Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Finally decided to let this girl go.

Early on in our relationship, she caught me texting the other girl I was also talking to before I made stuff official with her.

She had a terrible breakdown at my crib over that, i apologized about it and cut all communications with this person. Apparently this incident triggered her anxiety and made her paranoid, and we’ve had numerous fights over this over the past month. Constantly checking my phone, constantly trying to keep tabs on me.

She decided to end things on Tuesday night, over the phone, and I didn’t fight it, I didn’t have the energy to. I didn’t even try reaching out to her the whole of Wednesday.. I received a long ass text on Wednesday night about how much I didn’t care and how much I have treated her as a replaceable option. I tried replying and noticed I was blocked. I guess it’s really over now.

I understand it’s my fault, but why forgive me and decide to continue with me if you’re going to constantly bring up what I did?

I’m not a man so I don’t know how receptive you’ll be to my perspective..

She probably thought she could forgive you and possibly really wanted to but you have to believe people when they show you who they are. Unfortunately, you showed her early on that you aren’t to be trusted. It’s better for her to cut out now than to pretend she doesn’t know you’re capable of these things and later act shocked when the same issues crop up or you do even worse.

That’s why it’s important to handle people with care and intention. Sometimes you don’t get do overs or second chances especially with those that have self-respect and healthy self-esteem. And that goes for men and women. A lot of women have fumbled good men the same way.
 

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We fell out because she started moving distant and I said something I shouldn’t have said out of anger long story short
Not sure what level yall were at back make sure it’s not a reaction to it ending that way instead of really wanting something :hubie:
 

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Just noticed no matter how many I juggle she’s still in the back of my mind. Not going to cry if she doesn’t come back to me but last time I ran into her she didn’t look too happy herself so that’s really my main reason otherwise I would’ve left her alone

We fell out because she started moving distant and I said something I shouldn’t have said out of anger long story short
I mean u just gotta move on then breh if she don’t want you simple as that gonna take time
I dont know what u said that u felt u shouldn’t have but take the L
If she was moving distant that’s her mistake and ur right to approach her about it but in a disrespectful manner didn’t help at all is what I’m assuming you did
 

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This Travis Hunter and his girl situation is crazy

simps will simp, you have to remember he's young and was prob coddled all his life.

I remember being young and dating a girl and people saying this and that but I was like no you don't know here like I do etc. then I got burned
 

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We fell out because she started moving distant and I said something I shouldn’t have said out of anger long story short
Sounds like it was meant to be. Men should never say things out of anger but sometimes these bytches ask for it and it is what it is. Just move on it wasn’t mean to be.
 

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Respectfully woman are like children that should not be taken serious and they know this. This is why they want a man who doesn’t put them on a pedestal and leads them and makes decisions for them.

I am not a woman hater but it is what it is. The sooner you realize this the happier you will be and the less shyt you will put up with.

Men and women need each other and men are better at some things and women better at others. My point is especially for the younger guys be a man and don’t simp or let these bytches try to play you or take their shyt. Because a lot of them are whack and miserable but look like a dime and they know this.
 

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Respectfully woman are like children that should not be taken serious and they know this. This is why they want a man who doesn’t put them on a pedestal and leads them and makes decisions for them.

I am not a woman hater but it is what it is. The sooner you realize this the happier you will be and the less shyt you will put up with.

Men and women need each other and men are better at some things and women better at others. My point is especially for the younger guys be a man and don’t simp or let these bytches try to play you or take their shyt. Because a lot of them are whack and miserable but look like a dime and they know this.
You're onto something there. I don't know if y'all have been paying attention but a lot of chics are posting about seasonal depression and some other sad stuff. Alot of them probably struck out or were difficult and now they don't have anyone to post the matching PJ pics with lol. But that's why I tell brehs to stand on your square these women aren't so high on the pedestal like y'all try to put them. Be yourself approach if they don't vibe move around and keep going until you find someone that aligns with you. Don't put up with BS or games. Leave those chics exactly where they're at.
 

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You're onto something there. I don't know if y'all have been paying attention but a lot of chics are posting about seasonal depression and some other sad stuff. Alot of them probably struck out or were difficult and now they don't have anyone to post the matching PJ pics with lol. But that's why I tell brehs to stand on your square these women aren't so high on the pedestal like y'all try to put them. Be yourself approach if they don't vibe move around and keep going until you find someone that aligns with you. Don't put up with BS or games. Leave those chics exactly where they're at.
Down badly during cuffing season
 

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Women talking amongst themselves.

"Actually losing weight was better for me than getting masters degree or doing any type of work"

"lol there was a study done on this! That for women, losing weight would get you a higher paying salary than a masters degree"

 

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One of my BIGGEST turnoffs are women that catch feelings/like you too fast.

Just had a girl switch up on me and remove me everywhere cuz i wasn’t moving the way she liked and makin any effort to see her. She told me “she liked me” and wanted to see where my head was at so i told her i move at my own pace and i’m a slow burner. Also told her she shouldn't like me that much yet as we only had 1 date.

:manny:

When a woman catches feelings early on, it expedites problems especially if she doesn’t know where your head is at. :francis:

She a weirdo lol dont over think it
 
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