Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

lol not that but everything else was perfect plus I made things worse constantly breaking up with her.

nikka quit terrorizing this woman and let her go.


this the shyt that creates weirdo chicks who make everyone else's life miserable.

 

[The ADD]

lol not that but everything else was perfect plus I made things worse constantly breaking up with her.

 

[Panther]

lol not that but everything else was perfect plus I made things worse constantly breaking up with her.

you sound all over the place you should be single and figure your shyt out

 

[Apollo Creed]

you sound all over the place you should be single and figure your shyt out

breh prob legit got mental issues and chick going through hell dealing with him (which in turn will likely turn her crazy to go on and terrorize the next man).

Breh subliminally telling us he don't wanna see her live life unless its under him with all the "constantly breaking up" talk. Thats a sign he leverages breaking up to "get his way".

 

[Guvnor]

you sound all over the place you should be single and figure your shyt out

I am, got no choice now. In therapy and just want to be able to handle conflict and relationships better as well as have more trust.

breh prob legit got mental issues and chick going through hell dealing with him (which in turn will likely turn her crazy to go on and terrorize the next man).

Breh subliminally telling us he don't wanna see her live life unless its under him with all the "constantly breaking up" talk. Thats a sign he leverages breaking up to "get his way".

Never said that I don't wanna see her live life. Just saying I miss her, I fukked and hope we can reconcile if she could forgive me but if not I'll just have to move on. That's life.

It's not that I was trying to be manipulative but during arguments when shyt gets heated I just get stressed and end the relationship. It's not a good habit and something I want to work on but I have no mental issues. I'm not like you lol.

 

[AQz]

the issue with confidence is that it seems to be a “chicken or egg” problem.

you get attention from women because you look good and are confident, but you can only be confident if you get attention from women.

That’s not true. Have you ever been in a meeting, school where a student was called to answer a question or other situation when someone had to talk and you could feel how nervous they were. On the flip do you know someone else in that same situation that nailed it.

Part of building confidence in any area is repetition and not taking yourself too seriously.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Never said that I don't wanna see her live life. Just saying I miss her, I fukked and hope we can reconcile if she could forgive me but if not I'll just have to move on. That's life.

It's not that I was trying to be manipulative but during arguments when shyt gets heated I just get stressed and end the relationship. It's not a good habit and something I want to work on but I have no mental issues. I'm not like you lol.

lmao you ain’t have to diss breh when he just giving you advice.

Just reading it, it does sound crazy to continuously break up with a woman/fukk her over. Should be to the point where no reconciliation should ever happen

 

[bill riser]

She played you huh. She treated you like ol buddy.

In my experience it’s like, if a woman wants you she wants you. This girl messaged me first. In my history with women it’s often women that come up to you and not the other way around. Pay attention to the women that go into your orbit. If you’re trying you’re already failing.

Every other man is trying to holler so just staying back but being respectful is enough to intrigue most women because you’re not easily won over. This girl has thousands of followers but messaged me. I saw she was attractive so I just hit her with a thumbs up emoji. Keep them humble and make them work for your attention. For weeks she was trying to get my attention until I decided she earned being paid attention. I decided to let her in my space, not vice versa. That’s the kind of dynamic you want. It separates you from the pack of thirsty ass men. I’ve experimented over and over and my conclusion is you shouldn’t bother being flirty with a woman unless it’s obvious she likes me. fukk that, you gotta earn my time and that mindset pays off because by the time you start to invest in the woman she already feels like she had to work just to get an inch from you. It makes you a rare man and worth fighting for.

Imagine there’s a party. Five guys and one woman. All five men are flirting with her and trying to get into her pants. A sixth guy walks in, is polite, says hello and introduces himself, and doesn’t try to get into her pants. Who do you think she’s going to try to woo over? This is why a lot of PUA shyt is bad advice. It don’t even work. Stuff like cold approaches. Why do that shyt? You see that video with the 6 foot 8 dude and all the women going up to him? That’s what you want it to be like. You shouldn’t have to try and you don’t have to be 6 ft 8 to draw women to you. Even if you find her incredibly attractive and want to smash you have to keep it cool until she escalates. You’re basically killing your internal impulses to holler at a woman. This makes you a catch. Being an introvert can be a valuable asset.

Just my experience. Yours could be different.

this reminds me of that CNN clip were Morgan freeman basically says the same thing

 

[Space Cowboy]

this reminds me of that CNN clip were Morgan freeman basically says the same thing

Good video. Great advice.

I can’t attribute all of this to myself I got a lot of tips from Develop Attraction YouTube while playing in the field and experimenting.





Easily the best YouTube on relationships for men. Bite sized videos and will drill into your head to make a woman important but not priority #1.

 

[Guvnor]

lmao you ain’t have to diss breh when he just giving you advice.

Just reading it, it does sound crazy to continuously break up with a woman/fukk her over. Should be to the point where no reconciliation should ever happen

That's a good point but yall never miss an ex? lol. Yall never had any regrets how you treated a chick?

I mistreated her, was toxic and know I have to let her go. I just have to accept that which is hard but that's the truth.

 

[Apollo Creed]

lmao you ain’t have to diss breh when he just giving you advice.

Just reading it, it does sound crazy to continuously break up with a woman/fukk her over. Should be to the point where no reconciliation should ever happen

That nikka aint diss me lol dude a whole weirdo. I frankly just dont care he aint the first weirdo thats been in here and wont be the last. These dudes cant be helped

 

[Guvnor]

That nikka aint diss me lol dude a whole weirdo. I frankly just dont care he aint the first weirdo thats been in here and wont be the last. These dudes cant be helped

lol so you never had any regrets with a woman and you treated every woman you were with great?

 

[OSUBaneBrowns]

That's a good point but yall never miss an ex? lol. Yall never had any regrets how you treated a chick?

I mistreated her, was toxic and know I have to let her go. I just have to accept that which is hard but that's the truth.

It's normal to have regrets how things went with someone but at the same time, you have to just move on and forgive yourself . You did what you thought was best and she said that she just want to do her for now. Just take it for what it is and move forward. You going to put more stress on yourself by fretting over the past than focusing on the future.

 

[Guvnor]

It's normal to have regrets how things went with someone but at the same time, you have to just move on and forgive yourself . You did what you thought was best and she said that she just want to do her for now. Just take it for what it is and move forward. You going to put more stress on yourself by fretting over the past than focusing on the future.

I hear you man, appreciate the advice and your right. She needs time to heal and if it's meant for us to work it out she'll reach out when the time is right but if not I got to move on.

Just going to take some time and work on my trust issues and stuff so when a next relationship comes along in the future I would handle it better. Also gonna focus on my health and keep busy.

 

[MikelArteta]

It's normal to have regrets how things went with someone but at the same time, you have to just move on and forgive yourself . You did what you thought was best and she said that she just want to do her for now. Just take it for what it is and move forward. You going to put more stress on yourself by fretting over the past than focusing on the future.

Yup

It's over move on. Now that I have my wife I look back and just . All those dates/relationships etc. that didn't work out was for the best. Every day you waste pinning over someone is a day you could meet someone. I remember when things ended with an ex in 2017, prob the next 4 years I was pinning still, id sabotage relationships when they were going a little far, or treat people bad . When I finally said no mas and moved on and cut ties things started to look up and here I am