Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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there is a growing trend for women to not even save your number when yall meet.

it really shows how negative/pessimistic they are being when it comes to dating/meeting men. that, or they meet so many men they cant even be bothered until the dude shows he has some staying power
to be real, I don’t save numbers

EDIT: lowkey everything you typed, I do. Idk what that makes me but unless you consistent then ain’t no reason for me to save.

Just gon be another (404) or (678)
 
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to be real, I don’t save numbers

EDIT: lowkey everything you typed, I do. Idk what that makes me but unless you consistent then ain’t no reason for me to save.

Just gon be another (404) or (678)

Lol are at the point of no return where it comes to human relations. Unless the person is family/classmate/MAYBE coworker their existance as a human doesnt matter.

If a man/woman was killed and that's why they didn't respond to the person's DM folks wouldn't even really care cause they already bushed them
 

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Getting instagrams is the wave

:wow:

If your IG is lit

Side bar - I don’t save numbers either, unless she’s has shown me otherwise
 

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to be real, I don’t save numbers

EDIT: lowkey everything you typed, I do. Idk what that makes me but unless you consistent then ain’t no reason for me to save.

Just gon be another (404) or (678)
the way i see it, the function is there for a reason - for you to know who youre talking to.

takes 2 seconds to add, another 2 to delete.

my question for a guy is...if you meet a woman in person, you have to save the contact when you collect the number. if after messaging said person, you delete the contact it alludes to the pessimism/pettiness i mentioned above kinda. meeting ppl online could be different as you could just copy and paste the number into starting a new chat.
 

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the way i see it, the function is there for a reason - for you to know who youre talking to.

takes 2 seconds to add, another 2 to delete.

my question for a guy is...if you meet a woman in person, you have to save the contact when you collect the number. if after messaging said person, you delete the contact it alludes to the pessimism/pettiness i mentioned above kinda. meeting ppl online could be different as you could just copy and paste the number into starting a new chat.
she grabs my phone, types her # in, and texts either:

1) “Hey this ________”
2) “_______ here”
3) Her name

In theory, we hop on a call and plan a date soon (this thread advocates to move from digital to irl as fast as possible), date goes well, we click — boom! The number saved.

I feel you from a authentic human connection but we on the iPhone 15 breh not the Blackberry.
 

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she grabs my phone, types her # in, and texts either:

1) “Hey this ________”
2) “_______ here”
3) Her name

In theory, we hop on a call and plan a date soon (this thread advocates to move from digital to irl as fast as possible), date goes well, we click — boom! The number saved.

I feel you from a authentic human connection but we on the iPhone 15 breh not the Blackberry.
every girl does the above? i find that hard to believe.
most women will put their phone number in the contact section with their name and wait for you to message them
im an advocate for the above as well
 

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every girl does the above? i find that hard to believe.
most women will put their phone number in the contact section with their name and wait for you to message them
im an advocate for the above as well
In theory was included in the statement you bolded.

Women also do that too btw. The woman I mentioned in this thread a few pages did the exact thing.

I guess in conclusion: there ain’t really a strict rule in saving contact for me, nor do I place an importance on #’s anymore.
 

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there is a growing trend for women to not even save your number when yall meet.

it really shows how negative/pessimistic they are being when it comes to dating/meeting men. that, or they meet so many men they cant even be bothered until the dude shows he has some staying power

Sounds like the game basically has been flipped :francis:
 

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True but it's a part of the game.. I think people get messed up when they start visualizing what it could be instead of just taking it a day at a time. It's all Convo until they give you a good reason to take them out. Some might fall to the wayside before then but that's cool just keep the Convo up with others
I said be fore you gotta take hoes day by day. Dudes are wired to plan for the future and that shyt is just asking for failure in modern age
 
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