Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Poh SIti Dawn]

@CrossBones you should use this one to your advantage, wouldn't it be a good idea to have her friends go out with yaw just that way they can see how much of a good guy you are then they'll probably do half the work for you in convincing her to like you/learn English to communicate with you.

 

[CrossBones]

@CrossBones you should use this one to your advantage, wouldn't it be a good idea to have her friends go out with yaw just that way they can see how much of a good guy you are then they'll probably do half the work for you in convincing her to like you/learn English to communicate with you.

right? too bad I got the non english speaking ones number. also, I dont know if I want the thing where Im taking two women out on a date, talking to one, while the other is standing by waiting for the translation. thats gotta annoy you after a while. Id almost prefer to have her on a one on one and she communicates with me however we could. I dont know about the translator always on board. plus that has to be the biggest cockblock ever. how are you supposed to get close when you gotta wait for her friend to tell her shyt over all the time. I have no idea how that works.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

right? too bad I got the non english speaking ones number. also, I dont know if I want the thing where Im taking two women out on a date, talking to one, while the other is standing by waiting for the translation. thats gotta annoy you after a while. Id almost prefer to have her on a one on one and she communicates with me however we could. I dont know about the translator always on board. plus that has to be the biggest cockblock ever. how are you supposed to get close when you gotta wait for her friend to tell her shyt over all the time. I have no idea how that works.

Good point. Idk man if you feel like the attraction is strong enough and you like her meet up with her (and take pics) and just play things as they go. Never been to Miami but why don't you go for a drink and then a walk or something. Idk

 

[MikelArteta]

Makes sense, if she's willing to go behind your back over something like that then there's no telling what else. Besides that even though it's her body, it's just as much of your baby as hers. You dhould have input. Sucks about her mom though, seems like she really likes you.


They really do tbh.

older women are wiser and smarter ah well

like i said earlier women just love being in love, while men actually do love,

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

older women are wiser and smarter ah well

like i said earlier women just love being in love, while men actually do love,

Funny thing is they say that women mature at a younger age than men, but that's not true at all. I think women just say these things to empower themselves, since they have already accepted the idea of being physically weaker they big themselves up as being mentally stronger and mature.

Must be from all of the glamorization of love in the movies and shyt. They don't do shyt, but follow scripts from films.

 

[Turbulent]

I was thinking hang out, go on a date. I dont see much more. see seems a little innocent too. I dont think shes a virgin or nothing, but I dont want to be some straight a$$hole who tries to take advantage. I also dont like texting, but I guess thats the best idea. I could see a night out with her, but after a while youd think the "not being able to talk" thing would get old quick.

Personally i would just set it up and feel her out. You had fun with both of them, try to see if you could have fun with her alone. You never know, you might discover other sides of you and get to know her more in ways you would have never thought of (and that opens up other doors on how to connect with different people)

if you're not trying to fukk then i see your point but at the same time, say she could speak english but still had the same demeanor, would you still not want to fukk? bottom line is, if she's an adult and if you feel like she knows what it is, i personally wouldn't put any restrictions on myself. And i'm not even saying you should or shouldn't fukk. just your reasoning i have slight trouble with (respectfully). All i'm saying is if you go on a date with her and you see that she wants some and she contributes to that vibe...

 

[CrossBones]

Personally i would just set it up and feel her out. You had fun with both of them, try to see if you could have fun with her alone. You never know, you might discover other sides of you and get to know her more in ways you would have never thought of (and that opens up other doors on how to connect with different people)

if you're not trying to fukk then i see your point but at the same time, say she could speak english but still had the same demeanor, would you still not want to fukk? bottom line is, if she's an adult and if you feel like she knows what it is, i personally wouldn't put any restrictions on myself. And i'm not even saying you should or shouldn't fukk. just your reasoning i have slight trouble with (respectfully). All i'm saying is if you go on a date with her and you see that she wants some and she contributes to that vibe...

yeah I wouldnt turn it down if the opportunity came up, but Im not pressed to. and if we could talk (lol just saying that is funny in itself), then I might be able to pick up on where she is coming from as well. it makes it real clear. Im not really going for some relationship shyt right now, especially under such circumstances. because who knows what shes really thinking. generally speaking, girls who fukk and want something more from you is where it gets complicated. that is something that is not so easy for us to read correctly if we're always guessing what the others saying. I dont know what she thinks that Im telling her, if she never knows the words coming out of my mouth.

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

lol@females 'hating the patriarchy' and wanting to shatter the 'oppressive male-dominated structure.' As SOON as they got a taste of what it is really like to be a man, they wanted to rush back towards traditional benefits and 'being treated like a lady' while they still attempted to poorly mimic men and to also assume the benefits of being a man. Sorry, it doesn't work like that.

Do females like digging ditches and doing hard physical labor? Women hate working in warehouses. They'd rather be up front as cashiers. How many women do you see in the logging industry? What are the female to male ratios when it comes to job related injuries and deaths? I bet you'll see no desire to equalize those statistics. How about in tough, but underappreciated jobs like trashmen?

