Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Kenny West]

The thing is I don't give a damn, I don't follow game rules or care what a broad thinks.

IIRC We'rent you the one posting text rules like keeping it < 7 words (it's a good rule doe)

and don't act like you don't care if you take the time to hack a bytch computer and actually go thru her shyt. like you really took time out the day to read the drivel they post on FB

i dunno man, me not sending a text back sounds a lot more like actually not giving a damn

Oh no he text me back right away he must be a loser, oh now he took a few hours or days to respond hex got a life girl

All that is lame I trxt when I check my phone and its there



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if you texting immediately for more than two exchanges that means you're officially checking for your phone.

which means she has your undivided attention

and if you do this all the time then she can command your attention whenever she wants.

one time she experiments....just to flex she will start texting slower and slower....and saying less and less (im sure plenty in the viewing and lurking audience can testify)

till she just goes cold

and then you text again....and again..."what's wrong?" "hey" "what did I do wrong?" cruelly she stays silent just to see if she can look at the p*ssy pink depths of your simp soul maybe you'll stack up 10 non replies in a row like the last dude she put on lame lance

(yes this is hypothetical but it's reality for majority of dudes)

 

[I_Q]

Let's conduct an experiment

Get two numbers of semi-cold girls and text both of them what's up. Carry both convos the same except text one immediately and text the other in a reasonably long time frame. I'd bet each one of you 100$ the the one you text fast stops responding in under 7 exchanges.

texting fast is supplication. that's just how it is. it's funny how nikkas bytch and whine about how women will have no problem making you wait but lord forbid you make them do so. even if it gives them positive results. the reason women love texting is because it's non-committal and low investment. if she sees you text her anything she doesn't like SHE WILL STOP TEXTING YOU and won't think about it. if she made plans with a nikka and something better came up she will just send out a 3 second flake text and will ignore any reply.

that's the game. if you want money you go work. if you want fitness you exercise. if you want sexy chicks, you play the game.

if not there are plenty of 30+ women/obese broads/ single moms for u to enjoy


If you text back immediately you're subtly saying that. They think the world around revolves around them anyway. With that huge block of ego, she then looks at how easily they can get your attention. she says any ol shytty 3 word text and you drop everything to reply. to her, getting your attention is as easy as calling a dog


So are women. They don't speak logically or value logic. If you want women you speak to them in their language.



if? if you're fukkin with a chick who hasn't been fat and ugly all her life then I guarantee she's done it before. If not to you then someone else.

and since when was texting back immediately some sort of polite society custom? is there a clause for fast texting in your etiquette hand books? Where did this rule come from? yall the only nikkas I've ever seen hitching some sort of honor code into texting back dutifully

i think it's about time yall let go of the moral high horses and stop backwards rationalizing yourselves into the same patterns. yall read all day online about how women love dudes who don't give a fukk and resign yourselves to that attitude, but are scared of being as flippant, dismissive and cool irl. HA!

how yall expect anyone to beleive yall would be able to cooly dismiss a shyt test, simp bait or mind game a dime, 9 or 8 would throw at you when you can't keep yourself from rushing to text a 7 back without it tuggin at your heartstrings

what happened to cold hearted? what happened to not giving a fukk? its sounding fraudulent in here



I've heard it a lot to. Those who don't believe you or me can feel free to conduct the experiment I mentioned above. But of course they won't

lol @ celibacy, asexuality and MGTOW being viable alternatives but leaving their phone on airplane mode for a day is out of the question

ass backwards



Well though I'm not feeling u, my not responding hasn't stopped your bytch ass from sending text my way.

I guess the system works

Uh where did I claim to be cold hearted and not give a fukk? You're really taking things to the extreme, wtf I look like sitting there watching TV checking a stop watch trying to decide when I should or shouldn't respond to a text. One thing I don't have time for is to conduct experiments or act like some childish ass bytch just so some chick won't think I'm desperate

Edit- if I'm busy then that's different, I'm speaking about having my phone sitting next to me while I'm chillin with nothin better to do

 

[Jahmal]

Uh where did I claim to be cold hearted and not give a fukk? You're really taking things to the extreme, wtf I look like sitting there watching TV checking a stop watch trying to decide when I should or shouldn't respond to a text. One thing I don't have time for is to conduct experiments or act like some childish ass bytch just so some chick won't think I'm desperate

 

[My neck and my back]

i'm not into the whole timing texts shyt...whenever a bytch pop up i head straight into my technique of tearing her down with honesty...it might be in a few exchanges or it might be in a full convo, but my objective is to tap into her mental weakness and expose her insecurities...once i sense her self esteem is low i build her back up with honesty acknowledging her good qualities...it's like giving them approval to feel good about themselves but you're doing it from a position of superiority ...a lot of bytches don't last to the point where i can build them up because of how offended they are but i ain't trippin cuz in my mind...it's just p*ssy ...i'm probably to the point where i enjoy the satisfaction of tearing bytches down more than p*ssy these hoes wanna play a game, well i'm playing the game dirty

 

[kevm3]

Key is do what works for you through experimentation and preference. If you want to text later to show her you aren't thirsty, do that. If you don't really care what she thinks and decide to hit her up promptly, then do that. The strategy behind all of this is to do what is conducive to enhancing your own lifestyle and operating in a fashion that is comfortable to you as long as it is in the confines of decent behavior. We are going to have different preferences and different goals for dealing with women, so ultimately, our methods of dealing with them will end up being different.

