Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

What ya brehs seeing out there, seem like since Sept. I get phone calls from women who Ive known or linked up with in past and they single, got jobs, own their place but they are HURTING right now. With property taxes and insurance going INSANE in south florida (example, people insurance probably shot up from like 2k to 8k last couple years) i dont think they listened when they were told winter is coming. Had one call me last week to link up and I was traveling and when she wanted to schedule told her I would be back to switch out from domestic to international, she started dropping all type weight on me..

This a high achieving mid 30s, former pageant to dolphin cheerleader, did some music videos, yada yada.. Work in public sector now and tellin me she behind on mortgage, .. she never outright asked for it but havin been thru this before just the conversation was in hopes that maybe I would offer or something having been thru the rodeo before all I could offer was advice she should find a sugar daddy and its almost snow bird season where they would be hanging out.. This is atleast the 5th women in very recent weeks, I think this is the beginning of a tidal wave coming or something. People who have good jobs and are competent shouldnt really be in these type of situations, Im talking teachers, coast guard, hospital admin, etc. shyt seem like its not looking good

also, you are describing jobs that have stagnant wages, for the last 20 years, probably more. nflation is tightening up around people's monthly expenses, and taking a cumulative toll 18 months into inflation. Wage growth in most sectors isn't keeping up with inflation, but def. the ones you mentioned. it's like a fixed income.

actually, have a homie like that too, she's on point with mortgage, as far as I know, but lost her job, and isn't going to make as much going forward. She's in dental hygenine. The thing with those jobs, is that there is a hard ceiling. I remember I thought she was so on point and together like 15 years ago. And she kinda of is, but inflation has hit people hard, along with normal COL going up in most places.

 

[Ahadi]

Seeing this play out in many different scenarios this is essentially how its playing out.. I listen to these things and the main thing I think is you need to be under the guidance of a man sweetheart.. they choooose not to be locked in with a breh, but hope to get the benefits of male protection and providership on their shyt terms.. GOOD LUCK!

If he got 60 & you got 40, your lives are already easier lol. They just don’t want to live like their parents because they’re embarrassed of them, they want to class hop / finesse their into a new status without knowing the ins/out and the culture.

 

[Ahadi]

The thing is if brehsbhad discipline and or were on scum bag time they'd use this time of year to feast. Have a good roster, get free food on thanksgiving and Christmas, a bullshyt Christmas gift, then dump chick week before V day.

The main issue is chick(s) knowing where you live cause they gonna be on their wifey audition lol

That’s exactly what I’m doing lol. Abusing my 50% off these bad joints.

 

[re'up]

If he got 60 & you got 40, your lives are already easier lol. They just don’t want to live like their parents because they’re embarrassed of them, they want to class hop / finesse their into a new status without knowing the ins/out and the culture.

That's an interesting and kind of classist point lol but it's not an entirely wrong

read a book called Status & Culture last year if you are interested

social stratification even with a decent bankroll is very hard.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That’s exactly what I’m doing lol. Abusing my 50% off these bad joints.

The issue is dudes usually think this will last and get dumped post V day (usually around spring when chkcks get back on their girls trip/girls night wave). Dump her ass around MLK day lmfao

 

[OmegaK2099]

She said "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best"

 

[skyrunner1]

Can you explain the Desantis/politics behind home insurance polices in Florida? Because I don't understand it. Real simple version.

I wouldnt be the best at it but from my understanding he has gotten millions donated to him from insurance to his pac and all of a suddenly residents insurance has basically tripled in last couple years.. Many have called him out on it, even trump as I guess they were going head 2 head

also, you are describing jobs that have stagnant wages, for the last 20 years, probably more. nflation is tightening up around people's monthly expenses, and taking a cumulative toll 18 months into inflation. Wage growth in most sectors isn't keeping up with inflation, but def. the ones you mentioned. it's like a fixed income.

actually, have a homie like that too, she's on point with mortgage, as far as I know, but lost her job, and isn't going to make as much going forward. She's in dental hygenine. The thing with those jobs, is that there is a hard ceiling. I remember I thought she was so on point and together like 15 years ago. And she kinda of is, but inflation has hit people hard, along with normal COL going up in most places.

