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IDK why but I've always stereotyped teachers as boring women in the bed and said I'll probably never date one. So about a week ago I met one...she's cute, stable job, no kids, has some goals, etc. We've been trying to plan when to go out but I had busy weekend and this week has been crazy too. So she invited me over for dinner Tuesday, not sure why I went but I did. The food was average, she made spaghetti but its the thought that counts right. So we're talking about different topics and sex comes up and shes like...I don't like having sex with just anyone because it complicates things and I want to feel a connection and know that we're a couple. I was like cool that's understandable and I respect that. After I left that night I thought she was a bit conservative but she seemed ok so I would see her again sometime. So yesterday she calls around 9pm or so and I'm watching the bball games and sex comes up again and she's like what do you like. So I tell her and she tells me what she's into and so she says she's about to fall asleep and we hang up.....11:30 I get a text saying “U still awake” I'm like yea watching the game, can't sleep? She responds “why you gonna give me some medicine to go?” Now I'm thinking she trolling me or its a trap but I respond sure I'm on my way over. I get there and she in her bra and panties ready to go. She said I could beat raw and could bust wherever I wanted, been on the pill since she was 14 :whoa: Of course I strapped up but busted on her face and mouth :takedat:

Afterwards shyt had me feeling some kind of way because I thought it would take me weeks but I beat after 1 dinner and didn't have to pay :heh: She seemed a lil different afterwards too, asking me was it good and did I like the sex talk. I was like chill I gotta sleep and go to work in the morning, but now I'm hoping she don't think we a couple :snoop: got a feeling she may be a clinger.

These women thinking giving me the p*ssy so fast going to make me want to be in a relationship with them :childplease:
 

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IDK why but I've always stereotyped teachers as boring women in the bed and said I'll probably never date one. So about a week ago I met one...she's cute, stable job, no kids, has some goals, etc. We've been trying to plan when to go out but I had busy weekend and this week has been crazy too. So she invited me over for dinner Tuesday, not sure why I went but I did. The food was average, she made spaghetti but its the thought that counts right. So we're talking about different topics and sex comes up and shes like...I don't like having sex with just anyone because it complicates things and I want to feel a connection and know that we're a couple. I was like cool that's understandable and I respect that. After I left that night I thought she was a bit conservative but she seemed ok so I would see her again sometime. So yesterday she calls around 9pm or so and I'm watching the bball games and sex comes up again and she's like what do you like. So I tell her and she tells me what she's into and so she says she's about to fall asleep and we hang up.....11:30 I get a text saying “U still awake” I'm like yea watching the game, can't sleep? She responds “why you gonna give me some medicine to go?” Now I'm thinking she trolling me or its a trap but I respond sure I'm on my way over. I get there and she in her bra and panties ready to go. She said I could beat raw and could bust wherever I wanted, been on the pill since she was 14 :whoa: Of course I strapped up but busted on her face and mouth :takedat:

Afterwards shyt had me feeling some kind of way because I thought it would take me weeks but I beat after 1 dinner and didn't have to pay :heh: She seemed a lil different afterwards too, asking me was it good and did I like the sex talk. I was like chill I gotta sleep and go to work in the morning, but now I'm hoping she don't think we a couple :snoop: got a feeling she may be a clinger.

These women thinking giving me the p*ssy so fast going to make me want to be in a relationship with them :childplease:
she chose on her own. that's what i was talking about when i said women will come to you if you're not thirsty. what she expected you to do is try to lie and win her over. She expected to be able to manipulate you with the hope of getting p*ssy. when she saw you really didn't see it as life or death, she got nervous because she's losing control of the situation. so she gave you some.


yes, she will probably be a clinger. expect her to try to make you feel guilty by telling you the fact she told you beforehand that she only has sex in relationships implied that if you slept with her you were committing to be in a relationship with her. you probably should have made it clear beforehand that you didn't want a relationship. that way she wouldn't even dare to use that against you afterwards and would have no justification to justify her future crazy/clingy behavior. Don't get me wrong, if she sees it that way, it's still her fault and she played herself. it's just that it would have avoided some slight future drama.
 

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Grabbed my girls phone to see how she would react...she snatched that bytch up with the quickness :ufdup:
 

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Grabbed my girls phone to see how she would react...she snatched that bytch up with the quickness :ufdup:

It ain't always that you're trying to hide something. If you looked through my phone it'd probably consist of a few text to friends and some other things. But if you were to grab it I'd flip, I just like my privacy and I want you to respect it.
 
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Gawd damn, whenever I'm in person with this chick, I'm annoyed by her and I focus on her negative qualities a lot. Kind of sours the experience.

When I'm away from this chick, I'm highlighting her positive traits and the dope stuff she's done for me. I'm feeling like a little broad brehs, a young nigguh's emotions are wavering far too much.
 

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Grabbed my girls phone to see how she would react...she snatched that bytch up with the quickness :ufdup:

:what: anyone who values privacy would do that breh

i damn near flip out when i have people in my crib and they wander over to my room without me with them


dont have anything to hide i just dont like that shyt :manny:
 

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Women who teach are somewhat boring.That naughty schoolgirl fantasy some of yall be having is just that a fantasy. I dated a woman who was a teacher and she had no personality. Imagine all the stress they deal with day to day among kids and when you want to date them or date them they are worn down,stressed.I seem to attract women who work in Doctor and Dentist offices for some reason :manny: But best believe career choice effects personality.
 

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Grabbing a woman's phone is a young cat move.I hope your not over 25 :what: I tell you cats this.Dont worry whats in a womans phone eventually if she was creepin on you,you will find out.A woman can hide so much for so long,now she will be naggin you and bringing up how your insecure (how women think im not sayin u insecure) and dont trust her.
 

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If you approach a chick because you have a feeling she's choosing/jocking but then during the encounter she starts to act like you're beneath her or trying to get you to chase/playing games, you gotta have it in your mindset that her fronting is lowing her value. you gotta have the :rudy: mindset and attitude slightly. whatever it is, just the fact that you have that mindset like she's lowering her value by acting funny on you, it'll ttrickle down to your body language speech and actions (don't try to control it too much) and she will percieve it with her antenna. Then, a lot of times, she'll start to feel like she's losing control (and power) over you and start to be more cooperative in an attempt to regain that control (you just flipped the script on her)

Heck if it gets unbearable, you can even abort and tell her straight up you thought you felt something cool between you two when you looked at her and she looked back (or whatever the circumstance is) but "i guess i was mistaking" and walk away. Don't get combative or hostile with her. It's all about patience and letting go. Sometimes they come back, sometimes they don't. Don't be bitter, don't hold grudges, but don't chase after them. let them go if they're not feeling you or fronting. If they come back, you,re free to do whatever you want from that point because she's behind the 8ball.
 

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Grabbed my girls phone to see how she would react...she snatched that bytch up with the quickness :ufdup:

"you dont trust me?"

anytime ive ever had access to a chicks phone i always see something i dont want to see.

i remember one time i was over at this broads house, and my phone died. I just needed to let my mom know that my phone died and ill be late coming home cuz it was like 130am i asked if i could borrow her cell shes like sure, while im dialing the number a call comes in caller id says jamal:beli:

i go some dude named jamal is calling you she quickly grabs the phone and declines the call and hands it back to me

:smugun:
 
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