Recently, was out with someone, known for 10 plus years, who is like a IG girl, just very flashy, very sexual, has that look, and she ran into a guy she knows, who dated another a friend of mine. And we were in a group of 4, kind of a reunion.
And this dude does the whole try to cut in (may I have this dance) thing, which is fine, but he kept running to get her drinks, trying to pull her away (from me, even if I wasn't trying), and she says to me, "see this is what I miss about dating someone, having someone to do everything for me" and starts laughing, but she says "see he's too nice"
it's not that he's so nice, it's subservience, and she knows I fukk with her, and I do, would buy her a drink, throw $100 at her, for the whole group, if I felt like it, but would never act like her personal assistant.