This smash the patriarchy talk will go right out the window when women start to feel the burdens and isolation of what being a man is like. There will be no one coddling her and no one there to wipe away her tears. No one to stand up and fight for her because she is now responsible to face the repercussions of her own actions.... The comfortable safety nets will be gone and there will be no one to listen to her problems and rejuvenate her emotions. It will simply be written off and she will be told to 'woman up and handle your business', as a man would. No longer can she run her mouth wrecklessly because she will face the possible violent reactions to her words and actions like a man would. Most of these women just don't understand how much leeway they have when it comes to antagonizing men. A man that would do a fourth of what they did when dealing with men would find a fist in his face or possibly a bullet in his hide. You notice women don't act the way they do around men with other women because they can expect a physical retaliation... and even then, women do not deal out nearly as much damage to each other as a man would to another man. Upon learning that you can get your skull stomped into the curb to the extent of brain damage or death just over words, females will stop wanting to 'be men.'

These women have NO idea what is like being a man, and they constantly talk about male privilege while completely ignoring the generous privileges that are afforded them for being a female. They will soon learn to appreciate those benefits when they are gone due to their own actions.

this reminds me of a story one time


i was out with a few friends


we went back to hang out at this girl's place til the rain died down some and we were waiting for a cab. i guess the girl wanted to feel included cause she kept saying something like "i want to be one of the boys" or part of the crew


i was like alright sure whatever and to this day i have no idea what i said, i was just being myself for the rest of the time we were waiting, and talking like i usually do...


but ol girl comes out crying "all i am is nice, and you're mean" and she legitimately crying hard. i have no interest in her but i'm not heartless


my friends are like damn we aint even know what you said, you made ol girl cry just by being your natural self


i bet it was mostly emotions/drinking, and coupled with the fact she was after my boy. it's all fun and games and you wanna treated like the homies, until we start acting and talking and being men. then you wanna double back


it's a harmless story and relatively meaningless but this post made me think of it. whats a story between random strangers on the internet?

 

[Jahmal]

A selection from today's Tom Leykis Show email:

Here is a story for the boys. Please don't use my name, I don't need the legal trouble.

Dear Dad,
I didn't listen. I met a single Mom in 2005, greatest chick ever. She was hot and couldn't keep her hands off me. Every Friday, we would put her kid to bed, pull out the beer, put on the tunes, drink beer and play darts til 3am and screw until the sun rose. We played tennis and went on weekend wine tours. Man, I had it made! This chick guzzled beer and shared my passion for fine wine. You know me Dad. I am a regular to the Paso wine region. Then I married her. The Honeymoon ended, when the Honeymoon ended. I got drunk and knocked her up. Six years down the road now. I have a wonderful daughter, the apple of my eye. I have been laid approximately 6 times since then and no blow jobs since. Do you hear me boys! Five a week pre marriage, fukking zero since! My wife quit drinking immediately after we got hitched. Two weeks after we got married I was setting up the dart board and she said, " why are we doing this, we are married now".

I stay because I love my kid, but I'm begging the boys. Don't fukking do it! Women are the sneakiest creatures walking. Please read my story. The boys have to know. You can't trust women. I am leaving a bunch of shyt out for time. I'm sorry Dad. You were right. Believe me I haven't told you half of it. My Fico = 849. My wife= 315. Aaaaarrggggh! fukk my life!!!!

 

[MikelArteta]

A selection from today's Tom Leykis Show email:

Here is a story for the boys. Please don't use my name, I don't need the legal trouble.

Dear Dad,
I didn't listen. I met a single Mom in 2005, greatest chick ever. She was hot and couldn't keep her hands off me. Every Friday, we would put her kid to bed, pull out the beer, put on the tunes, drink beer and play darts til 3am and screw until the sun rose. We played tennis and went on weekend wine tours. Man, I had it made! This chick guzzled beer and shared my passion for fine wine. You know me Dad. I am a regular to the Paso wine region. Then I married her. The Honeymoon ended, when the Honeymoon ended. I got drunk and knocked her up. Six years down the road now. I have a wonderful daughter, the apple of my eye. I have been laid approximately 6 times since then and no blow jobs since. Do you hear me boys! Five a week pre marriage, fukking zero since! My wife quit drinking immediately after we got hitched. Two weeks after we got married I was setting up the dart board and she said, " why are we doing this, we are married now".

I stay because I love my kid, but I'm begging the boys. Don't fukking do it! Women are the sneakiest creatures walking. Please read my story. The boys have to know. You can't trust women. I am leaving a bunch of shyt out for time. I'm sorry Dad. You were right. Believe me I haven't told you half of it. My Fico = 849. My wife= 315. Aaaaarrggggh! fukk my life!!!!

Single moms

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[kevm3]

women are cooler than a ceiling fan for those first three months or so.never take that as her 'real personality'. Single moms can keep the charade going on even longer because they need a man to pay some bills and play daddy. You can bet that that mom is probably also sleeping with some other guy on the side. Her urges didn't magically disappear. She got provider man hooked and now, no matter what she does, she got her paycheck locked in.

