Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

yessir i can appreciate you sitting back and kicking that knowledge. I wish I would have learned a lot of this earlier myself. I had to seek it out... i try to help people out where i can as well

What I appreciate is the lack of haters here and cats trying to out attention each other and just a whole bunch of men kicking real knowledge. this a real roundtable here.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yes sir
I speak from experience as well I've made every mistake in the book.

Also would like to add don't think your girl is not like that or can never be, even the sweetest fruit can turn sour and bitter.

I've been there for chicks when no one else were, nor their parents no one, put my good name on the line only to be spit out and stomped upon, anything with teeth can bite remember that.

No matter how you treat a chick she may cheat on you, use you, leave you, string you along.

I posted this in another thread

you can save a man from a burning building and he will feel loyalty towards you for the rest of his life. No matter if this was your sworn enemy at one point, s because men have senses of honor and integrity whereas women are utterly bereft and incapable of developing these.

you can save a chick with two kids from a abusive relationship the first guy to ever treat her like a human being, and she will still cheat and leave you for her deadbeat baby dad who assaulted her

 

[jadillac]

Make sure your aura is

at all times

 

[kevm3]

Don't think that non-black women won't like you simply because you're black and they're not either a slut, fat, ugly or a mixture of the 3. All women thirst.

Do not engage women in mind games. Shut her shyt down and don't get sucked into that.

Let her know that YOU are in charge of the relationship and not her. YOU run the show. You love having her around but you don't NEED her. Never make a woman feel like your whole world would collapse without her, unless it literally would (and yes you simps, I do mean more than emotionally)

Your priorities > hers at all times. Unless you're married to her and she's a damn good wife, your priorities should always transcend hers. Never let your dreams get crushed by her plan. "B-B-B-buttt... She's moving away and I may never see her again! I have to go with her". Stfu, there are probably at least a dozen women around you who have just as good of, if not a better personality than she does, are just as good looking as she is or better and will love you just as good or better than she ever could.

Don't simp a woman. For any reason. Ever. There's a difference between having manly respect and simply being a bytch.

That's real man... The ONE important thing I've learned is it all depends on how much a female likes and wants you. If she REALLY wants you, she will find a way to be with you or stay around you. She'll give excuses to OTHERS to be with you. If she doesn't really value you like that, she will have a million convenient excuses to be away from you.

Just look at that Jay Electronica situation where that girl broke up her marriage with a billion dollar family to be with Jay Electronica. I've had women even put their family on the backburner to chop it up with me. So I KNOW once the excuses start coming up and she's 'so busy', it's time to move on.

 

[Son Of God]

If you cannot make yourself happy, how are you going to make somebody else happy? So the key is first to fix your life, and prepare a kingdom where you are the ruler and can receive girls into the kingdom.


It doesn’t matter if you’re talking to five or a dime. Always run your game at the same level because in the end it’s the same game. Sinatra once said, “You treat a lady like a dame and a dame like a lady”.

 

[BruhMayne]

Let me drop two classic testimonials from nikkas who peeped game dealing with these females. Listen to every word


[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYQarmTR7Go]Juvenile - Juvenile On Fire[400 Degreez] - YouTube[/ame]

 

[jadillac]

Don't think that non-black women won't like you simply because you're black and they're not either a slut, fat, ugly or a mixture of the 3. All women thirst.
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Yo, I'd fallen into this mindset for several years and I just snapped out of it last weekend when I went to the club by myself.

Its like that law of attraction that whatever you expect/believe is what ur gonna get. I know Dallas has racism and I'd been pretty much putting most non-black woman somewhat in the, "she probably doesnt like black guys" box. And that's what I was getting mostly.

I purposely didnt talk to several chicks that night b/c i was telling myself that. But a few mins later, I saw random nikkas, that dont even look as good as me going over and chatting them up. I was like

I let those internet dating sites cloud my judgement too much in terms of what type of guy women want.
Fact is, a woman may have "rules", but she WILL break them if u come at her right

 

[kevm3]

Yes sir
I speak from experience as well I've made every mistake in the book.

Also would like to add don't think your girl is not like that or can never be, even the sweetest fruit can turn sour and bitter.

I've been there for chicks when no one else were, nor their parents no one, put my good name on the line only to be spit out and stomped upon, anything with teeth can bite remember that.

No matter how you treat a chick she may cheat on you, use you, leave you, string you along.

I posted this in another thread

you can save a man from a burning building and he will feel loyalty towards you for the rest of his life. No matter if this was your sworn enemy at one point, s because men have senses of honor and integrity whereas women are utterly bereft and incapable of developing these.

you can save a chick with two kids from a abusive relationship the first guy to ever treat her like a human being, and she will still cheat and leave you for her deadbeat baby dad who assaulted her

Yeah pretty much. Women are attracted to certain traits more than anything. "Being there" for a woman all the time and holding her down will do nothing but get you cheated on because you are too boring and predictable in a lot of these woman's eyes. It all comes down to how much a woman likes you and how much you can keep her emotionally involved/entertained.

