Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

Lots of people, 20's and early 30's, use instagram, but it's the same kind of ritual. You can ignore or follow, or answer, or whatever. The difference is you can turn a mildly interested person, or a mostly uninterested person into a believer, if they happen to see someone pics, of whatever they like. or are intrigued by. Like this guy parties where? This guy has bottles where? That kind of thing. Harder to do that via text, turn around a ghost, but lots of guys, not me, they just text and text until they get a response they want. Invite after invite, and eventually a lot of women will have a reason to say yes.

it's all really about the in person connection, plus follow up.

the one I met last week, she saved my number detailed, and we had a plan already in place, as in where to go and what to do. A purpose. Who knows how that plays out with her, but that's usually what I want to do.

 

[Redwood]

So you’re pretty much saying a buncha nothing. Got it

How did you get to that conclusion?

I was saying there are always going to be guys with girl problems even if things are going well breh.

 

[Apollo Creed]

How did you get to that conclusion?

I was saying there are always going to be guys with girl problems even if things are going well breh.

What in the flying fyck does that have to do with rules of the game and my post about in the current day there are no rules as most chicks are renegades?

What am I missing?

 

[MikelArteta]

Back to kenya next month

 

[Apollo Creed]

Back to kenya next month

how long? I need to knock Kenya off my list next yr and stop procrastinating

 

[MikelArteta]

how long? I need to knock Kenya off my list next yr and stop procrastinating

just like 8 days, short trip just meeting someone

kenya and uganda are the goat

 

[Ahadi]

Women who say “they’re disinterested in a lot of people” what does that mean to you?

I’ve heard this a few times in real life / hinge

 

[Apollo Creed]

Women who say “they’re disinterested in a lot of people” what does that mean to you?

I’ve heard this a few times in real life / hinge

mentally ill, avoid.

If the convo with a woman isn't light hearted/getting to know you stuff avoid em. Anything dealing with standards, what people are or aren't doing, etc. = this bytch is crazy and there is a reason why she is single.

 

[UpAndComing]

where are you approaching 10 times a week?

In the day with no alcohol involved

The key to cold approaching is to create opportunities to talk to women. Not to have too much time to prepare and overthink a situation

I cold approach at the grocery store, at the DMV, at the gas station, a fast food place, at a Verizon cell phone store, Old Navy, etc, doesn't matter

 

[NoirDynosaur]

I just cold approached 2 Nigerian sistas at the Staten Island ferry. They sat next to me, so I struck conversation

They were both cute af, so I started charming both of them the minute we start talking

Found out they're both youtubers, so I start chopping up game to them

The shawty with the glasses put me in her story #Handsome gang for the win

Close mouths don't get fed. Try your luck fellas!

 

[The ADD]

I just cold approached 2 Nigerian sistas at the Staten Island ferry. They sat next to me, so I struck conversation

They were both cute af, so I started charming both of them the minute we start talking

Found out they're both youtubers, so I start chopping up game to them

The shawty with the glasses put me in her story #Handsome gang for the win

Close mouths don't get fed. Try your luck fellas!

When are y’all linking up?

 

[The ADD]

 

[WIA20XX]

Women who say “they’re disinterested in a lot of people” what does that mean to you?

I’ve heard this a few times in real life / hinge

For me, it's the typical female posturing.

If cats don't have game, this is a yes/no type situation

Yes, they try to be this person she hasn't even really described, prove he's better than the rest.
Yes, agree with her and keep it moving.

No, don't tolerate that anti-social bs/posturing and keep it moving. (low key this another example of the "she's bad at texting" meta discussion we're having_

etc.

In all cases, the cat is taking the chick seriously and playing offense/defense - but ultimately playing her game with her rules.

Which she wants, but also doesn't want. She wants a guy to listen to her, work with her, do things for her, buy things for her, protect her, be that companion - but the guys who readily do that, she gets bored with or is disgusted by.

A lot of girls, unconsciously or consciously, set up these gauntlets for a man to run. The things they do to get a man hooked are often counterproductive.

So the classic response is

Who hurt you?

And then just put her on defense and get her to explain herself.

Now the man is calling the shots.

It doesn't matter what her answer is, the more that she's trying to explain herself, is really her feeling compelled to get you to understand, to get his approval.

And that's ultimately what a lot of guys

She has to be in need of his approval, which he only grants sparingly.

Keep in mind, these chicks aren't pleased with door mats, but a lot of them will run away from "Mr. Alpha".

I'm not saying a man needs to put a chick in a situation where she doesn't know why she's doing his bidding, she just does it. (although a lot of human society works on this principle)

I am saying that a lot of them want that sort of set up, without saying it.

Tyrone, take the wheel...

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Lots of people, 20's and early 30's, use instagram, but it's the same kind of ritual. You can ignore or follow, or answer, or whatever. The difference is you can turn a mildly interested person, or a mostly uninterested person into a believer, if they happen to see someone pics, of whatever they like. or are intrigued by. Like this guy parties where? This guy has bottles where? That kind of thing. Harder to do that via text, turn around a ghost, but lots of guys, not me, they just text and text until they get a response they want. Invite after invite, and eventually a lot of women will have a reason to say yes.

it's all really about the in person connection, plus follow up.

the one I met last week, she saved my number detailed, and we had a plan already in place, as in where to go and what to do. A purpose. Who knows how that plays out with her, but that's usually what I want to do.

You can dm a chick for few days
And if she goes out and runs into someone she vibes with

Yeah it’s over

Real life will always beat IG

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I just cold approached 2 Nigerian sistas at the Staten Island ferry. They sat next to me, so I struck conversation

They were both cute af, so I started charming both of them the minute we start talking

Found out they're both youtubers, so I start chopping up game to them

The shawty with the glasses put me in her story #Handsome gang for the win

Close mouths don't get fed. Try your luck fellas!

Which one u gonna fukk?