Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Take it 1 day at a time g. Don't focus on them until they're in your face.
 

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True but sometimes you cant help but to look out for signs.Usually the ones who arent nice in the beginning be the shady ones.Usually your 1st impression is always right...however never let down your guard.
 

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True but sometimes you cant help but to look out for signs.Usually the ones who arent nice in the beginning be the shady ones.Usually your 1st impression is always right...however never let down your guard.

Ain't no need for looking out for signs and all that extra wondering about her character breh. Chicks are infamous for being great in the beginning then switching it up on brothas. Just keep dealing with her until she disrespects you or what you stand for then she gets the bushes... No need for all this calculative thinking that will just get you caught up in what ifs. "Maybe she deserves another chance?" "maybe I was too hard on her?" forget all that... Your code is there for a reason and if you don't have one now's the time to make one.
 

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True but sometimes you cant help but to look out for signs.Usually the ones who arent nice in the beginning be the shady ones.Usually your 1st impression is always right...however never let down your guard.

nikka tell yourself that, not me. After this thread I just be viewing bytches like dirt. Walked in a gym full of women and had given no fukks, matter fact I smoked a cigarette right outside the gym and then went in and flexed.

If I were you bro I'd just keep myself busy and then when yaw hangout yaw hangout but besides that fukk it
 

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Ain't no need for looking out for signs and all that extra wondering about her character breh. Chicks are infamous for being great in the beginning then switching it up on brothas. Just keep dealing with her until she disrespects you or what you stand for then she gets the bushes... No need for all this calculative thinking that will just get you caught up in what ifs. "Maybe she deserves another chance?" "maybe I was too hard on her?" forget all that... Your code is there for a reason and if you don't have one now's the time to make one.

all chicks are amazing in the beg the honeymoon period,
 

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Brehs, I've been dating this chick for about 6 months straight. I think she's expecting me to make it official. What do I do? :mjpls:
 

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So check this out. There's this fine trainer chick who works at my gym. She's only been working there a couple months, and has always been friendly. I'd never really spoken to her except in passing (simple "hey, how you doing" etc).

So last week, I'm working out, doing some crunches. I'm taking a break and basically staring off into space with my earphones on. So I felt someone tap my knee. I look up, and it was her walking past saying hi, so I'm like "oh hey...lol." A couple of days later, I'm entering the gym to swipe my pass card, and there's a line of people waiting to get checked in with just one guy behind the desk. She happens to be up front and steps behind the desk to help. When she takes my card, we exchange small talk again, and one she checks me in, she says "thank u [my name]." Mind you, I never told her my name, she just saw it on the computer when she checked me in, which no one else had ever done since I've been going there. The next day, I run into her again on the way to the locker room. I speak to her, but didn't know we were both going down the stairs, so we continue to talk. She asked me how was my day, what I was working on that day, etc. She also asked me for my name again, so I told her and asked hers. Once we get to the locker rooms, she tells me she'll see me on the floor.

Now, I know being friendly is part of the job, but I've been going to this gym over 2 years, and no one has ever asked me for my name, waves at me and speaks every time they see me. Is this a case of her just doing her job, or is she choosing?

yeah something along these lines is happening to me at work, i'm like :ohhh: but work is a place where you don't want to get signals crossed



i'm sure i've overthought it, but i'd rather be at work getting my shyt done, even if my gut is like :ooh: telling me you gotta go after it breh
 

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Carné Asada;3727464 said:
Brehs, I've been dating this chick for about 6 months straight. I think she's expecting me to make it official. What do I do? :mjpls:

This is what I don't get about chicks. It's been six months I'm sure it's going good and your treating her great, why not just be happy and enjoy the ride.

Sent from royalty using Tapatalk breh
 

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Carné Asada;3727464 said:
Brehs, I've been dating this chick for about 6 months straight. I think she's expecting me to make it official. What do I do? :mjpls:
you do what you want.

what makes you happy >>>>> what she expects
 
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