Me personally, I'm the type that will text back whenever I feel like it, but generally I'm more on the prompt side than not. If I feel like hitting her immediately, that's what I'll do... and if I don't feel like hitting her back, I'm going to let it marinate and send one down the line.

If I don't catch some girls because of me hitting her too soon or too late, oh well... I really don't care. As far as I'm concerned, I didn't miss her... she missed me. If she's going to come to some sorry conclusion that I'm not busy enough in my life because I decided to be prompt with my texts and she stops messing with me, she just did me a favor. I'm not going to deal with a woman with immature decision making processes for long, so she just helped me by getting away from me. If I hit her back too late, I ain't too mad at her, because it would seem as if I wasn't interested in her, so I ain't going to be mad at her, and I'll understand that she moved on.

I just like to be at ease in my life, so I'm not going to be trying to figure too much of anything, especially the perfect time to text. Trying to predict what's on a woman's mind isn't in my agenda. I just hit them back whenever I feel like it, and if they ain't really feeling that too much, that's cool. I want them to get wherever they need to be at if it ain't with me.

My personal mission is to find a woman that is in sync with me so that I can be perfectly natural in my actions and don't have to constantly be 'watching myself' to see if I'm coming off as cool enough to her. This will cause me to pass on a lot of women, because I'm not going to go outside my boundaries and do the necessary things to 'catch' some of them, but as far as I'm concerned, those are women I can afford to miss, since I don't deal with women just to deal with them. If they are a headache, they got to go. I want that one that actually puts a smile on my face.

Now, what I personally take account of is how prompt SHE is in texting me back. If she's one that ignores my texts, time for me to move on. If she knows how to hit a brotha back with the quickness, she will get moved up in my books. I also like women that do the little things like just say, "Hey, I hope you're having a great day." Considerate women are where it's at.

 

[Mofongo]

Key is do what works for you through experimentation and preference. If you want to text later to show her you aren't thirsty, do that. If you don't really care what she thinks and decide to hit her up promptly, then do that. The strategy behind all of this is to do what is conducive to enhancing your own lifestyle and operating in a fashion that is comfortable to you as long as it is in the confines of decent behavior. We are going to have different preferences and different goals for dealing with women, so ultimately, our methods of dealing with them will end up being different.

Me personally, I'm the type that will text back whenever I feel like it, but generally I'm more on the prompt side than not. If I feel like hitting her immediately, that's what I'll do... and if I don't feel like hitting her back, I'm going to let it marinate and send one down the line.

If I don't catch some girls because of me hitting her too soon or too late, oh well... I really don't care. As far as I'm concerned, I didn't miss her... she missed me. If she's going to come to some sorry conclusion that I'm not busy enough in my life because I decided to be prompt with my texts and she stops messing with me, she just did me a favor. I'm not going to deal with a woman with immature decision making processes for long, so she just helped me by getting away from me. If I hit her back too late, I ain't too mad at her, because it would seem as if I wasn't interested in her, so I ain't going to be mad at her, and I'll understand that she moved on.

I just like to be at ease in my life, so I'm not going to be trying to figure too much of anything, especially the perfect time to text. Trying to predict what's on a woman's mind isn't in my agenda. I just hit them back whenever I feel like it, and if they ain't really feeling that too much, that's cool. I want them to get wherever they need to be at if it ain't with me.

My personal mission is to find a woman that is in sync with me so that I can be perfectly natural in my actions and don't have to constantly be 'watching myself' to see if I'm coming off as cool enough to her. This will cause me to pass on a lot of women, because I'm not going to go outside my boundaries and do the necessary things to 'catch' some of them, but as far as I'm concerned, those are women I can afford to miss, since I don't deal with women just to deal with them. If they are a headache, they got to go. I want that one that actually puts a smile on my face.

Now, what I personally take account of is how prompt SHE is in texting me back. If she's one that ignores my texts, time for me to move on. If she knows how to hit a brotha back with the quickness, she will get moved up in my books. I also like women that do the little things like just say, "Hey, I hope you're having a great day." Considerate women are where it's at.

