another thing that bothers me today, is how men have compromised their standards. its not as important nowadays to be considered a man worthy of respect, and they have demoted themselves into girl hounds. theyre setting themselves up for the okie doke. simply put, many men today are slaves to their thirst. and they dont even try to hide it.
their main bragging rights are not: if their family is together, if their credit/financial situation is planned out ahead of time and going smoothly, if they have a happy home, or if their kids are doing well in school.
a lot of men these days have only got this to brag about: I fukked so and so. or I COULD fukk so and so. I have this, so Im about to fukk so and so...
theyre basing themselves their live,s and their status around women. their priorities are seriously misplaced.
and to make things worse, since thats the main goal, men have become shameless in their pursuit of sex. even more than some women these days. they will scheme on their mans girl, their girlfriends sister, their friends wife, the guy from their jobs lady, etc etc.
there used to be more of a code in place, that said you will not shyt where you eat. you will not fukk your mans girl. men nowadays are more ready than ever to creep with someone elses chick, and not give a fukk. problem is, not only are you fukking up someone elses relationship in your chase of p*ssy, but youre attracting a lot of problems that might come to light and turn out worse than you think.
I dont know why its like that, as before, if you KNEW someones old lady was flirting shamelessly, talking to other men, or being seen around town with someone else, youre SUPPOSED to pull ol boy to the side and let him know. thats your job, just as a man.
instead, theres just no shame today. men dont know how to be men. thats bird behavior. yorue not supposed to run up in her, and then just be like "hey, if not me than its someone else."
the problem with that is, you knew better. if it was someone else who did that shyt, than maybe he didnt know better because she lied to him. let that be his burden. but dont scheme on another mans girl. its not your place to be a p*ssy hound and fukk over the next man for yourself, so to speak.
theyre fukking up the game, and believe it or not, giving the women more power over everything. men need to have a code, and be able to check a bytch. youre not doing that if youre chasing her at all costs.
thats a big problem today, as many men think its cool to holler at the next mans girl, and even brag about it. sooner or later though, all that selfish shyt will add up.
men are trying anything they can, to
get anything they can. too much of that means sooner or later you will have to deal with someone else that you messed over. all with the shyt that comes with it. and when it comes down to it, you dont want to have a man looking for you because of some dirt you did.
men need to gain their composure and look into self control. and stop fukking anything they can. have some real standards, and have some decency about themselves. you dont have to fight over scraps and be fukking the next mans girl. get your own, or wait in the wings at least. shyt. fools out here are playing a dirty game, and wonder why theyre so stressed by ho shyt, and surrounded by ho shyt.