Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i wanna hunnid and fitty thousand!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAXSgssptc0

Holy shyt the first 5 mins of this is so cringe worthy :snoop:
one of the comments under the vid

"She is definitely a trifling woman, no doubt about that, but I do see how she may have been (unsuccessfully) trying to explain that he was overbearing. That IS possible to be "loved" too much. & Even if he's a great person, that doesn't mean she should stay if she's just not happy with him. I do wish the man the best of luck finding someone appreciative of him tho."

the bold is what make me consider just being a dog ass nikka...cuz even though she's right, if the roles were reversed where a woman were to spoil her man and do everything she could do for him and he just didn't wanna stay cuz he's not happy with her, you'll have women AND men shyttin on him for his ungratefulness...when it's women, they could just use the excuse of him being "overbearing" and him "loving her too much" and it's justified
 

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I've been thinking.

When it comes to conversations, I can be expressive and open. In relationships though, I'm reserved. Like, as far as expressing my affection for a female is concerned, I don't really show it. I'll cuddle and hug and kiss and all that jazz, but I'm not the one initiating. When I'm meeting new women, I'm not peppering them with compliments on their aesthetic qualities and shyt.

Am I doomed? It really just hit me that my most recent female partnerships, and the bulk of my relationships, have involved the woman I was dealing with feeling strangely because I'm not demonstrative. I know some women feel that if they show, and give a lot of love, that they need some sort of validation by getting some back. I can be emotionally dormant.

Last girl that brought me home from a bar was on this kiddy, high school, term of endearment shyt. We reached that obligatory, compliment stage but it was super corny. She kept calling me cute and adorable and was giggling. Now I'm realizing that she kept saying it because she was expecting me to big her up too. She hit me with the, "you're hard to read" when she found out that I wasn't wholly interested in her vagina.

Sorry for this y'all. I'm curious. I don't want to pamper and coddle these women.
 

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Moderation is essential. I have to learn how to balance things properly.

I remember my freshman year of college. There were some established jumpoffs and I had some funny encounters with them. One of them was a chubby white girl who had just recently gotten her first taste of dark meat. She was running through all the brothas. This school I was at had a really bad female-to-male ratio, so most dudes were not going to turn down a chance at some insides.

Chick was on my case a lot, but I wasn't sweating her. She's drunk one night and invites me to her room. I'm in the bed just lying flat. I was looking like the Undertaker just hit me with the Tombstone Piledriver my nigguhs. Just there with my hands across my chest.

She's guiding my hand to various parts of her body. She's kissing me and shyt, I'm not really returning them. Chick asked me if I was gay :dwillhuh:

As time went on, she grew angrier. I still wasn't fawning over her, was still acting like a mute so she started telling me that I was gay. She was convinced. The shyt was comedy. Before I dipped, she pulled her phone out, and I saw a text from a nigguh asking to come over. This was one of those cats that liked to publicly degrade this girl. Used to clown her aesthetics all the time and shyt, acting like he didn't want to smash :smh:
 

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Man, some of these cats are just satisfied with playing the background. I ain't trying to be cocky, but I see myself as a steak kind of cat... that meal that gets the senses on high alert. A lot of cats are satisfied with being that 5 month old hostess snack cake hidden in the back of the cupboard-- something to be consumed when there's nothing else. I really ain't down with being no woman's fall back option, aka what she jumps to when her first choices abandon her. If I ain't top shelf to her, don't even take me off the rack.
 
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