Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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VertigoKnight
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RealCrownHeights
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I'm dealing with a women who is a 10/10 looks wise and one of my best friends. Knew her since college. Flirted in college, she let me stay with her Junior year when I didn't have a place to stay, she was dating someone then. She got drunk one night and we fu***. After that I kept it playa but I always wanted her. They broke up I was single and tried and she gave excuses, dated other people, while hating on women I talk to or calling them ugly. We still talk, text ft almost daily.
Out of college, I'm up here and she's in the south. Both dating, still flirting. 2018 I just start dating my current girl (not official yet) She comes here and we end up smashing again. after 2 days of hanging together, she came to my job for lunch we went to dinner spent the night. I was set to meet her and other's for brunch later, but I had plans with my girl first, (get a pedicure) I rush to the brunch after, this girl is crying and livid. Mad at me for like 3 weeks, from 2018 till now I've had to hear about this pedicure. Next She started dating someone downsouth after, they move in, she so in love etc. I start dating my girl, I post a reel on IG for Valentines day (I hardly post) she tells me my bi*** is so ugly and she looks like spongbob etc no shape shaped like a boy etc. All this on Valentines day with her bf miles away in the south.
I go to St.Lucia with my girl and post, she hate and say she not right for me etc and ugly bad shaped etc. I tell het if she feels this way why don't we both just be together, she affirms she like her man and wanna be with him. Her man finds out we f*** and now she sneaks and facetimes and texts me when he not there.
Broke up with my girl during Covid. She still with the guy, I'm getting more pus&* than I can handle from hinge and etc. They not 10/10 girl though so I try, "no my bf etc," Cool.
Get back with my ex
Homecoming last year, I see her we kick it, everybody in the school talking about how bad she is etc. My girl isn't there. I'm staying at my cousin crib, she come over I suck her t*****. Next day she say we can't hang out cuz her man went to some of the day events. (To this day she said sucking ti**) isn't cheating.
She hates her, talks shi**. Says she don't know if she love him and he annoys her etc, I'm feeling similar. She comes up for a mutual bf, both our partners there at the party, next day we flirting and she dodging facetimes and texts from him, I made an excuse with my girl.
2 month's later I go to south we get a hotel we smashing and eating biscuits. She can't stay so she leaves at night and goes home with her man.
Month later she comes up here and we hang out and we sneaking around at my crib we smashing. Next month is my b day, she flies here misses a flight to NY so take one to philly and takes bus here. Smash fun all this for a few days, she dodging calls and facetimes. My girl don't hmu like that if I say I'm with my other friends.
Last week another birthday she comes up, smashing and loving this time with full blown dates and activates, from Thursday -Sunday straight, (I called out, took half a day) Monday I said damn well I at least gotta see my girl once so it don't look too crazy. I tell 10 i'll be there soon but can't make happy hour. Mine you I got home at 3am next day and been work 9:30-5:30. She keeps texting me wya and are you coming when etc.
I show up 12:20am she pissed off where where you, you lied said you was coming. I told her the truth, I went to my girl because we had couples therapy Tuesday and I didn't see her or talk much in 4 days, but I'm doing couples therapy to let her down easy because they gonna say what I expect they would and ended up happening (saying we don't seem compatible) and I rather this be the end then she find out cheating and she hear broke. Told her when and when you go back south in 2 days with the guy you live with, I have nobody. Big fight. You lied, stay with the spongbob and bad shaped ho etc. I call out the next day tell her to come over since it's her last day here.
Therapy was terrible like I said with my girl. Pretty much like this.
10/10 not tryna hear that. To her, this is worse than the pedicure stuff and I lie and why can't I tell her the truth. We all know what telling the truth would get me. She saying she really over me, our other mutual best friend think she just need time. My real relationship, infidelity aside is done and was done before I stepped out.
Young fellas, focus on the gym, your money and your career and don't feel rushed to be with women in your 20's early 30's.
Out of college, I'm up here and she's in the south. Both dating, still flirting. 2018 I just start dating my current girl (not official yet) She comes here and we end up smashing again. after 2 days of hanging together, she came to my job for lunch we went to dinner spent the night. I was set to meet her and other's for brunch later, but I had plans with my girl first, (get a pedicure) I rush to the brunch after, this girl is crying and livid. Mad at me for like 3 weeks, from 2018 till now I've had to hear about this pedicure. Next She started dating someone downsouth after, they move in, she so in love etc. I start dating my girl, I post a reel on IG for Valentines day (I hardly post) she tells me my bi*** is so ugly and she looks like spongbob etc no shape shaped like a boy etc. All this on Valentines day with her bf miles away in the south.
I go to St.Lucia with my girl and post, she hate and say she not right for me etc and ugly bad shaped etc. I tell het if she feels this way why don't we both just be together, she affirms she like her man and wanna be with him. Her man finds out we f*** and now she sneaks and facetimes and texts me when he not there.
Broke up with my girl during Covid. She still with the guy, I'm getting more pus&* than I can handle from hinge and etc. They not 10/10 girl though so I try, "no my bf etc," Cool.
Get back with my ex
Homecoming last year, I see her we kick it, everybody in the school talking about how bad she is etc. My girl isn't there. I'm staying at my cousin crib, she come over I suck her t*****. Next day she say we can't hang out cuz her man went to some of the day events. (To this day she said sucking ti**) isn't cheating.
