DaRealness
I think very deeply
Stupid bytch is dumb enough to leave evidence of a false claim.
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Stupid bytch is dumb enough to leave evidence of a false claim.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
The way I see it, you have to treat it like an employer about to conduct a job interview: You know that if a candidate has a telephone/face to face interview scheduled at 13:00, and they claim to really want the position and they're serious about it...they're not gonna mess things up. Short of a terrorist attack or death in the family, NOTHING is going to get in their way. If they show up late or miss the interview altogether talking about they "forgot" or some other lame/flimsy excuse then they've demonstrated they don't take important things seriously since they don't even care enough to make a good first impression. Therefore you simply toss their resume in the bin and write them off. If they call back saying they want another interview, you tell them where to go. That's how you have to deal with chicks. That probably more so applies for them showing up for dates, but even something as simple as a phone call is something they're not going to forget if they're really feeling you - no one is THAT busy, trust me. If they don't respond to you, it's because they don't value your company, simple as that. Life has taught me that lesson. You always know when someone has a genuine reason or whether they're just being flaky, so you simply have to decide how you want to proceed.
Huellz Santana
Shocking
see that's the downside to dating young chicks and truthfully my biggest fear as i get older. young women in their early 20's are so indecisive. you could invest 3 years in a 20 year old and she can hit 23 and be like "I feel like i have more living to do."
fukk that. God bless you for your patience tho
fukk that. God bless you for your patience tho
Don't women get it once your looks decline men don't want you for more than a nut.
Hell I rarely see attractive women over 30 and im 28 in a city with a 5 million population Toronto.
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Word. Appreciate ya.
You know what's sad though? You're mentioning 3 years, I haven't even been seeing this girl, sexually at least, for 3 months! But the emotional, and positional fluctuations have been so rampant that it's taking a toll on me. I feel like I broke a cardinal rule, I wasn't thinking about me enough. I was too selfless, and basically went against my initial instincts and thoughts that I had from the beginning, and now I have to readjust.
College is a haven for self-discovery and the hookup culture. In certain regards, it's really fun to be a part of, and to think about, but I think too much, and this shyt is wearing on me.
Shameonyou
All Star
i dont think 7 people in 34 years is that bad honestly
I was expecting a crazy number like 30 or some shyt
Huellz Santana
Shocking
ok i need some feedback.
im writing out a list (excel spreadsheet) of my exes and all their negative traits and the impact it would have had in the longterm. That way when I miss them I can refer to the list and be reminded why it wouldn't have worked.
Do you guys think this is healthy? im trying to use logic to deal with matters of the heart. im not listing positives because i already do enough of that in my head. im having a problem remembering the stress these women caused me and that's making me reminisce, have regret, etc.
thoughts?
im writing out a list (excel spreadsheet) of my exes and all their negative traits and the impact it would have had in the longterm. That way when I miss them I can refer to the list and be reminded why it wouldn't have worked.
Do you guys think this is healthy? im trying to use logic to deal with matters of the heart. im not listing positives because i already do enough of that in my head. im having a problem remembering the stress these women caused me and that's making me reminisce, have regret, etc.
thoughts?
DaRealness
I think very deeply
i dont think 7 people in 34 years is that bad honestly
I was expecting a crazy number like 30 or some shyt
When they give you a number, times it by two......
Alright my dudes, I got a story to tell. I know I've given bits and pieces so here's the whole story. You'll connect the dots with the bolded when it's all done. It's a long read, so my bad:
I met this one girl on Match.com back in September. Our phone conversation were great. We spoke like we've known each other for years. It wasn't your typical phone conversation where it comes off like an interview, it was just pure randomness. Anyways, we finally go on our first date in October. I was in the process of moving so once I finished that, we met up for some drinks. On first glance, she was meh. Thick but her face was meh. After a few drinks she started looking better and we both started loosening up. We ended the night kissing and that was that. I was still unsure but I gave her the benefit of the doubt because personalities can supersede looks and I've been won over by a great personality in the past so I continued to date her.
We're in November, still dating, and by now we've had sex. It was probably after the 5th time we hung out. We were making out, slowly peeling off each others clothes, my clothes are all off and we're grinding. She grabs my dikk and sticks it in her hole, raw. I couldn't stop because it was the heat of the moment so we're fukking, riding my dikk like there's no tomorrow. I put her on all 4s and her shiit started smelling so I had to stop, and make up an excuse it was too soon. She agreed.
