1. Thou Shalt Not Try To Impress
The most unimpressive people in the world are people who try too hard to sell themselves. They are annoying and exhausting to be around because they are very uncomfortable with silence and stillness. When you approach woman with this attitude that she is a prize, you are putting her on a pedestal and implying that she is better than you. You are treating her like royalty. This is disgusting behavior for a high value man. A man of value doesnt need to kiss anyones ass.
Instead, you should seem totally comfortable in your own skin and at ease with who you are and what you expect from others.
2. Thou Shalt Not Chase Women
So now you might ask yourself: how the hell am I supposed to meet women if I dont go after them? Well, understand that chasing is different from pursuing. A high value man will give his attention to women who appreciate it and work for it.
If a woman is acting bytchy, flaky or otherwise difficult and rude, she is not worthy of a high value mans attention. Only a low value man would tolerate such behavior from a woman.
3. Thou Shalt Not Be Ruled By Women
This means several things. For starters, women should never rule your life. You should have real goals and passions you care about outside of women. In addition to that, no woman you are dating should ever be able to control you. You should not be changing your habits and ignoring your male friends because your girlfriend wants you to do what she has planned.
A high value male is truly the boss of the relationship.
4. Thou Shalt Not Seek Female Approval
I cant stress this enough. A high value man is comfortable in his own skin. He is comfortable with his values, opinions, beliefs, morals and desires. When it comes to women, a high value man has a take it or leave it attitude. He is not willing to change.
You should never be intimidated by a womans opinion of you. Sexual attraction is not connected to compatibility and shared values. Making a woman LIKE you will not make her sexually attracted to you. At the same time, she can be attracted to you and hate you as a person.
Just like you wont turn down Jessica Alba because she doesnt share your political beliefs, a woman is not going to stop being attracted to you because she doesnt approve of your values or opinions.
5. Thou Shalt Not Over Value Her Looks
This is another area of life a lot of men f*ck up. They can be as macho and confident as hell until some gorgeous supermodel walks in. Suddenly their spine turns into a noodle and they start acting like a puppy dog.. or even worse.. they start making excuses about why she is not worth approaching. Stuff like:
She probably has a boyfriend.
Im probably not her type.
She looks high maintenance.
She looks bytchy.
A high value man will always approach a woman he finds sexually attractive. There is no logical reason not to. He knows that physical attractiveness alone does not make a woman worthy of his instant respect and admiration. She better behave herself, act right and show him respect or he will walk away.
6. Thou Shalt Not Be a Loser
Women can smell a loser like a fat kid can smell fresh cookies. What generally makes a man a loser is a lack of focus, ambition, courage, independence and self-knowledge. A man who follows the crowd, kisses female ass, lets people run over him, falls into traps and lacks independence (both emotionally, financially and physically) will usually be perceived as a loser by most women.
A high value man is strong, bold and brave. He knows what he wants and he has a zest for life and adventure.
7. Thou Shalt Not Fear Women
The only time a man should ever feel fear in the presence of a woman is either when she has a gun to his head, or when she has his balls in her hand and a knife in the other. Otherwise, you should never be intimidated by any woman EVER in any situation.
It doesnt matter if she is trying to embarrass you in public. It doesnt matter if you are alone with her and five of her girlfriends while they all gang up on you in an argument. It doesnt matter if she is threatening to break up with you. It doesnt matter if she has loads of sexual experience. It doesnt matter if she dated an NFL player. Never be intimidated. Never be afraid.
Youll notice that once you lose all fear of women, you will attract them in droves.
8. Thou Shalt Not Be A Tool
A high value man lives the life he wants to live. He does not design his entire life and existence around what attracts women. If you want examples of tools, look at the cast of Jersey Shore. These are men who work out, buy trendy clothes, tan, tattoo and swim in cologne just to attract women. None of these behaviors are a problem if they are something the man truly enjoys. What separates a tool from a high value man is the motive. A tool only does this stuff because he believes women are attracted to it. A high value man does it because he really enjoys it.
9. Thou Shalt Not Be Bitter
Just like women can smell a loser, they can also smell a bitter man. If you feel wronged by women and youve had your heart broken several times, its time to get over it. Only a weak man allows the behavior of women to destroy his world and control his outlook on life. Women are very similar to children. Their bad behavior should be punished, but never taken personally.
10. Thou Shalt Not Be Desperate
I dont care if its sex, affection, love, marriage, family or just a warm body that you desire. Dont be desperate and needy about it. Ive discussed before how you should never want anything THAT BAD to the point you are willing to settle for a bad deal and fall into traps.
If you live the life of a high value man, you will be rewarded with lots of female attention and worldly success. If you live the life of a low value man, you will get used, abused and trapped. AGAIN, these 10 commandments are about your image. This is how the world should see you.