To me mane, a lot of women are nothing but pure headaches, which is why I'm extremely careful in how I deal with them. I'm single right now and loving it. A great relationship is the best, but single is way better than what you'd get from a lot of these women out there. Having to worry about if your woman is cheating, if she's appreciating what you're doing for her, worrying if the kid is really yours... nah I'm cool on all that. That one that's built for the long-term is rare indeed.

 

[BruhMayne]

Yo, I'd fallen into this mindset for several years and I just snapped out of it last weekend when I went to the club by myself.

Its like that law of attraction that whatever you expect/believe is what ur gonna get. I know Dallas has racism and I'd been pretty much putting most non-black woman somewhat in the, "she probably doesnt like black guys" box. And that's what I was getting mostly.

I purposely didnt talk to several chicks that night b/c i was telling myself that. But a few mins later, I saw random nikkas, that dont even look as good as me going over and chatting them up.

I let those internet dating sites cloud my judgement too much of an actual encounter.

Fact is, a woman may have "rules", but she WILL break them if u come at her right

Where did you go to find bad non-black women in Dallas??

Dont confuse me with these posters that call everything a pawg though, black women still my first choice but Im single and tryna diversify my roster

 

[AgentGrey]

My ex texted me as I'm reading this thread, one of those "fukk that bytch" ex's.
Y'all inspired me to take a metaphorical shyt of monumental proportions on her emotions

 

[jadillac]

Where did you go to find bad non-black women in Dallas??

Dont confuse me with these posters that call everything a pawg though, black women still my first choice but Im single and tryna diversify my roster

I'm not even talking about white women, necessarily.

But anyway, I was in Addison that night. You can Uptown too, around McKinney Street, etc. But most of those chicks over there are too high maintenance.

Chicks that hang out in Addison are more level headed. Its just a different crowd in general.

 

[BruhMayne]

I'm not even talking about white women, necessarily.

But anyway, I was in Addison that night. You can Uptown too, around McKinney Street, etc. But most of those chicks over there are too high maintenance.

Chicks that hang out in Addison are more level headed. Its just a different crowd in general.

Preciate it...Ima UNT student so im closer to addison anyway, I heard of a place called Black Finn's out there ima check that out

 

[J_rock]

Preciate it...Ima UNT student so im closer to addison anyway, I heard of a place called Black Finn's out there ima check that out

God damn. Texas is heavy in this bytch. Ya'll slanging the names of places that I grew up around. One of my nikkas just graduated from UNT Med Center. Black Finn is cool. They got a dress code on weekends tho. Arlington's got a bunch of spots that are pretty good. Right off I-20 and Matlock. Houlihans, Bone Daddy's, Black Finn... The list is long. Plus there are a bunch of girls from UT-Arlington that you can get at. I see mad interracial relationships when I go through there on the weekends.

I'm moving to NC in a little while, but Ima miss Dallas. A lot of the girls are ratchet, but you can eat good well if you keep your game tight and stay away from the wrong types of females.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Man that part about the women and their families is true. In my prevous relationship my ex would always listen to her sister.The key point in our relationship was when her and sister were thinking about moving. The plan was for my ex girl to stay in their apartment until we get serious and then get our own place if we got married. Ok so she runs this plan by her sister who is on some "There is no guarantee you guys gonna get married".At this point im like the relationship is fractured because a woman 9 times out of 10 will always go with her fam over you. Even when you are married best believe she will CHOOSE her fam over YOU. We know the Bible says a woman is to follow the man but these women dont.Back to my girl...my girl decides to move and totally disregard everythng I said about our future.I know her moving had nothing to do with me,but fact she did it said VOLUMES. She didnt have to do what I said but the fact she didnt think about it and listened to her sister was a no-no. Men make sure your woman isnt influence by her family.When you meet her parents best believe them liking or not liking you will impact yall relationship/marriage. Face ot most women go wth popular opinion.

 

[BruhMayne]

God damn. Texas is heavy in this bytch. Ya'll slanging the names of places that I grew up around. One of my nikkas just graduated from UNT Med Center. Black Finn is cool. They got a dress code on weekends tho. Arlington's got a bunch of spots that are pretty good. Right off I-20 and Matlock. Houlihans, Bone Daddy's, Black Finn... The list is long. Plus there are a bunch of girls from UT-Arlington that you can get at. I see mad interracial relationships when I go through there on the weekends.

I'm moving to NC in a little while, but Ima miss Dallas. A lot of the girls are ratchet, but you can eat good well if you keep your game tight and stay away from the wrong types of females.

Damn its a black finn in arlington too

But yea DFW heavy on the coli we gotta thread now
http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/9989-official-dallas-tx-dfw-metrpolitan-area-thread.html