December and we're still dating. Getting a little closer. By now we're in full fukk mode. Her p*ssy ain't smelling as much. I take her to my xmas party and things start looking up. I'm starting to open up to this girl slowly but surely. New Years comes along and we didn't spend it together because my boy fukks it up. That's another story. Anyways, the sex was always night sex and morning sex before she left. She would wake up in the morning and practically rape me.
January comes along and things start to change. Towards the end of January she mentions her ex boyfriend has been hitting her up left and right, after 2 years. Random calls, facebook messages, the whole 9. I notice a change in her behavior. She started to become distant. When we're together, things were cool. We start having heart to heart talks. Her ex got another girl pregnant and that caused the break up. But when she was away, she was away. Her presence wasn't felt like before. Text messages getting dull, took forever to reply, yadi yadi ya. But like I said, when we're together, we're talking about us, our future, the good times. But there was this 1 night that happened around the time her ex comes into play. She was suppose to come by on a Saturday night. She was out shopping with her parents. Come 9pm, I text her that I'm guessing there's a rain check. She never responds until 8 in the morning. I get 3 texts messages that she said she sent the night before. She has been saying her phone has been acting up. She comes over that Sunday night and all is forgiven.
February, we celebrate V-day. I buy her a dozen roses and she meets me at my place. She was an utter shock when she saw the roses. It was like she saw a ghost. Her thank you hug was more of a tap. I expected excitement and a bear hug. Guess not. So we go to dinner and we're talking about our future. We're not committed to each other yet. I couldn't do it because that hunch was still there. My gut feeling kept on telling me things still aren't right. We're talking about having kids, she wants to go hiking together, wants to go here, there, everywhere. She told me about this horse show called Odessa that she wanted to see. We get back, she was on her period so we make out, and call it a night. She didn't stay over because she has been training with her sister every Saturday morning. Now we're talking about meeting each other's parents, family, and friends. I take her to my friend's wedding and we had a blast. By then, I confessed about how much I cared for her. Told her I wanted to see her more than once a week. We were basically exclusive after that. We confirmed our plans of meeting each other's family and friends.
To be continued.....
I met this one girl on Match.com back in September. Our phone conversation were great. We spoke like we've known each other for years. It wasn't your typical phone conversation where it comes off like an interview, it was just pure randomness. Anyways, we finally go on our first date in October. I was in the process of moving so once I finished that, we met up for some drinks. On first glance, she was meh. Thick but her face was meh. After a few drinks she started looking better and we both started loosening up. We ended the night kissing and that was that. I was still unsure but I gave her the benefit of the doubt because personalities can supersede looks and I've been won over by a great personality in the past so I continued to date her.
We're in November, still dating, and by now we've had sex. It was probably after the 5th time we hung out. We were making out, slowly peeling off each others clothes, my clothes are all off and we're grinding. She grabs my dikk and sticks it in her hole, raw. I couldn't stop because it was the heat of the moment so we're fukking, riding my dikk like there's no tomorrow. I put her on all 4s and her shiit started smelling so I had to stop, and make up an excuse it was too soon. She agreed.
December and we're still dating. Getting a little closer. By now we're in full fukk mode. Her p*ssy ain't smelling as much. I take her to my xmas party and things start looking up. I'm starting to open up to this girl slowly but surely. New Years comes along and we didn't spend it together because my boy fukks it up. That's another story. Anyways, the sex was always night sex and morning sex before she left. She would wake up in the morning and practically rape me.
January comes along and things start to change. Towards the end of January she mentions her ex boyfriend has been hitting her up left and right, after 2 years. Random calls, facebook messages, the whole 9. I notice a change in her behavior. She started to become distant. When we're together, things were cool. We start having heart to heart talks. Her ex got another girl pregnant and that caused the break up. But when she was away, she was away. Her presence wasn't felt like before. Text messages getting dull, took forever to reply, yadi yadi ya. But like I said, when we're together, we're talking about us, our future, the good times. But there was this 1 night that happened around the time her ex comes into play. She was suppose to come by on a Saturday night. She was out shopping with her parents. Come 9pm, I text her that I'm guessing there's a rain check. She never responds until 8 in the morning. I get 3 texts messages that she said she sent the night before. She has been saying her phone has been acting up. She comes over that Sunday night and all is forgiven.
