pushed her and then kicked her and pulled her hair while she was on the ground, according to the arrest report.

Sounds like a real caveman; he even pulled her hair like one...

Bruises dotted both of Flores-Narvaez's legs and she later showed police a chunk of hair that she said he had yanked from her scalp.

Sounds like an S&M session gone bad...

Griffith fled in his car.


She again followed him.

She couldn't get enough of this guy, huh?

At a nearby intersection, he exited his car and kicked the side door of her vehicle, Flores-Narvaez told police.

So, he wasn't content to just beat Little Miss Debbie; he wanted to beat her car too!

Griffith told police the couple had been in an argument but denied hitting her or taking her phone.


He said he threw her phone after she taunted him with it.

He was arrested on battery, domestic violence and coercion charges.

Sounds like Mr. Griffith is a real 'Prince Charming'-not!

Flores-Narvaez moved to Las Vegas to become a dancer. She previously lived in Maryland, where she served as an ambassador for the Washington Redskins in 2007, a non-performing position that sent her into the community.


Friends said she isn't the kind of person who would blow off work and leave town without telling anyone.

Her 1997 Chevrolet Prizm was found Friday in north Las Vegas. There were no signs that car had been vandalized.

Flores-Narvaez is 5 feet 5 inches tall and weighs 120 pounds. She has brown eyes and brown hair.

Vegas showgirl murder: Jason Griffith accused of dismembering Deborah Flores-Narvaez | Mail Online

Jason Griffith, 32, told police he killed Deborah Flores-Narvaez, 31, after an argument at his home December 12. 'It was a heat of the moment thing,' he is quoted as saying.

 

[MikelArteta]

et’s take a 21-year old chick who’s between a 7/8 (cute to pretty). She’s the equivalent of Roy Jones, Jr. in his prime, all attributes, no fundamentals or technique. She garners the attention of males both older and younger. She can pretty much get sex whenever she wants it and with whomever she wants to have it with. And that is ultimately her downfall.


Young women (and some older ones) have an overinflated sense of the value of their vaginas. I mean, they have Wharton MBAs paying for exotic trips and they’re drinking Cosmos in the VIP with the Wizards. Why wouldn’t they? Since they are able to get such easy access to “alpha” dikk, it follows logically that they should also have access to “alpha” wealth, marriage, and the lifestyle that accompanies all of that, right?


Wrong. See, when women gain this enormous sense of p*ssy power, they swing for the fences. That’s what power does to people. It makes them crave more. So, the cute guy with a 3.8 GPA, but no car? Nope, not good enough. The nice-looking pre-med student? “Nah, I’ll just get back to him later. I heard Jude Law’s hotter brother is transferring here this semester.” They invariably end up overplaying their hand. They chase these players looking to get a ring, and then that ring never comes. So now they’re 27. It’s a good thing she kept that pre-med Johns Hopkins student in her back pocket just in case things didn’t work out with the player, right?


Wrong again. In a vacuum, women would have their way. Men beg for sex. Women decide whether to give it to them (and for most guys, they will not give it to you). But luckily, we don’t live in a vacuum. We live in the real world with social constraints, and there are two that work distinctly to a man’s advantage: reputation and age.


Men take notes. Ladies, don’t think our homeboy didn’t tell us about the time he bought you drinks, only for you to walk away and make fun of him with your girlfriends. Don’t think we won’t remember your bytchiness. And don’t think we won’t remember those guys who you ran behind like a cum bucket. We remember. And we punish.


When a man sleeps with 100 chicks, he’s a stud. When a woman sleeps with JUST ONE guy, that eliminates you as wifey material to ALL of his friends. Seriously, how many times have you met a cute girl and your friends said, “Oh, she was with _____.” It was a wrap. Women who aren’t able to learn their true value quickly and then make wise decisions early on pay a hefty price in the long run.