This is a little something to help keep your mind in perspective. "They come to play, not to stay." The majority of women you meet want to play around, be entertained and then will peel off... never invest emotions into a woman until she's stayed down with you and shown you that she's about you.

 

[sixsixtwo]

First this: "I was friend zoned since September 1999 by a girl I met on the first day of high school. I broke through the friend zone over a year ago and now I'm marrying her on September 14th, 2013. Am I allowed to mention myself as the most shocking thing?"

Then this: "My fiancee likes telling me intimate details about her past sexual encounters. It makes me feel inadequate and under appreciated in bed especially since she mentions stuff like she's gotten off from anal and that she gave a previous guy blowjobs every day while on her period among other things. Never had anal with her. Rarely get blowjobs.

She will probably read this. YOU WONDER WHY I JUST SIT AND PLAY DOTA2 AFTER I GET HOME FROM THE GYM IF I EVEN DECIDE TO GO TO THE GYM ANYMORE. IT'S BECAUSE I JUST SATISFIED MYSELF IN THE SHOWER BECAUSE I'M NOT TURNED ON AFTER YOU TELL ME THIS BULLshyt. Anyone want to play dota2 tonight?"

 

[MBwithadream]

First this: "I was friend zoned since September 1999 by a girl I met on the first day of high school. I broke through the friend zone over a year ago and now I'm marrying her on September 14th, 2013. Am I allowed to mention myself as the most shocking thing?"

Then this: "My fiancee likes telling me intimate details about her past sexual encounters. It makes me feel inadequate and under appreciated in bed especially since she mentions stuff like she's gotten off from anal and that she gave a previous guy blowjobs every day while on her period among other things. Never had anal with her. Rarely get blowjobs.

She will probably read this. YOU WONDER WHY I JUST SIT AND PLAY DOTA2 AFTER I GET HOME FROM THE GYM IF I EVEN DECIDE TO GO TO THE GYM ANYMORE. IT'S BECAUSE I JUST SATISFIED MYSELF IN THE SHOWER BECAUSE I'M NOT TURNED ON AFTER YOU TELL ME THIS BULLshyt. Anyone want to play dota2 tonight?"

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

i think you're too worried about what she may or may not be thinking.I won't act like i don't worry about it at all. it's something i'm working on. it doesn't matter if usually she's not interested in younger guys. I forgot who said it but "Attraction is not a choice." If she's attracted to you, no matter how "wrong" you are for her (wrong age, height, race, culture, financials, etc) even if you're wrong in all that she'll find a way to justify to herself why being with you is ok or an exception. Attraction is not a choice. but you won't know for sure until you present the option of kissing you, sleeping with you, spending time with you, etc. you present that option and she'll choose depending on attraction, not on how you meet her expectations directly.

the most important thing is to focus on what you want out of it, present the options to her and always be ready for the possibility that she could choose the option of not messing with you. The trick is to set the options in your favor. If that girl is attracted to you but kinda hesitating, don't play her game. Instead once you feel like you have charmed her enough, you make your move. if she hesitates, you tell her straight up what your intentions are and how you feel and tell you respect her boundaries but at the same time it's not what you want so you'd rather not talk anymore. Do it without bitterness in your heart and very genuinely. don't even be ashamed of how you feel. see now you just presented two options to her.

A: she follows your lead.
B: she doesn't get your presence anymore.

she has NO third option of "we could just be friends " Once you make her understand that she can't force you to give her that third option (and again don't do it like an ultimatum) then her level of attraction will dictate which option she chooses. If the level of raw attraction exceeds the importance of the "sacrifice of power" you require of her then she'll choose to follow your lead REGARDLESS of what her expectations and "standards" are.

Always be ready for her to choose B when the time comes and never invest time, money or emotions you can't afford to lose. This post was heavily influenced by The Black Phillip Show and i strongly suggest you check out some of the show if you haven't already. (lol, i feel like i'm the show's unofficial spokesperson and i'm not even getting paid)

So are you saying that material items don't matter when it comes to getting a girl?

This is after a date or two that I present these options? And when should I hit her up? I got her number last night, so should I set up a date soonish? I'm not sure, if I should call her tonight or tomorrow. This is where I need the most help at. And when should I set up the date?

Lol I'm gonna have to check that out, sounds very helpful

 

[Medio]

my idea would be, go out and do things where the activity is not dependant of deep conversations (LOL like a lot of girls out here even reading a lot of books).

the game has to be a lot more pyshical. maybe go out dancing. or something like some drinks and pool table (Im hood, my bad), go to the beach and eat, or rent bikes or something, bowling, miniature golf, or whatever where you spend time close to her, but dont have to depend on speaking to her a whole lot. you can have fun together doing the activity. where does that go? I dont know. Im just saying

yea definitely next time i run into an fresh off the boat chick and like to know her better i'll just suggest something along the lines what you said