February, we celebrate V-day. I buy her a dozen roses and she meets me at my place. She was an utter shock when she saw the roses. It was like she saw a ghost. Her thank you hug was more of a tap. I expected excitement and a bear hug. Guess not. So we go to dinner and we're talking about our future. We're not committed to each other yet. I couldn't do it because that hunch was still there. My gut feeling kept on telling me things still aren't right. We're talking about having kids, she wants to go hiking together, wants to go here, there, everywhere. She told me about this horse show called Odessa that she wanted to see. We get back, she was on her period so we make out, and call it a night. She didn't stay over because she has been training with her sister every Saturday morning. Now we're talking about meeting each other's parents, family, and friends. I take her to my friend's wedding and we had a blast. By then, I confessed about how much I cared for her. Told her I wanted to see her more than once a week. We were basically exclusive after that. We confirmed our plans of meeting each other's family and friends.
To be continued.....
Carné Asada;3915027 said:
Just from what I read whenever chicks drop that a ex suddenly popped up and is in the picture and she suddenly becomes distant. Her feelings for him have arosen she's conflicted what to do give up this great guy or rekindle with the, 'a$$hole'.
I'll never be a backup to a chick, or a safety guy.
If a chick I'm dealing with says her ex is contacting her and she's become distant in the garbage she goes.
I've been in your shoes, an ex pops up, the text messages are like k and yeah, you'll feel something is wrong and even ask her but won't get a straight answer. Until your pissing razor blades, dumped or find out info that she's cheating
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Here we go, the final acts:
Now we're in March. Her birthday was the first weekend of march and she celebrates it out of town with "her girls". I wasn't invited because it was "girls only". She sends me a text Saturday night telling me how she wants me. We continue to see each other once a week. I'm making an effort to see her more but she was always busy. But still, when we're together, things seemed good. We hold hands in public, we still have them heart to heart talks, and so on. One night, after dinner, we're talking about other options. She asked if I was seeing anyone. I told her no. I ask if she would get mad if I was seeing someone else, and she said she would be livid. I told her the same. Especially after our talk at the wedding. We were too deep into this to have our options open. One Sunday, she texts me that her Sister bought her tickets to that Odessa horse show. I told her have fun and take pictures. She never did. We hang out another night, have dinner, and take our first picture together. She sends it to her friends and I'm thinking she's finally coming around. The bad gut feeling was still there, though but I tried to ignore it. So I'm ready to pop the commitment question and all of a sudden, she brings up how her ex beat her. It ruined the moment so I refrained. Suddenly that gut feeling is more prevalent than before. I'm thinking she's just scared so I'm going to try and fix this. She's been traumatized but I couldn't back off. Mid March, I call her one Sunday, she doesn't pick up. She text me the next day saying how Mondays suck but doesn't say anything about not picking up the night before. Whatever. So 3 weeks ago, she comes over on a Friday. She initially wanted me to go over there because her sister was staying at her parent's house and no one was there to take care of her dog. But instead, she comes over to my place and brings her dog. We go out to dinner, and she's still talking about us. About traveling, meeting her parents, and I bring up how things seem different with us. Actually, I've been bringing up how she's changed but she plays it off like she hasn't changed. We get back, we have sex, and her dog sneaks in the room and is chillin'. She says something like: he never likes to watch us doing this. That was the first time I met her dog. So I say, "Oh Really?" She said, you know what I mean. I let it go, because I was tired. Next morning, we grab something to eat and she's saying how she loves my neighborhood. Holding hands in public, the whole 9
