Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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it's been said before, it will probably be said again.

- NEVER take advice (or even entertain convos about dating/relationships) from women or men with simp tendencies. might have lost one over me breaking this fundamental principle and frankly i have no one else to blame but myself. i'm behind the 8 ball like a mothafukka...

- Never get your head in the clouds thinking she's the exception.

- Your happiness above EVERYTHING!




i swear i'm rediscovering some evil and bitterness i hadn't felt in a while, lol. I'm not gonna let it change me cause at the end of the day it's my fault. Just need to get focused again, get money, go to the gym, keep it real and replacing instead of chasing.
 

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I met a woman the other day at a job training.She was very friendly sort of was my type.We had small talk and I asked for her #.We was having a great convo until she said "she was seperated with kids" At this point im like :ohhh: :scusthov: On that note fellas be wary of women who mess with married men or dating "seperated" husbands
 

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I met a woman the other day at a job training.She was very friendly sort of was my type.We had small talk and I asked for her #.We was having a great convo until she said "she was seperated with kids" At this point im like :ohhh: :scusthov: On that note fellas be wary of women who mess with married men or dating "seperated" husbands

seperated with kids aint fully divorced yet

once i heard kids i would have been:notimpressed:





brehs how should you ask a chick out to coffee?

i dont even know why im overthinking this:russ:

just a vague comment

a) hey we should go out for coffee sometimes

setting a firm date and time

b) we should go out for like coffee this weekend say saturday at 8?
 

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I'd go with option a then when she says yeah that's an opening to give her ur digits and if she texts you you know she's at least somewhat interested in you.
 

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seperated with kids aint fully divorced yet

once i heard kids i would have been:notimpressed:





brehs how should you ask a chick out to coffee?

i dont even know why im overthinking this:russ:

just a vague comment

a) hey we should go out for coffee sometimes

setting a firm date and time

b) we should go out for like coffee this weekend say saturday at 8?

I thought about what you would say in a situation like that :krs: As for the Coffee go with Option A
 

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it's been said before, it will probably be said again.

- NEVER take advice (or even entertain convos about dating/relationships) from women or men with simp tendencies. might have lost one over me breaking this fundamental principle and frankly i have no one else to blame but myself. i'm behind the 8 ball like a mothafukka...

- Never get your head in the clouds thinking she's the exception.

- Your happiness above EVERYTHING!




i swear i'm rediscovering some evil and bitterness i hadn't felt in a while, lol. I'm not gonna let it change me cause at the end of the day it's my fault. Just need to get focused again, get money, go to the gym, keep it real and replacing instead of chasing.
You're from London right? YouTube

Sad cause I swear you were feeling her. What happened?
 

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seperated with kids aint fully divorced yet

once i heard kids i would have been:notimpressed:





brehs how should you ask a chick out to coffee?

i dont even know why im overthinking this:russ:

just a vague comment

a) hey we should go out for coffee sometimes

setting a firm date and time

b) we should go out for like coffee this weekend say saturday at 8?

So remember how I told you that my cousins girls sister made us watch that feminist comedian? (<<<) well one of the things she said was that women hate men who ask to go out for coffee bc it a makes them look cheap b they see it as a feminine thing to do (I guess, idk how when I enjoy getting coffe with make friends) also if you take her out for coffee don't pay for her, why because women are going to think oh he's trying to show off and be masculine for a $4 cup of coffee. Etc etc. this is what the broad said not me
 

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I remember I cried because this chick I was messing heavy with told me to fukk off. LOL :snoop:

:to:

I was in my room with my face buried in a soggy pillow. Come to think of it, she ran after me and consoled me and then I smashed a while later. :shaq:

so weird. :snoop:
 

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So remember how I told you that my cousins girls sister made us watch that feminist comedian? (<<<) well one of the things she said was that women hate men who ask to go out for coffee bc it a makes them look cheap b they see it as a feminine thing to do (I guess, idk how when I enjoy getting coffe with make friends) also if you take her out for coffee don't pay for her, why because women are going to think oh he's trying to show off and be masculine for a $4 cup of coffee. Etc etc. this is what the broad said not me

I never take advice from women.

And I am cheap lol

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You're from London right? YouTube

Sad cause I swear you were feeling her. What happened?
lol, don't really like giving too many details on here but overall i just allowed some bad advice to mess with my mindset. thinking back, my mindset was warped. too many steps back now and she basically stole the ball from me and is running with it. i allowed her to see softness a little. only thing left to do is to charge it to the game and move on. she might comeback, she might not (most likely won't). but like i said, it's completely my fault and i take full responsibility for having the mindset of "she's not like other chicks". the truth is, a chick is how you allow her to be with you. the way for her to not be like other chicks is to not allow her to act like typical chicks (which i was doing right at first). live and learn...


naw, i'm from mtl, you?
 

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I never take advice from women.

And I am cheap lol

Sent from royalty using Tapatalk breh

DAPS! Cheap is the way to be!

These simps don't realize that women view men who spend too much money too fast the same way we view women who give up the p*ssy too fast... STOP SPENDING MONEY ON WOMEN!!!
 

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So remember how I told you that my cousins girls sister made us watch that feminist comedian? (<<<) well one of the things she said was that women hate men who ask to go out for coffee bc it a makes them look cheap b they see it as a feminine thing to do (I guess, idk how when I enjoy getting coffe with make friends) also if you take her out for coffee don't pay for her, why because women are going to think oh he's trying to show off and be masculine for a $4 cup of coffee. Etc etc. this is what the broad said not me

smh

I like to take girls out for coffee dates and I get success from it also, not like you have to be just drinking coffee all the time, theres nothing wrong with the guy paying for the coffee also. Go for a long walk and sit in a park or something before hand and get to know each other and then get coffee...

If the chick is into you she won't care and she'll enjoy your company more
 
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