The height of a woman’s value, in terms of her value as a long term partner, is around the age of 27. That is the praecipice. She must make the decision: settle down or play around. Her best choice, if she wants to get married, is to begin actively pursuing a husband. But she faces a couple of problems. First, she wants to marry up (older, richer, higher status). But by this time, her peers are just hitting their prime. They’ve picked up some wealth and game along the way, and are seeking to exact revenge against the throngs of women now begging for engagement rings. Second, she’s got competition. Those new “alphas” aren’t trying to mess with used goods. They want that 21 year old model. And for a Harvard MBA on Wall Street, that’s not an unrealistic expectation.


The older she gets, the more her singlehood gets scrutinized by men. Why the hell is she still single? Who’s cock has she been sucking all these years? This bytch must be crazy or something. And let’s face it, what virile, successful bachelor wants to entertain a 29 or 30 year old as wifey potential? She’s going to want to become a baby factory right away and rip away the last vestiges of your freedom. I don’t think so. It’s now my time to swing for the fences and bang some of these 21 year olds that I couldn’t bang in college.


In conclusion, a woman’s value is really defined by the type of man who puts a ring on her finger, not the type of guy who will fukk her. It takes a lot of women a long time to understand this, and thus, they overplay their hand. If it wasn’t for the players dogging them out, these women would not get a sense of their true value and start to seek out men who fit within their price range.


One last thing.


I would encourage attractive women to read Greek mythology, especially the story of Icarus. Icarus, with his new but fragile wings, could not resist flying too close to the sun.


Attractive women, with their pretty faces and firm backsides, often can’t break the spell of the intoxicating power that comes along with those attributes. Power’s a hard thing to give up. It’s a lot like winning at the craps table. Some people just don’t know when to quit and cash in their chips. And when they don’t have the good sense to cash in their chips, they often end up just like Icarus–dead in the water.

 

[MikelArteta]

They should never gave these women twitter

i acutally like twitter/instagram these women live a decent life infront of you, telling you their home sick, that there strugglign to pay the bills

then you see their twitter and instagram and their #clubbing , #drinking , #inacab

and all that other crap

i dont have a twitter but you can catch women in their lies

 

[MikelArteta]

RED FLAGS

1. Short temper and wild, angry outbursts
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The source of the anger can be widespread, however if she is quick to lose her temper then this will quickly limit how conflicts are resolved; usually it'll turn loud and nasty. Expect plenty of insults, shaming and blaming – hardly the sign of a mature adult. If she was like this early on, then she's been like this for some time – you cannot fix this, and it's not your responsibility to do so.

2. "Daddy issues"
The father may have been abusive, or absent entirely for a whole range of reasons. Ultimately YOU will be blamed as you are a 'man that cares' and will be the target of her childhood problems with male figures – you cannot fix this, and it's not your responsibility to do so.

3. Bad behaviour in her previous relationships
If your relationship started on the back of her cheating on another guy with you – you're next. One way or another if she can justify throwing one guy under a bus, she can justify throwing any guy under a bus. One wrong move – it's you.

4. Mostly male friends, or in-contact with an ex-boyfriend
The friend-zoned guys for the most part want your partner, to some of them it is a waiting game, if you think they will not try to turn her head away from you by highlighting your "flaws" and telling her how they wouldn't treat her like that – think again. Any mangina/white knight does not care because they want your partner for themselves. With the ex-boyfriend there is almost a 100% chance she will ruminate about the times they had together, and before you know it they'll have a little reunion somewhere – all his fault of course.

5. bytchiness towards other people
If she is endlessly bad-mouthing people behind their back, do you not think she does the same to you? If not now, then one day. If it's in her nature then no one will be impervious. Any secrets you shared will be gossip-fodder. This is moreso when they speak of their exe's – could they all have been "jerks"? Maybe they just got tired of her histrionics.

6. Friends with people who have questionable eithics
"With whom you assemble, you'll soon resemble"
If she jumps to the defence of her friend who cheated, on her partner, or smashed his record collection on the suspicion (not actual facts) of infidelity, or the friend who lies, cheats, and manipulates – then be prepared for any behaviour she deems appropriate for them to carry out will be appropriate for her to carry out too.