Now, here's the juicy parts:
I call her again on a Sunday and she doesn't pick up. Now I'm pissed. She texts me back the next morning and I ignore it. She texts me the next day, asking if everything is ok. I respond that a lot on my mind and we'll talk later. After a few days, I hit her up asking what's up. I told her I had a rough week and that I'm cool. I wasn't. I wanted to see to talk to her about "things". She had a hectic weekend she was going to "squeeze me" in on Sunday. I told her I was going to the Dodger game on Sunday. She responds "Oh wow, really? Are you going with your friends?". I thought she was mad I didn't invite. Game over, I text her I'm on my way home and she said she was with her fam and will text me later. 9:30pm rolls around and she tells me she's finally at her parents house. I ask her if she still needs to go home. She says yes, she needs to take her sister home. 10:00 rolls around and I had enough. I text her to forget it and Im going to sleep. She responds calling me rude and good night. Last Monday I get on FB and start looking her up. I find her friend. Low and behold, they were all at the dodger game. While i was there as well. Keep in mind I hadn't seen her for 2 weeks. So I text her on Monday telling her that things seem like we're going in opposite directions. She agrees. I asked her if we can talk face to face. She tried to put it off until Wednesday or Friday. I said bullshiit, we need to do this sooner. So we agreed on Tuesday. We agreed for 2pm. I text her at 1, she responds that she is with her sister and sends me a pic of her sister. WTF? So she said she will text me when they are done. 5 rolls around. She said her cousin wants to work out so she will just come over around 8. I had enough. I texted her it was over. I couldn't deal with this shyt no more. I tried to be a man and do it face to face but she was avoiding me. She doesn't put up a fight. She said she realizes she was distant and she understands why I wanted to end it. I'm in shock but fukk it, it's done. I still think she was scared to get serious. But she kept on saying that I took to long to make her my GF. I told her I couldn't, that hunch was still there and I was busy tyring to fix it. She was always telling me i had commitment issues but I told her nah. I never found a woman worthy. I live my life with no regrets.
The Final act:
Friday rolls around, I text her that I'm still shocked this happened but to tell me the truth. I understand its over but I would like to know to get that closure. She responds that she's equally shocked. And tells me how she cares for me and that I just took too long. I asked her if she lost interest and she said no. She was just frustrated that I waited so long. I just couldn't because of the hunch. And I expected her to come around after the wedding (when we became exclusive). She acknowledged that I started to take her more serious after the wedding. I told her I had so much to say so she asked if she would like to talk in person. I said yes. So she promised to come over on Saturday. Saturday rolls around, I text her around 5 and she says she looking to be by here around 8. She texts me at 7 and tells me her sister wants to take her parents out to dinner. Here we go again. She's backing off. She plans on heading over after dinner. 10 rolls around, nada. She finally texts me around 11:30 that she's mad that she got home so late. She eventually flakes (obviously) and tells me she will be by on Sunday. So I'm pissed.
Sunday. I wake up and get on the computer. I start clicking and I come across this dude's instagram. There they were. She's had a boyfriend these past few weeks. bytch was living a double life. She's been messing with this dude since January. Feeding me lies (check all of the bolded). Yep, she was doing all of this stuff with dude. He was there celebrating her birthday and texting me at the same time. No more morning sex? She was on her way to another dude's house. After I hit it the night before. That hunch, was always right. But I was looking in the wrong places. Biitch was a lying snake this entire time.
And she wonders why I took so long? If I were committed to her, I would have been fukked.