Yes wages are stagnant and down here they are even worst because there really is no industry but tourism and hospitality which is notorious for lower wages. I know someone who is a nurse but works for state which pays very poorly, now mind you I know alot of nurses who are EATING, had one who had a local travel gig pulled in 220k last year, helped her get another airbnb before they try to pull the plug on that, I was like .. Go back to state worker like you need to get on, she worried about getting vested, im like who cares you making 50k messin with the state, you wasting time. But then she also getting just under 2k for child support but baby daddy aint shyt huh

 

[WIA20XX]

Can you explain the Desantis/politics behind home insurance polices in Florida? Because I don't understand it. Real simple version.

Hurricanes that hit FL in the past 20 years

1. Charley - 04
2. Ivan - 04
3. Jeanne - 04
4. Dennis - 05
5. Wilma - 05
6. Irma - 17
7. Michael - 18
8. Ian - 22
9. Idalia - 23

Hurricanes can tear the roof off, flood, or both.

Ins companies generally don't cover flood, the Fed does that.

But... flood maps haven't been updated, can't be updated fast enough with climate change, and a lot of the damage that they should cover (wind/wind peril), the insurance companies say was flood. After decades of litigation, they might pay out... maybe....

I mean a lot of insurance companies ain't been financially right since Katrina TBH.

So they a lot of them pull out.
A lot of them 4x the rate. Insurance might rival mortgage payments.

The real kicker is that a lot of Floridians are on fixed incomes.

DeSantis, and any governor really, can work with the legislature to have the state insure these homes...but that's socialism.

 

[Redwood]

Real talk....anyone here ever been catfished?

Damn.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

this lifestyle ain’t for me honestly

Breh said he's done with women.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Yeah at 46 I couldn’t imagine dating a woman my age. The need to date reasonably younger becomes more apparent as you get older

 

[Digital Omen]

I wouldnt be the best at it but from my understanding he has gotten millions donated to him from insurance to his pac and all of a suddenly residents insurance has basically tripled in last couple years.. Many have called him out on it, even trump as I guess they were going head 2 head


Yes wages are stagnant and down here they are even worst because there really is no industry but tourism and hospitality which is notorious for lower wages. I know someone who is a nurse but works for state which pays very poorly, now mind you I know alot of nurses who are EATING, had one who had a local travel gig pulled in 220k last year, helped her get another airbnb before they try to pull the plug on that, I was like .. Go back to state worker like you need to get on, she worried about getting vested, im like who cares you making 50k messin with the state, you wasting time. But then she also getting just under 2k for child support but baby daddy aint shyt huh

50k in South Florida?? God bless

It's no joke here between the "luxury" condo boxes charging 3k rent + first and last and deposit, whole city gentrified, legacy 3/2 homes in regular every day suburbs going for +600k, Meatball not giving a single fukk about the insurance crisis and companies leaving so now the rates go up everyday, and plane loads of immigrants arriving hourly, daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly to fill minimum wage tourism and retail jobs.

50k is mandatory roommate or efficiency in the hood status. Curious why she wouldn't go to Baptist or Mercy and double that.

 

[The ADD]

but Happy

 

[skyrunner1]

50k in South Florida?? God bless

It's no joke here between the "luxury" condo boxes charging 3k rent + first and last and deposit, whole city gentrified, legacy 3/2 homes in regular every day suburbs going for +600k, Meatball not giving a single fukk about the insurance crisis and companies leaving so now the rates go up everyday, and plane loads of immigrants arriving hourly, daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly to fill minimum wage tourism and retail jobs.

50k is mandatory roommate or efficiency in the hood status. Curious why she wouldn't go to Baptist or Mercy and double that.

When I did poke and prod was given answers like its lower stress, flexibility, ability to work from home half the time, etc. I think its one of those situations where ambition is low and they have income streams from other places so they soo pressed. Im like you can quadruple your main income, you need to go get it while the opportunity is there..

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yeah at 46 I couldn’t imagine dating a woman my age. The need to date reasonably younger becomes more apparent as you get older

Same here I'm 44. My chick just turned 31 this year.