 

[re'up]

For Meet The Sniper, and others knowledgeable and opinionated regarded texts/whatever, I see someone I work with last night out with a few of her friends, one's around my type, I'm talking to one for a minute about movie/book, something, I have to leave. Later, the person I know hits me up 'my friend wants to know if you're single, thinks you're cute', I say 'yeah give her my number'.

Person who introduced gave her mine, and me hers, and the rundown about it's her girl, etc. Was just going to text tomorrow, maybe see if she's free on Friday, I'll probably be out anyway. thoughts?

 

[kevm3]

For Meet The Sniper, and others knowledgeable and opinionated regarded texts/whatever, I see someone I work with last night out with a few of her friends, one's around my type, I'm talking to one for a minute about movie/book, something, I have to leave. Later, the person I know hits me up 'my friend wants to know if you're single, thinks you're cute', I say 'yeah give her my number'.

Person who introduced gave her mine, and me hers, and the rundown about it's her girl, etc. Was just going to text tomorrow, maybe see if she's free on Friday, I'll probably be out anyway. thoughts?

Text her whenever you feel like it. You are the boss... the prize so to speak, so you should be the one setting the stipulations. YOU are the one giving the opportunity, so it's you who chooses when to hit her up. If she's about it, she'll get back at you. If she decides to think you are thirsty or something just because you were prompt with your texts, oh well, SHE is the one that missed the opportunity. All you do is present that opportunity to the next female who sees more eye to eye than you, and in the meantime, you just keep on doing activities you love doing so that you are genuinely busy.

In general, waiting 2 or 3 days to text will give 'most girls' the impression you are busy, but how they will interpret that is up to them. Women can play a lot of those same games... waiting 2 or 3 days to text back, and it may work on the AVERAGE man, but if it was a woman that wanted to get at me personally, I'd likely interpret it way different than the average man. The average guy might be cool with a woman hitting him back on some leisurely tip, but I'd look at it like she ain't according me my due respect and responding back promptly. She must think I'm some kind of nobody negro on the roster and she can hit me back whenever. So while the average woman you are dealing with might respond well to the waiting text game, the one you are specifically choosing to deal with might respond to it in a whole different way than the average woman. You can't really predict these things ahead of time, so just pick one and roll with it and accept the results... and whatever works for you the most and is comfortable with you, stick with that.

The problem with too much analyzing and getting into 'what the women want' is that instead of being your own man, you start developing a mental pattern of catering your actions to 'what a woman wants'. You no longer are in control, but she is in control... and you start walking on your tippy toes to try to keep whatever woman you are dealing with around. If these broads started saying they wanted cats to wear potato bags as their shirts, you'd have an influx of cats talking about, "Man, should I wear a Russet potato bag or another type? Which one pulls the most women?" You can't ever read a woman's mind, so pick something that you are comfortable with and roll with it. The key is to deal with the women that react to what you're doing... instead of constantly shifting yourself around to appease the woman. You will never gain real confidence if you base your actions and thoughts on what someone else wants you to do because you can never predict that... and you are also subconsciously telling yourself that they are so much above you that they know what's better for you than you know for yourself. Hit these women back when you feel like hitting them back and just be confident in accepting that whatever happens happens, and accept that if she's really about you, she'll make sure to get back at you. Who really wants to deal with women that you have to play all these corny little games with?

The REAL DEAL is as you keep on improving yourself and filling your life with interesting activities and handling your business, you will NATURALLY be busy... and if a woman chooses to disqualify you based on some small, nonfactor, she is the one truly missing out and there will always be a lot more women right around the corner who wants to get down with what you're doing. I don't cater to women. They better get in when I present them the opportunity... that's my attitude. That's like an employee turning down an opportunity to work with Warren Buffett because he called for an interview too soon. Buffett ain't missing out. The prospective employee with that ignorant attitude is the one missed out. You always have to make your life bigger than dealing with women and when you do that, when one goes, you already know another one will want to take her place... and YOU will be the one calling the shots and not catering your routine to 'what women want' or 'what works with the women.' They will be the ones worried about what works to get with you.

 

[Sharp]

Be careful of chicks with 2 or more kids.

Even if you're just casually fukking, keep in mind that if she ever gets pregnant, the likelihood of her keeping the baby is greater than 85% or 8.5 out of 10 are going full term.

Remember they've had 2 or more. It's nothing for them to pop out another baby. And the more kids they have the greater the percentage is. If she has 5 kids then consider it 99%, 100% if her kids are by more than one father


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[Jahmal]

Be careful of chicks with 2 or more kids.

Even if you're just casually fukking, keep in mind that if she ever gets pregnant, the likelihood of her keeping the baby is greater than 85% or 8.5 out of 10 are going full term.