7. Drama Queen
Does she start crying when breaking a nail, or throw a tantrum in a shop because they don't have her size of dress? Imagine her reaction when something serious happens.

8. Never takes responsibility, or if she does, she minimises any blame to her own choices
"It's not my fault I spread my legs for the car mechanic, if you worked less hours it would never have happened..."

9. Maintains double-standards
It's fine for her to blow £100 on a spa weekend with her friend, but wrong of you to spend £100 on a new fishing rod.

10. Portrays herself as a perpectual victim
This is used as a means of abusing your humanity and compassion. This is another aspect of never taking responsiblity, it was always someone/something else's fault. "The weather made me take all my clothes off and jump into a hot-tub with the local douche-bag, it's not my fault, stop being mean to me you arsehole!"

11. Hidden/Undeclared expectations and "shyt tests"
Plenty has been written about "shyt tests" - if you keep finding that she is testing you, ask yourself what kind of relationship is that where it is constantly being tested to see if you react in the way she wants you to?

12. No-win situations
If you are put in a situation where the only choice is the wrong move – then this person does not love you – you are their emotional punchbag and you're being set up for more misery.

13. Holds others responsible for their happiness
Being expected to entertain her with witty one-liners, juggling acts, finding endless ways to keep her from getting bored – this person is a child, not a woman.

14. Uses Fear, Obligation or Guilt to get their way
Pure manipulation tactics.... "If you really loved me then..."

 

[MikelArteta]

i bought this book hopefully i can find a pdf
[ame=http://www.amazon.com/books/dp/1594036756]Men on Strike: Why Men Are Boycotting Marriage, Fatherhood, and the American Dream - and Why It Matters: Helen Smith PhD: 9781594036750: Amazon.com: Books[/ame]

its written by a woman as well

American society has become anti-male. Men are sensing the backlash and are consciously and unconsciously going “on strike.” They are dropping out of college, leaving the workforce and avoiding marriage and fatherhood at alarming rates. The trend is so pronounced that a number of books have been written about this “man-child” phenomenon, concluding that men have taken a vacation from responsibility simply because they can. But why should men participate in a system that seems to be increasingly stacked against them?

As Men on Strike demonstrates, men aren’t dropping out because they are stuck in arrested development. They are instead acting rationally in response to the lack of incentives society offers them to be responsible fathers, husbands and providers. In addition, men are going on strike, either consciously or unconsciously, because they do not want to be injured by the myriad of laws, attitudes and hostility against them for the crime of happening to be male in the twenty-first century. Men are starting to fight back against the backlash. Men on Strike explains their battle cry.

 

[MikelArteta]

The Harder Husband Works, The More His Wife Cheats

 

[DaRealness]

The Harder Husband Works, The More His Wife Cheats

See that's what happens when you marry so young (as I've learned myself although I was a little bit older than he was).

Not excusing the wife cos she's obviously a no good whore who probably would have acted the same anyway, but in my humble opinion, NOWADAYS people shouldn't get married under the age of 30. At least the hoes can get the sluttiness out their system and the dudes learn through experience what to watch out for and be a better judge of character.

 

[kevm3]

The thing is, hoes don't ever get the sluttiness out of their system. Life just catches up with them and they are forced to be more responsible, that is until they catch some sucker to put a ring on them and finance them, and then they revert right back to their original behavior.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I was thinking about about commitment today and why a lot of men struggle with it. One reason men are afraid of commitment is because women dont have to prove themselves during the dating process. They prove themselves after the commitment is made. Men are always jumping through hoops, trying to say the right thing, be mr. right etc...but a women just have to be there. I could be wrong but this is how I feel about commitment ....sometimes I think it might be a lack maturity who knows ?!

 

[Soundbwoy]

I was thinking about about commitment today and why a lot of men struggle with it. One reason men are afraid of commitment is because is because women dont have to prove themselves during the dating process. They prove themselves after the commitment is made. Men are always jumping through hoops, trying to say the right thing, be mr. right etc...but a women just have to be there. I could be wrong but this is how I feel about commitment ....sometimes I think it might be a lack maturity who knows ?!

this post right here