Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Sleepy Floyd

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These chicks be pump faking
:russ: don't waste too much time doing anything else but inviting them out on a date

This one chick was acting so interested. Even the last time I saw her at an event she was acting like she was actually feeling me

I invited her out today and she's talking about "Your girlfriend might get mad, I don't want any problems"
:russ: knowing I'm single. It's like these chicks be reading from the same script. They just be bullshytting. Invite them out and you'll get your answer quick. Bushes!
 

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I hate texting

Second that. Leads to nowhere usually.

i dont mind texting but at the age of 33 I find it difficult because the women usually arent as engaged and I no longer know how or have the patience to try to "captivate" them or whatever. As a result, I find shyt fizzles out very often after one or even two convos

The medium is the message:

That the form of communication used to deliver a message (the medium) has a significant impact on the message itself, rather than just the content it carries; it is often interpreted as the characteristics of a medium shaping how information is perceived

"Indeed, it is only too typical that the 'content' of any medium blinds us to the character of the medium". For McLuhan, it was the medium itself that shaped and controlled "the scale and form of human association and action

ONLY TEXT TO SET UP DATES!!!! NONE OF THAT "HOW WAS YOUR DAY" BULLshyt
 

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yeah, I wrote a post a few pages back about entirely phasing out texts in a few different contexts. and I rarely texted to begin with, it's just something I want to get entirely away from I don't even ask people in person how their day was. Dumbest fukking question lol

Will write a few sentences about how attempting to phase out texts entirely went for me
 
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These chicks be pump faking
:russ: don't waste too much time doing anything else but inviting them out on a date

This one chick was acting so interested. Even the last time I saw her at an event she was acting like she was actually feeling me

I invited her out today and she's talking about "Your girlfriend might get mad, I don't want any problems"
:russ: knowing I'm single. It's like these chicks be reading from the same script. They just be bullshytting. Invite them out and you'll get your answer quick. Bushes!

That's why I'm sitting it out. Not worth hopping back in.
 

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These chicks be pump faking
:russ: don't waste too much time doing anything else but inviting them out on a date

This one chick was acting so interested. Even the last time I saw her at an event she was acting like she was actually feeling me

I invited her out today and she's talking about "Your girlfriend might get mad, I don't want any problems"
:russ: knowing I'm single. It's like these chicks be reading from the same script. They just be bullshytting. Invite them out and you'll get your answer quick. Bushes!
That's one of the quickest ways a chic can get me to stop talking to them. When they bring up other women or "throw" women on me. It's so insecure it just turns me completely off them. Like have some confusing yourself like the way y'all be portraying it on the socials :russ:
 

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ONLY TEXT TO SET UP DATES!!!! NONE OF THAT "HOW WAS YOUR DAY" BULLshyt

Exactly. Anything that we can text we can discuss in person.

My rule was a woman with high interest would agreee to a meetup within 5 days, for me usually 3 days.

Outside of that you run the risk of her bailing. Especially if you playing text games. With the good morning and goodnight messages.
 

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So I met a Girl who was "Poly" for the first time. I really never gave AF what somebody's doing when im not with them cause I'm gonna do me anyway so whatever.

You would have thought we were in serious a committed relationship :what: this bytch was needy af.

I thought I would have preferred her being with somebody else when im not with her cause I don't have it in me to give all that attention right now but Jesus Christ!
 

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Exactly. Anything that we can text we can discuss in person.

My rule was a woman with high interest would agreee to a meetup within 5 days, for me usually 3 days.

Outside of that you run the risk of her bailing. Especially if you playing text games. With the good morning and goodnight messages.
i usually ask a girl out within two text conversations
 

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Better bend the knee breh i dont know the situation and or why but do that for starters if your that desperate which you shouldn’t be unless u royally fukked up a good thing
Just noticed no matter how many I juggle she’s still in the back of my mind. Not going to cry if she doesn’t come back to me but last time I ran into her she didn’t look too happy herself so that’s really my main reason otherwise I would’ve left her alone
 

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Just noticed no matter how many I juggle she’s still in the back of my mind. Not going to cry if she doesn’t come back to me but last time I ran into her she didn’t look too happy herself so that’s really my main reason otherwise I would’ve left her alone
What happened?
 

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One of my BIGGEST turnoffs are women that catch feelings/like you too fast.

Just had a girl switch up on me and remove me everywhere cuz i wasn’t moving the way she liked and makin any effort to see her. She told me “she liked me” and wanted to see where my head was at so i told her i move at my own pace and i’m a slow burner. Also told her she shouldn't like me that much yet as we only had 1 date.

:manny:

When a woman catches feelings early on, it expedites problems especially if she doesn’t know where your head is at. :francis:
 

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One of my BIGGEST turnoffs are women that catch feelings/like you too fast.

Just had a girl switch up on me and remove me everywhere cuz i wasn’t moving the way she liked and makin any effort to see her. She told me “she liked me” and wanted to see where my head was at so i told her i move at my own pace and i’m a slow burner. Also told her she shouldn't like me that much yet as we only had 1 date.

:manny:

When a woman catches feelings early on, it expedites problems especially if she doesn’t know where your head is at. :francis:
Blazed her?
 
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