Now we're in March. Her birthday was the first weekend of march and she celebrates it out of town with "her girls". I wasn't invited because it was "girls only". She sends me a text Saturday night telling me how she wants me. We continue to see each other once a week. I'm making an effort to see her more but she was always busy. But still, when we're together, things seemed good. We hold hands in public, we still have them heart to heart talks, and so on. One night, after dinner, we're talking about other options. She asked if I was seeing anyone. I told her no. I ask if she would get mad if I was seeing someone else, and she said she would be livid. I told her the same. Especially after our talk at the wedding. We were too deep into this to have our options open. One Sunday, she texts me that her Sister bought her tickets to that Odessa horse show. I told her have fun and take pictures. She never did. We hang out another night, have dinner, and take our first picture together. She sends it to her friends and I'm thinking she's finally coming around. The bad gut feeling was still there, though but I tried to ignore it. So I'm ready to pop the commitment question and all of a sudden, she brings up how her ex beat her. It ruined the moment so I refrained. Suddenly that gut feeling is more prevalent than before. I'm thinking she's just scared so I'm going to try and fix this. She's been traumatized but I couldn't back off. Mid March, I call her one Sunday, she doesn't pick up. She text me the next day saying how Mondays suck but doesn't say anything about not picking up the night before. Whatever. So 3 weeks ago, she comes over on a Friday. She initially wanted me to go over there because her sister was staying at her parent's house and no one was there to take care of her dog. But instead, she comes over to my place and brings her dog. We go out to dinner, and she's still talking about us. About traveling, meeting her parents, and I bring up how things seem different with us. Actually, I've been bringing up how she's changed but she plays it off like she hasn't changed. We get back, we have sex, and her dog sneaks in the room and is chillin'. She says something like: he never likes to watch us doing this. That was the first time I met her dog. So I say, "Oh Really?" She said, you know what I mean. I let it go, because I was tired. Next morning, we grab something to eat and she's saying how she loves my neighborhood. Holding hands in public, the whole 9
Now, here's the juicy parts:
I call her again on a Sunday and she doesn't pick up. Now I'm pissed. She texts me back the next morning and I ignore it. She texts me the next day, asking if everything is ok. I respond that a lot on my mind and we'll talk later. After a few days, I hit her up asking what's up. I told her I had a rough week and that I'm cool. I wasn't. I wanted to see to talk to her about "things". She had a hectic weekend she was going to "squeeze me" in on Sunday. I told her I was going to the Dodger game on Sunday. She responds "Oh wow, really? Are you going with your friends?". I thought she was mad I didn't invite. Game over, I text her I'm on my way home and she said she was with her fam and will text me later. 9:30pm rolls around and she tells me she's finally at her parents house. I ask her if she still needs to go home. She says yes, she needs to take her sister home. 10:00 rolls around and I had enough. I text her to forget it and Im going to sleep. She responds calling me rude and good night. Last Monday I get on FB and start looking her up. I find her friend. Low and behold, they were all at the dodger game. While i was there as well. Keep in mind I hadn't seen her for 2 weeks. So I text her on Monday telling her that things seem like we're going in opposite directions. She agrees. I asked her if we can talk face to face. She tried to put it off until Wednesday or Friday. I said bullshiit, we need to do this sooner. So we agreed on Tuesday. We agreed for 2pm. I text her at 1, she responds that she is with her sister and sends me a pic of her sister. WTF? So she said she will text me when they are done. 5 rolls around. She said her cousin wants to work out so she will just come over around 8. I had enough. I texted her it was over. I couldn't deal with this shyt no more. I tried to be a man and do it face to face but she was avoiding me. She doesn't put up a fight. She said she realizes she was distant and she understands why I wanted to end it. I'm in shock but fukk it, it's done. I still think she was scared to get serious. But she kept on saying that I took to long to make her my GF. I told her I couldn't, that hunch was still there and I was busy tyring to fix it. She was always telling me i had commitment issues but I told her nah. I never found a woman worthy. I live my life with no regrets.
The Final act:
Friday rolls around, I text her that I'm still shocked this happened but to tell me the truth. I understand its over but I would like to know to get that closure. She responds that she's equally shocked. And tells me how she cares for me and that I just took too long. I asked her if she lost interest and she said no. She was just frustrated that I waited so long. I just couldn't because of the hunch. And I expected her to come around after the wedding (when we became exclusive). She acknowledged that I started to take her more serious after the wedding. I told her I had so much to say so she asked if she would like to talk in person. I said yes. So she promised to come over on Saturday. Saturday rolls around, I text her around 5 and she says she looking to be by here around 8. She texts me at 7 and tells me her sister wants to take her parents out to dinner. Here we go again. She's backing off. She plans on heading over after dinner. 10 rolls around, nada. She finally texts me around 11:30 that she's mad that she got home so late. She eventually flakes (obviously) and tells me she will be by on Sunday. So I'm pissed.
Sunday. I wake up and get on the computer. I start clicking and I come across this dude's instagram. There they were. She's had a boyfriend these past few weeks. bytch was living a double life. She's been messing with this dude since January. Feeding me lies (check all of the bolded). Yep, she was doing all of this stuff with dude. He was there celebrating her birthday and texting me at the same time. No more morning sex? She was on her way to another dude's house. After I hit it the night before. That hunch, was always right. But I was looking in the wrong places. Biitch was a lying snake this entire time.
And she wonders why I took so long? If I were committed to her, I would have been fukked.