Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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matched this girl yesterday but she can't meet till Friday. how you keep her engaged until then without texting too much? plus I'm trying to build up some tension to try and smash first date.

Just do some simple small talk..

You can even skip a day...

Make sure the meet up is "secured" for Friday..

Emphasis on secured cuz u know how that goes lol...
 

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After going years without tryna holla at women, the most confusing thing to me was when I got back in the game and asked a chic for her number and she gave me her ig instead. At the time I looked at it like rejection but I think Gen Z may be on to something.

Yesterday I was getting at this chic at an event I went to and the conversation was going great and when she had to go, I told her lemme get her ig so we can finish our convo later.

I didn't understand at first but getting social media is one of the best things you can do. You instantly find out what type of woman she is by what she's into and what she posts.

This might be the first actual ingenious thing that Gen Z has come up with :ohhh:
Ig is your social linkedin/business card.

Its a gift and curse because in the past youd see a chick without social media as a bonus but now people without IG are usually weirdos/hiding a past but in the same breath women with IGs tend to be self absorbed (but you will be able to tell from pics) or DMs liver than the superbowl
 

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matched this girl yesterday but she can't meet till Friday. how you keep her engaged until then without texting too much? plus I'm trying to build up some tension to try and smash first date.

What is your IG looking like?

If your personal brand advertising is on point, just add her to your feed.
 

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After going years without tryna holla at women, the most confusing thing to me was when I got back in the game and asked a chic for her number and she gave me her ig instead. At the time I looked at it like rejection but I think Gen Z may be on to something.

Yesterday I was getting at this chic at an event I went to and the conversation was going great and when she had to go, I told her lemme get her ig so we can finish our convo later.

I didn't understand at first but getting social media is one of the best things you can do. You instantly find out what type of woman she is by what she's into and what she posts.

This might be the first actual ingenious thing that Gen Z has come up with :ohhh:
Your social media is the presentation. It's easier to get a feel out of a person on IG due to the type of lifestyle posted.

The cheat code is posting travel photos, local and overseas. Passport pros get clowned but if a woman sees you have traveled, she'll see you as "well cultured"

Pictures of showing your hobbies is second. Showing what you're passionate about is attractive to others.

Third. Pictures with friends/family/other women. Women want to know if you're "normal" to date and not a serial killer. Pictures with other women show preselection.

On my IG, I have pictures visiting scenic places like mountains, art galleries, visiting different cities, waterfalls, beaches, exotic locations. I also have videos playing guitar and playing piano, that's my artistic side.

The best thing you can do is create a business card with your IG on it. Instead of asking a chick for her IG, give out your IG to do the choosing. You'll decide if you want to rock with her or not.
 

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Yep, double sided sword. But this chic only got 150 followers and she's on there promoting fitness and eating clean.

Plus she's fit, feminine and friendly.


I want her. :takedat:


But you're right. I used to look at women that be on social media as something being wrong with them, but now it's the other way around :dead:

When did it all change? :skip:
Fitness tends to be a cover for sex work so dont be blind to that potential red flag.

Id say probably the last 3-4 yrs especially when everyone started traveling when covid had the crack head flights
 

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After going years without tryna holla at women, the most confusing thing to me was when I got back in the game and asked a chic for her number and she gave me her ig instead. At the time I looked at it like rejection but I think Gen Z may be on to something.

Yesterday I was getting at this chic at an event I went to and the conversation was going great and when she had to go, I told her lemme get her ig so we can finish our convo later.

I didn't understand at first but getting social media is one of the best things you can do. You instantly find out what type of woman she is by what she's into and what she posts.

This might be the first actual ingenious thing that Gen Z has come up with :ohhh:

Getting a number should ALWAYS be the main goal..

Anything else is a jansport filled with pebbles and potential boulders climbing up a mountain..
 
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