Remember they've had 2 or more. It's nothing for them to pop out another baby. And the more kids they have the greater the percentage is. If she has 5 kids then consider it 99%, 100% if her kids are by more than one father


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I wont even mess with a female with 1 kid anymore. I used to hate going to a female house and just as we bout to smash her little rugrat wakes up crying and she has to spend the next hour rocking him back to sleep.

 

[International Playa]

Matter of fact, I don't see why people don't call more... especially you older nikkas who are 30+ years old.

lack of confidence, dudes dont know how to spit game on the cuff,


I believe these strategies about when to text are done when the lady in question is not feeling you 100% and you trying to convince her otherwise. If you are dealing with a woman who is 100% in to you, it wont matter how long you took to reply

Brothas you need to deal with a woman who is feeling you, it will eliminate all these techniques and strategies, however I'm not saying start simping. Keep it G and be a man about yours always!!!!!!!!

 

[MikelArteta]

IIRC We'rent you the one posting text rules like keeping it < 7 words (it's a good rule doe)

and don't act like you don't care if you take the time to hack a bytch computer and actually go thru her shyt. like you really took time out the day to read the drivel they post on FB

i dunno man, me not sending a text back sounds a lot more like actually not giving a damn



if you texting immediately for more than two exchanges that means you're officially checking for your phone.

which means she has your undivided attention

and if you do this all the time then she can command your attention whenever she wants.

one time she experiments....just to flex she will start texting slower and slower....and saying less and less (im sure plenty in the viewing and lurking audience can testify)

till she just goes cold

and then you text again....and again..."what's wrong?" "hey" "what did I do wrong?" cruelly she stays silent just to see if she can look at the p*ssy pink depths of your simp soul maybe you'll stack up 10 non replies in a row like the last dude she put on lame lance

(yes this is hypothetical but it's reality for majority of dudes)

I keep it under 7 words because if I need to say more I would call

I don't have facebook

The only tike I hacked a fb was years ago when I was in a relationship with a broad
And nope I have many many phone contacts in my phone, a woman can think what she wants I don't care.


If I text a female and she doesn't reply I delete her number and never text her again


The only texting rules I live by

Under 7 words
And inn the bushes if my text is ignored

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[iBrowse]

brehs...

I saw this on worldstar today...please watch the whole thing....

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the chef/owner/wife is a classic example of a crazy ass female....

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Everyone with a smart phones checks their phone atleast every 10-20 minutes. At my job I see everyone texting, facebooking, tweeting and instagraming on their phones all day long. If a person feels I'm not important enough to respond back in a reasonable time then they get cut off. SMH at these Grown ass men here still playing high school texting games with these broads. Its a Damn Shame!

First of all, that's untrue. I'm definitely sitting my phone down and when I'm at home it may be on me or it may be in another room. Why? Because it's my house, my home, my personal space. Like my German teacher mentioned at a time when his mother was young her mother would unplug the phone at 8 (in Germany). If you're in your place, personal space and alone time is needed and should be respected. Again all of you guys in here go "blah blah blah focus on yourself, it's okay to be by yourself, improve yourself!" But you stay glued to your phone like bytches, and then when a few people with an opposing point of view comes in that seems to be more relatable to your "I'm the man, I should do as I please, have all of the power" strategy you get mad and say "I'm not playing games!" Yeah you're not playing games while you're in a Machiavellian esque thread discussing how to control someone. Lets be real for a moment. nikkas in here lying to themselves too much. nikkas in here talking about self improvement, but are so caught up in hating women and trying to dominate them that they don't even improve themselves and if they do then they carry a dikkhead mentality and fukk themselves mentally. I don't respond to texts male or female for an hour, 3 or 4 at most. If it's urgent I'll call, if you're in my life then no matter what you'll be in my life. But until you nikkas get knighted by the queen, you're making 7 figures a year, and you've gotten employee of the month 5 times, don't try to come with that "why act like your busy when you're really not". nikka if you ain't done any of the things that ive listed then YOU SHOULD BE BUSY, working towards those things. This is my life, my ship, my world, I'm the captain of this and I'd be damn if I put some attention ahead of my future.

 

[Versa]

Women are so funny. We aren't going to be the ones desperate for somebody to marry us when we get in our late 30s. Our value increases with time while yours decreases. As a woman your best years are between 21 and 29. women are selected mainly on their looks. you see more lonely middle aged women than men. Men can date younger and have serious relationships, while older women can get dikk from a younger dude, but nobody will wife her especially with all of that mileage on her.

So instead of trying to help us, u should help yourself because you're gonna need it when your looks fade and dudes are checking for the younger, newer models. Learn how to be a good woman with morals so that u can be somebody's wife if u aren't already.

For men, it only gets Better with time, can't say the same for women.

Now that's reality for that asss

Yo...this was really mean.

...but pure. Very pure.