Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Another thing I got to put you cats on is the "maybe" game. I expose this in a woman's game the other day. I asked her a ? and she said maybe.She then immediately changed to a yes :leon: but thats another topic. When a woman uses the word maybe its a substitute for Yes or NO. Never tolerate the word maybe.Women are smart and they know before you open your mouth if its a yes or no for you.Here is an example

Male: Movies tonght?
Female:maybe

:mindblown:
 

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I have fun, I'm relaxed, I just would rather have a relationship as I don't want to go out and mess around with someone that I don't know. I think I kind of hold myself to a higher moral standard. I've fukked around with chicks that I wasn't with and all though it felt good, I just didn't like it and I really don't want it for myself. Like I said I'm not in a rush to get into a relationship.
 

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Another thing I got to put you cats on is the "maybe" game. I expose this in a woman's game the other day. I asked her a ? and she said maybe.She then immediately changed to a yes :leon: but thats another topic. When a woman uses the word maybe its a substitute for Yes or NO. Never tolerate the word maybe.Women are smart and they know before you open your mouth if its a yes or no for you.Here is an example

Male: Movies tonght?
Female:maybe

:mindblown:

That maybe shyt<<<
 

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1. Thou Shalt Not Try To Impress

The most unimpressive people in the world are people who try too hard to sell themselves. They are annoying and exhausting to be around because they are very uncomfortable with silence and stillness. When you approach woman with this attitude that she is a prize, you are putting her on a pedestal and implying that she is better than you. You are treating her like royalty. This is disgusting behavior for a high value man. A man of value doesn’t need to kiss anyone’s ass.

Instead, you should seem totally comfortable in your own skin and at ease with who you are and what you expect from others.

2. Thou Shalt Not Chase Women

So now you might ask yourself: how the hell am I supposed to meet women if I don’t go after them? Well, understand that chasing is different from pursuing. A high value man will give his attention to women who appreciate it and work for it.

If a woman is acting bytchy, flaky or otherwise difficult and rude, she is not worthy of a high value man’s attention. Only a low value man would tolerate such behavior from a woman.

3. Thou Shalt Not Be Ruled By Women

This means several things. For starters, women should never rule your life. You should have real goals and passions you care about outside of women. In addition to that, no woman you are dating should ever be able to control you. You should not be changing your habits and ignoring your male friends because your girlfriend wants you to do what she has planned.

A high value male is truly the boss of the relationship.

4. Thou Shalt Not Seek Female Approval

I can’t stress this enough. A high value man is comfortable in his own skin. He is comfortable with his values, opinions, beliefs, morals and desires. When it comes to women, a high value man has a “take it or leave it” attitude. He is not willing to change.

You should never be intimidated by a woman’s opinion of you. Sexual attraction is not connected to compatibility and shared values. Making a woman LIKE you will not make her sexually attracted to you. At the same time, she can be attracted to you and hate you as a person.

Just like you won’t turn down Jessica Alba because she doesn’t share your political beliefs, a woman is not going to stop being attracted to you because she doesn’t approve of your values or opinions.

5. Thou Shalt Not Over Value Her Looks

This is another area of life a lot of men f*ck up. They can be as macho and confident as hell until some gorgeous supermodel walks in. Suddenly their spine turns into a noodle and they start acting like a puppy dog.. or even worse.. they start making excuses about why she is not worth approaching. Stuff like:

“She probably has a boyfriend.”

“I’m probably not her type.”

“She looks high maintenance.”

“She looks bytchy.”

A high value man will always approach a woman he finds sexually attractive. There is no logical reason not to. He knows that physical attractiveness alone does not make a woman “worthy” of his instant respect and admiration. She better behave herself, act right and show him respect or he will walk away.

6. Thou Shalt Not Be a Loser

Women can smell a loser like a fat kid can smell fresh cookies. What generally makes a man a loser is a lack of focus, ambition, courage, independence and self-knowledge. A man who follows the crowd, kisses female ass, lets people run over him, falls into traps and lacks independence (both emotionally, financially and physically) will usually be perceived as a loser by most women.

A high value man is strong, bold and brave. He knows what he wants and he has a zest for life and adventure.

7. Thou Shalt Not Fear Women

The only time a man should ever feel fear in the presence of a woman is either when she has a gun to his head, or when she has his balls in her hand and a knife in the other. Otherwise, you should never be intimidated by any woman EVER in any situation.

It doesn’t matter if she is trying to embarrass you in public. It doesn’t matter if you are alone with her and five of her girlfriends while they all gang up on you in an argument. It doesn’t matter if she is threatening to break up with you. It doesn’t matter if she has loads of sexual experience. It doesn’t matter if she dated an NFL player. Never be intimidated. Never be afraid.

You’ll notice that once you lose all fear of women, you will attract them in droves.

