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I look at it as if I'm running a business. If there's no reason for me to text you, I won't. There has to be a purpose behind the text. Don't have time for text conversation. You have a phone, call me. You have a car, meet me in person. This is why being a man of value is important because you have things going on for you; thus time is money.





Brehs what is your stance on texting, calling etc.

Do you always make the first contact?

If a chick never contacts you first is it bushes status?

I have to say I'm hardline, I'll text or call first for the first little while, and if she never does I'll delete the number, if she cracks then :obama: if not shrugs, I'll never be one of these simp lame lances in her phone. I believe wholeheartedly in viewing a chicks actions and making cutthroat decisions.



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Brehs what is your stance on texting, calling etc.

Do you always make the first contact?

If a chick never contacts you first is it bushes status?

I have to say I'm hardline, I'll text or call first for the first little while, and if she never does I'll delete the number, if she cracks then :obama: if not shrugs, I'll never be one of these simp lame lances in her phone. I believe wholeheartedly in viewing a chicks actions and making cutthroat decisions.



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u always have to make the first contact. women aren't naturally aggressive. let it be very clear u dig her. then if she plays games after that. u have to haul her straight into the wilderness.
 

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Brehs what is your stance on texting, calling etc.

Do you always make the first contact?

If a chick never contacts you first is it bushes status?

I have to say I'm hardline, I'll text or call first for the first little while, and if she never does I'll delete the number, if she cracks then :obama: if not shrugs, I'll never be one of these simp lame lances in her phone. I believe wholeheartedly in viewing a chicks actions and making cutthroat decisions.



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i pretty much have the same mentality.

I'll play the game a little bit and contact them first, initiate things, etc. but like you said, if its not reciprocated I stop it.

with that being said, this new chick I been really feeling sent me an unprovoked text message the other day. had me like :ohlawd: she's interested and she's mad cool too.

i just hate bishes THAT never initiate contact. I had to stop talking to a good friend in hs cuz she NEVER called me first. and we were real cool. i gave her a warning and she said "okay, I'll try to call you sometimes as well." she didnt and i never called her again. we'd see each other at school but i never called her house again. :pachaha:
 

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i pretty much have the same mentality.

I'll play the game a little bit and contact them first, initiate things, etc. but like you said, if its not reciprocated I stop it.

with that being said, this new chick I been really feeling sent me an unprovoked text message the other day. had me like :ohlawd: she's interested and she's mad cool too.

i just hate bishes THAT never initiate contact. I had to stop talking to a good friend in hs cuz she NEVER called me first. and we were real cool. i gave her a warning and she said "okay, I'll try to call you sometimes as well." she didnt and i never called her again. we'd see each other at school but i never called her house again. :pachaha:

i woulda never even brought that sh1t up. woulda just stopped cold turkey. and got ghost. all that complaining aint never a good look. "u never call me, i'm the one always calling". just doesn't sound like something my arrogant ass would ever say. :childplease:
 

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i pretty much have the same mentality.

I'll play the game a little bit and contact them first, initiate things, etc. but like you said, if its not reciprocated I stop it.

with that being said, this new chick I been really feeling sent me an unprovoked text message the other day. had me like :ohlawd: she's interested and she's mad cool too.

i just hate bishes THAT never initiate contact. I had to stop talking to a good friend in hs cuz she NEVER called me first. and we were real cool. i gave her a warning and she said "okay, I'll try to call you sometimes as well." she didnt and i never called her again. we'd see each other at school but i never called her house again. :pachaha:

Yep and that's what irks me I'll Call and we will talk for like 20 Min, I'll text and she will text back right away and we will go back and forth for a while.

But if I don't text or call I'll never hear from her, not even a hey, or anything so bushes.



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i woulda never even brought that sh1t up. woulda just stopped cold turkey. and got ghost. all that complaining aint never a good look. "u never call me, i'm the one always calling". just doesn't sound like something my arrogant ass would ever say. :childplease:

Yeah giving a warning shows that you care, even if I do care I'll keep it quiet

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u always have to make the first contact. women aren't naturally aggressive. let it be very clear u dig her. then if she plays games after that. u have to haul her straight into the wilderness.

So if your talking to a chick or dating her, an she never initiates your ok with it?

If you don't call or text her for even a week she never tries contacting you once, your ok with that?


I remember this chick I was feeling, after a while I realized I was the one always calling and texting, so I stopped. Days went by, weeks went by, months went by its now been a few years. :beli:



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So if your talking to a chick or dating her, an she never initiates your ok with it?

If you don't call or text her for even a week she never tries contacting you once, your ok with that?


I remember this chick I was feeling, after a while I realized I was the one always calling and texting, so I stopped. Days went by, weeks went by, months went by its now been a few years. :beli:



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if im dating a chick, it'll be because she's shown interest and i like her back. so thats hardly ever an issue. however, some chicks in the past never really contacted me first but when i contact them, they always respond with excitement and are eager to link up. but the ones who give one word answers get ignored pretty quickly.

its easy to ignore a chick and not simp when u know theres at least one person in her life (or was), who she was gaga over, who she always respond to with lightening speed, who she never cancels or re-schedule dates on. so if she aint acting gaga over me like that, my arrogance wont allow me to be press any further.
 

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I AM going through a very tough time with my girlfriend.

We’ve been living together for a year and during that time I’ve had a broken nose, black eyes and plates broken on my head.

She thinks nothing of ranting and raving for absolutely no reason and her rages are just terrifying.

She has broken every single piece of crockery in my flat, ripped my clothes and pulled my hair out in chunks.

I would never retaliate and hit her back but me not doing anything seems to infuriate her even more.

And she’s never sorry about what she’s done.

My parents, sister and friends always ask how I’ve got so many bruises and I have to lie that I fell down the stairs, or had a ruck at rugby training.

But I think everyone knows the truth. I had no idea she was like this and, frankly, I’ve now had enough.

I would love her to move out but I feel really guilty even thinking about it because I know she grew up in a violent home.

She’s told me that her dad thought nothing of coming home drunk and beating six bells out of her mum, her and her brother.

She says the day she left home and moved into her own fl at was the best day of her life.

Her mum and brother eventually moved in with her and left the violent dad, and then last year she moved in with me while they stayed in her fl at. When we first met I loved her feisty ways. She was never violent or a bully then, just outspoken and knew her own mind.

All that’s changed since she moved in. I have to walk on eggshells but even that can be a trigger for her moods.

I feel like I’m letting her down if I ask her to move out but I can’t take much more of this.
 
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