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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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My future wife hasnt even been born yet.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Oh bro, I'm not changing nothing; I'm still nice. Matter fact a girl called me charming yesterday. What I did realize that one of my mistakes is meeting girls for the first time having good convos with them and asking for their number is bad. A number has to mean more and I should have to know you and want you around to actually give you or get a number. Either way I'm cool man, I'm not changing whatsoever. School just started, I've been seeing some bittys, but real talk I ain't even approached any, I'm trying to hold back on approaching them, an I'm trying to get on my grind, get my passport, get some A's for the first time and the bytches that choose are gonna choose, cause real talk I be feeling like the flyest nikka on some classy neo soul free mind James Bond shyt on some skraight up unique I got my own swag while everyone else where's snap backs and shyt. Either way I'm killing the game fam don't worry.
Carné Asada;3858199 said:It's done. That shyt hurt my brehs.
But I'll be aight. I'm back to fukken biitches. Single life, I live alone, I'm fly. I'll be aight.
its for the best though breh
@ some of the hoes I see on okcupid. Where do ya'll meet your women? I did most of my damage on match. Had early success on pof. Met a few through friends. *sigh*I don't want to go back to online dating. But it's the easiest method since I try to avoid women with kids.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Carné Asada;3859404 said:
I don't want to go back to online dating. But it's the easiest method since I try to avoid women with kids.
Ah bro okcupid is cool but wtf that online dating shyt is too difficult, Id just take a break and have some alone time
The free versions are the hardest one because they became flooded. When I first got on it, over 2 years ago, it was easy. Now they're are too many trolls and fake profiles.
Match was the easiest one for me. But I met my last one on there and don't want to go back on just now.
Yeah, I'm staying away for a while. I got an old jump off I might activate. She was older and just wanted to fukk. So hopefully she holds me down for the time being.
Bruh... how do you do it? how do you stay so level headed? I'm sure you got dimes throwing themselves at you for relationships and sex.
I need your discipline.
When you start caring about yourself and your life and your goals more than p*ssy then you will be fine and be able to resist any temptation.
I have just recently gotten to that level. There are A LOT of very attractive women just hovering in my square right now, but I'm focused on other shyt and I have told them that. They can and will wait.
Be about your shyt and the rest will fall into place.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Cs, I'd reactivate my okcupid shyt but y do I feel like such a loser for having 1?Carné Asada;3859575 said:
Mr Hate Coffee
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Can we archive this one and start part 2? or can we do a wiki with the best gems? I'm gonna start saving shyt from this thread. Lord forbid the coli gets SOHHed then all these gems will go to waste.
CrossBones
Louder than words
this guy j cole just put a video out about how this girl "got him up all night" and hes sounding real hurt listening to love songs or whatever, basically turning into simp level 2. ending of the video? he kills the guy who was fukking ol' girl. just ... smh. kinda bullshyt is this? 
media loves to place the p*ssy on a pedastal and have men running around chasing it like dogs. a man supposed to have some dignity, not be out here hurt and chasing a woman around like that. acting like a ho is worth killing for. pathetic song, video, and whatever else its trying to be. smarten up, cole.
media loves to place the p*ssy on a pedastal and have men running around chasing it like dogs. a man supposed to have some dignity, not be out here hurt and chasing a woman around like that. acting like a ho is worth killing for. pathetic song, video, and whatever else its trying to be. smarten up, cole.
Check this... Stop placing women in the category YOU want to place them in and allow them to fall into the category they qualify for.
The significance is that we often see pretty women and that we start to like because a cool conversation or two. After that, we shut off our critical thinking and start placing babygirl in the wifey category. You have to be patient and allow her actions to determine what category she is placed in. How often does she frequent the club? Is she respectful when she hits you up? Does she always have 3 or 4 guys buzzing around? A pretty look and a decent conversation is a very quick way a woman short circuits a man's critical thinking ability. You have to let HER place herself in the category and not force fit her into a category just because she is gorgeous.
We as men see a gorgeous woman and our first impulse is to wife her up usually, but we ignore whether or not she is relationship-worthy. We simply think that by getting her into the confines of a relationship that we've actually secured her loyalty. This is utter nonsense. The only thing you've secured is a whole bunch of unnecessary responsibility. Entering into a relationship by someone who doesn't respect the stipulations of a relationship is a disaster in the making.
The significance is that we often see pretty women and that we start to like because a cool conversation or two. After that, we shut off our critical thinking and start placing babygirl in the wifey category. You have to be patient and allow her actions to determine what category she is placed in. How often does she frequent the club? Is she respectful when she hits you up? Does she always have 3 or 4 guys buzzing around? A pretty look and a decent conversation is a very quick way a woman short circuits a man's critical thinking ability. You have to let HER place herself in the category and not force fit her into a category just because she is gorgeous.
We as men see a gorgeous woman and our first impulse is to wife her up usually, but we ignore whether or not she is relationship-worthy. We simply think that by getting her into the confines of a relationship that we've actually secured her loyalty. This is utter nonsense. The only thing you've secured is a whole bunch of unnecessary responsibility. Entering into a relationship by someone who doesn't respect the stipulations of a relationship is a disaster in the making.
CrossBones
Louder than words
its so easy to give a woman passes when youre first meeting and learning about her. and the thing is, when we start to feel a chick a lot, many times its only based on her looks and conversation skills. rarely do men look at her habits.
we're also caught off guard a lot by their behavior because as men we hate playing games, so we tend to not believe it when we're getting played. it could be an ego thing too, but we when overlook the signs we pay for it.
a lot of times we doubt that someone would play games on us beause its counter intuitive for us to even think on that level. and thats how we walk into those traps.