8. Thou Shalt Not Be A Tool

A high value man lives the life he wants to live. He does not design his entire life and existence around what attracts women. If you want examples of tools, look at the cast of Jersey Shore. These are men who work out, buy trendy clothes, tan, tattoo and swim in cologne just to attract women. None of these behaviors are a problem if they are something the man truly enjoys. What separates a tool from a high value man is the motive. A tool only does this stuff because he believes women are attracted to it. A high value man does it because he really enjoys it.

9. Thou Shalt Not Be Bitter

Just like women can smell a loser, they can also smell a bitter man. If you feel wronged by women and you’ve had your heart broken several times, it’s time to get over it. Only a weak man allows the behavior of women to destroy his world and control his outlook on life. Women are very similar to children. Their bad behavior should be punished, but never taken personally.

10. Thou Shalt Not Be Desperate

I don’t care if its sex, affection, love, marriage, family or just a warm body that you desire. Don’t be desperate and needy about it. I’ve discussed before how you should never want anything THAT BAD to the point you are willing to settle for a bad deal and fall into traps.

If you live the life of a high value man, you will be rewarded with lots of female attention and worldly success. If you live the life of a low value man, you will get used, abused and trapped. AGAIN, these 10 commandments are about your image. This is how the world should see you.
 

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I haven't been talking to that Brazilian girl much lately but she hit me up asking me when I will be in Brazil. Told me to check out her new pics from place she went with her family and told me she wants to go there with me :leon:

Her mom is pretty
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I gave her advice on losing weight and working out so I guess she wanted me to see the result.

A few other updates I stopped talking to that high maitenance girl I mentioned before. She was cool just really not what I'm looking for. Also I responded to one of my exs emails...big mistake. I told her I didn't want her to get comfortable with me responding to an email cause it would lead to her calling me and she did that literally 5 minutes after I said that. I didn't pick up and she texted me asking why. Then 2 weeks goes by and I get a text from her at 6:45am and it just said my name and nothing more. I replied with a question mark and she said "Just checking in" :rudy: I told her I didn't appreciate her playing games and to delete my number since she didn't hit me up to talk or anything. She got angry and I haven't heard from her since :blessed:
 

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That maybe shyt<<<

Thats up there with the silly @ss response of "k". Alot of brothas overlook "maybe" but think of it like this.If your boss asked you to do a task or file papers you wouldnt respond with "maybe". If you did your fired,so why would it be different for a woman.Brothas got to wake up..
 

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Thats up there with the silly @ss response of "k". Alot of brothas overlook "maybe" but think of it like this.If your boss asked you to do a task or file papers you wouldnt respond with "maybe". If you did your fired,so why would it be different for a woman.Brothas got to wake up..

Tbh. If you're given "maybe" as an answer you're obviously not as important as you think you are, and she's already made her mind up so you should make up yours and stop talking to her.
 

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Something ya'll got to learn to do is plant your seeds and move on. Drop your comments, get at the women and then just move on and do whatever else you need to do in life. Never sit around waiting and hoping for her to respond back. Keep it pushing with your business, check in later and see who responded and then get at the ones who took the initiative to respond. Never sit around waiting and getting mad when a woman doesn't respond, because you don't want to be a guy that's validated by women responding to you. You don't want to look like that lame always looking down at his phone just hoping this woman is going to call. Keep it boss status and keep it pushing with whatever else you need to do in life and the ones who had the time to respond in a timely matter is the one who gets the opportunity to interview with you.
 

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Tbh. If you're given "maybe" as an answer you're obviously not as important as you think you are, and she's already made her mind up so you should make up yours and stop talking to her.

WHich is true.I dont take women who answer questions with that word. They talk about honesty,yet they give 50-50 answers.Im a straight forward person,I dont do the subliminals with women,which is the game women love to play.As for ol girl who said that,I just laughed and kept it moving.I got an answer but by then,I knew she was full of games.
 

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Something ya'll got to learn to do is plant your seeds and move on. Drop your comments, get at the women and then just move on and do whatever else you need to do in life. Never sit around waiting and hoping for her to respond back. Keep it pushing with your business, check in later and see who responded and then get at the ones who took the initiative to respond. Never sit around waiting and getting mad when a woman doesn't respond, because you don't want to be a guy that's validated by women responding to you. You don't want to look like that lame always looking down at his phone just hoping this woman is going to call. Keep it boss status and keep it pushing with whatever else you need to do in life and the ones who had the time to respond in a timely matter is the one who gets the opportunity to interview with you.

I still need to get that out of my system
 

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Brehs not sure if this had been brought up but "Mode One" is a dope read, i'd recommend it to all (especially if you are familiar with the gawds Patrice's philosophy). Pretty much emphasized the attitude of being honest and upfront when dealing with women. Here is a vid on the author with a synopsis of the book.

[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlIZlbsmOqc[/ame]
 

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Brehs not sure if this had been brought up but "Mode One" is a dope read, i'd recommend it to all (especially if you are familiar with the gawds Patrice's philosophy). Pretty much emphasized the attitude of being honest and upfront when dealing with women. Here is a vid on the author with a synopsis of the book.

Read Alan's book years ago, nothing but the pure truth in those pages..
 
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