She hates her, talks shi**. Says she don't know if she love him and he annoys her etc, I'm feeling similar. She comes up for a mutual bf, both our partners there at the party, next day we flirting and she dodging facetimes and texts from him, I made an excuse with my girl.
2 month's later I go to south we get a hotel we smashing and eating biscuits. She can't stay so she leaves at night and goes home with her man.
Month later she comes up here and we hang out and we sneaking around at my crib we smashing. Next month is my b day, she flies here misses a flight to NY so take one to philly and takes bus here. Smash fun all this for a few days, she dodging calls and facetimes. My girl don't hmu like that if I say I'm with my other friends.
Last week another birthday she comes up, smashing and loving this time with full blown dates and activates, from Thursday -Sunday straight, (I called out, took half a day) Monday I said damn well I at least gotta see my girl once so it don't look too crazy. I tell 10 i'll be there soon but can't make happy hour. Mine you I got home at 3am next day and been work 9:30-5:30. She keeps texting me wya and are you coming when etc.
I show up 12:20am she pissed off where where you, you lied said you was coming. I told her the truth, I went to my girl because we had couples therapy Tuesday and I didn't see her or talk much in 4 days, but I'm doing couples therapy to let her down easy because they gonna say what I expect they would and ended up happening (saying we don't seem compatible) and I rather this be the end then she find out cheating and she hear broke. Told her when and when you go back south in 2 days with the guy you live with, I have nobody. Big fight. You lied, stay with the spongbob and bad shaped ho etc. I call out the next day tell her to come over since it's her last day here.
Therapy was terrible like I said with my girl. Pretty much like this.
10/10 not tryna hear that. To her, this is worse than the pedicure stuff and I lie and why can't I tell her the truth. We all know what telling the truth would get me. She saying she really over me, our other mutual best friend think she just need time. My real relationship, infidelity aside is done and was done before I stepped out.
Young fellas, focus on the gym, your money and your career and don't feel rushed to be with women in your 20's early 30's.
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yup
between the quarterly vacations, clothing, makeup, restaurants, clubs etc. these women tend to rack up a ton. can only imagine how bad theyd be if they didnt have dudes to buy them food
exactly I rather deal with a modest woman simply for the low overhead paired with the self absorbed female nature will be less annoying (they are all the same but at least it won't be outlandish shyt). The issue nowadays through is all women tend to strive for the ratchet umbrella so whether educated or uneducated both wanna be ratchet (on top of the dept load, etc).
So you been with the same chick since 2018 while dealing with the other chick?
Why were y’all in therapy?
RealCrownHeights
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Yes broke up in Covid got back together. Our birthdays 2 days a way. I turned 30, her 28. For hers, I had dinner reservations for 9. Get to her at 7, not ready 7:30 not ready. On the way there I’m cslling the restaurant and they keep pushing our table back but it’s so much traffic. We won’t make it for 10. So im trying find other restaurants in the Uber that’s high class or popular.
Booked it for 10:15. We get there, they act like they don’t have my reservation. It’s mad people waiting to get seated. She is pissed off. I’m asking the waiter repeatedly with other people there waiting. She storms out restaurant. I call her tell her to come back. Waitress sees us upset said she trying. We get seated 20 minutes later. Terrible service gotta get loud to get a water. No we both mad don’t say nothing the whole dinner.
At the end I say well you wanna take pics I bought a tripod. “No I don’t want no pics, did you have anything else planned “
Yea by the first restaurant, this lounge we usually go too. “I have in heels, I wanna be sexy and sit down not stand up at a lounge” let’s just go home. Car ride back, arguments
We get back she said this the worse birthday of her life. I said I don’t think this gonna last. She start crying and breaking down and saying she wanna do couples therapy cuz she wanna have a family with me
lol you should have skipped therapy because she’s your second choice
Malik1time
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Girl I’m dating telling me she’s ashamed to admit she low key bougie cuz she hates taking subway and prefers to drive… we live in nyc…everyone use the train to travel 
fukk I look like spending Ubers from Brooklyn to the city back and forth
It’s not even a money thing I just can’t stomach spending $100 for round trip alone.. not including the date itself
fukk I look like spending Ubers from Brooklyn to the city back and forthIt’s not even a money thing I just can’t stomach spending $100 for round trip alone.. not including the date itself
who said you gotta pay for her transportation? bytch say she wanna drive then make her driveGirl I’m dating telling me she’s ashamed to admit she low key bougie cuz she hates taking subway and prefers to drive… we live in nyc…everyone use the train to travel
It’s not even a money thing I just can’t stomach spending $100 for round trip alone.. not including the date itself
This is the shyt the minister above was talking about. Something wrong with them lol. Its shyt like taking ubers that if done almost daily can prolly cost 5 to 10k a year.Girl I’m dating telling me she’s ashamed to admit she low key bougie cuz she hates taking subway and prefers to drive… we live in nyc…everyone use the train to travel
It’s not even a money thing I just can’t stomach spending $100 for round trip alone.. not including the date itself
thats why a lot of these girls be in shyt financial situations
If thats what she is on then just make sure yall meet At the spot when yall go out and plan shyt that is close to your home whenever you tryna pipe
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Girl I’m dating telling me she’s ashamed to admit she low key bougie cuz she hates taking subway and prefers to drive… we live in nyc…everyone use the train to travel
It’s not even a money thing I just can’t stomach spending $100 for round trip alone.. not including the date itself
She’s not bougie, she’s just a brat lol.
Hope you’re not taking her seriously.
