lol its too much to type so ill try to type it in point form
1. i meet this girl a few days ago at the mall. we text and at some point she stops responding but claims shes busy or whatever...coool.
2. she messages me one day saying her days been crazy and she hopes my day is going well.
3. i respond asking why her day has been crazy; she responds asking if were gonna be "texting buddies"
4. me appreciating her directness, i ask if she prefers phone calls and also mention we should link friday/saturday - that she should let me know when shes free so i can plan something. she doesnt respond again so I call her and ask.
5. she gives me a 1.5 hour window on friday. It works for me cause i am off friday. given the time constraint, i pick a couple places with good food but quicker service that we can hit up.
6. she doesnt respond
7. i call tonight to confirm if tomorrow is still a go cause i am planning out my day. she doesnt answer so i tell her fukk it cause shes acting weird.
8. she responds saying shes busy doing some shyt with her mom and how she isnt trying to go to some "pizza pizza" restaurant. she says how i showed what type of guy i am and we arent compatible. during a back and forth she even had the audacity to say I am blessed for her to even be texting me.
so in summary...a girl i met on lets say Tuesday expects me to take her to an upscale restaurant when she cant even respond to messages in a timely manner. she is using this as a litmus test for to see "what kinda guy i am" not realizing that
a. the only reason i chose those restaurants (which actually have great food) is because of the time crunch
b. why would i invest any real money in a chick who I barely met who is displaying shyt comunication skills.
its just a lot of delusion and entitlement in these women out here. Shes a good lookin Somali chick with a fat ass who seems to still live with her mom yet shes trying to downplay me, a dude who has his own place, makes almost 500K a year, is tall, deezed and most of all...just a solid ass nikka with integrity. It be the same women claiming men or trash or they cant find a solid nikka - nah, the problem is them