Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RaspberryFitted]

you pull out?

yes boss. She had that device in her arm but still nah.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

she’s cool. told her to work on a few things before I wanted to pursue a relationship but she was understanding

 

[RealAssanova]

lol its too much to type so ill try to type it in point form



1. i meet this girl a few days ago at the mall. we text and at some point she stops responding but claims shes busy or whatever...coool.
2. she messages me one day saying her days been crazy and she hopes my day is going well.
3. i respond asking why her day has been crazy; she responds asking if were gonna be "texting buddies"
4. me appreciating her directness, i ask if she prefers phone calls and also mention we should link friday/saturday - that she should let me know when shes free so i can plan something. she doesnt respond again so I call her and ask.
5. she gives me a 1.5 hour window on friday. It works for me cause i am off friday. given the time constraint, i pick a couple places with good food but quicker service that we can hit up.
6. she doesnt respond
7. i call tonight to confirm if tomorrow is still a go cause i am planning out my day. she doesnt answer so i tell her fukk it cause shes acting weird.
8. she responds saying shes busy doing some shyt with her mom and how she isnt trying to go to some "pizza pizza" restaurant. she says how i showed what type of guy i am and we arent compatible. during a back and forth she even had the audacity to say I am blessed for her to even be texting me.

so in summary...a girl i met on lets say Tuesday expects me to take her to an upscale restaurant when she cant even respond to messages in a timely manner. she is using this as a litmus test for to see "what kinda guy i am" not realizing that

a. the only reason i chose those restaurants (which actually have great food) is because of the time crunch
b. why would i invest any real money in a chick who I barely met who is displaying shyt comunication skills.

its just a lot of delusion and entitlement in these women out here. Shes a good lookin Somali chick with a fat ass who seems to still live with her mom yet shes trying to downplay me, a dude who has his own place, makes almost 500K a year, is tall, deezed and most of all...just a solid ass nikka with integrity. It be the same women claiming men or trash or they cant find a solid nikka - nah, the problem is them

2 things i wouldn’t have done…

Well actually 3.

First is, when a girl doesn’t respond to my text, she’ll never hear from me again.

Second is, when a girl puts “constraints” on seeing each other, especially for a first time link up, like a time limit, i’m cancelling the date. Furthermore, insinuating where ya’ll should be goin is a turnoff and says to me she ain’t feelin me. I do not fukk with “conditional” hoes that would only go out with me depending on where i take them. No woman is deserving of your hard earned money, time and other resources until she earns it.

Thirdly, engaging in back and forth. Especially with a woman. You say your point once or ignore her altogether…but you never ever engage in a back and forth….especially with a woman.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Yea some women have horrible communication. That's why I don't sweat it and keep it moving

And after I damn near month hiatus, they be on some "heyyyy" "I miss u".

bytch watchu want?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Seems a bit harsh

shyt it be the same ol script over and over again dealing with em. I don't put in no effort no more.
Just gotta hope I luck up on some box.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I 'love' it when a woman puts in her profile that she's a bad texter or bad at communication. That is a massive red flag and any smart man should be noping the hell out when they see that, and save his time and sanity. I don't care how good she looks.

I'm not wasting my time with a chick coming with pre-excuses as to why she is lousy at simple communication

that just screams "dry ass responses".
"Yeah" "Kk" 'idk' "lmao" "chillin', etc.

i swear all the weed, social media and alcohol got society so anti-social. Folks only know how to communicate in "comment section" form

 

[The ADD]

shyt it be the same ol script over and over again dealing with em. I don't put in no effort no more.
Just gotta hope I luck up on some box.

That’s the way casual sex works breh. You win some and you lost some. Don’t let Ls make you go red pill.

 

[The ADD]

she’s cool. told her to work on a few things before I wanted to pursue a relationship but she was understanding

 

[MikelArteta]

i've built a strong pipeline of like ten shorties.

a russian, kazakh, somali, zimbabwean, congolese, a cpl more white chicks, an indonesian and a chinese chick
ages probably 20-30
the kazakh and black women are decent leads to join the roster but the others arent really. also bagged a sexy south african shorty today.

no good stories yet but hope to report back in the next few wks

United Nations nukka

 

[Scaaar]

85 percent of the chicks you meet will either flake or you gonna have to bush them

Sad reality
Lol

True but it's a part of the game.. I think people get messed up when they start visualizing what it could be instead of just taking it a day at a time. It's all Convo until they give you a good reason to take them out. Some might fall to the wayside before then but that's cool just keep the Convo up with others

 

[Scaaar]

I can't speak for South Africa but I've been to a few African countries. They know you're not from there especially how you look and dress. In terms of potential tricks that's only for some. There are tons of rich Africans in every country and there are also tons of tourist or expats who also have money. The ones who see you as a trick make it clear fast on apps that they are there for hookup.

I still talk to a few women I met in Nigeria five years ago. Most have left and are in the states, uk or Canada now.

2. The chicks that just want to hookup just want to hookup. Not every woman wants to live in America or get married. Like where I was staying in Uganda right beside me this old whit dude from Germany was having a different woman every night those are th chicks that run tricks. There on every app and in every bar.

Yeah that's the biggest thing I tell brehs. Just talk and be yourself. Not every woman wants to immediately marry you. They have needs and want to get their rocks off too. A lot of chics overseas are more upfront about it since sex isn't as taboo as it is here. I've been on trips for a week and let them know and they'll rock with it and we just experience each other for the time I'm there. It's honestly the best feeling since no one is running game and know what time it is.

 

[Ohene]

85 percent of the chicks you meet will either flake or you gonna have to bush them

Sad reality
Lol

yup

i always use baseball stats as the standard. if you hitting a home run every 10 at bats, youre hall of fame status (~50 per season). every 20 at bats (~25 per season) youre all star status.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

That’s the way casual sex works breh. You win some and you lost some. Don’t let Ls make you go red pill.

Hell naw.
I ain't gone never be red pill.
I just ain't got no incentive to try no female unless she obviously choosing

 

[Ohene]

there is a growing trend for women to not even save your number when yall meet.

it really shows how negative/pessimistic they are being when it comes to dating/meeting men. that, or they meet so many men they cant even be bothered until the dude shows he has some staying power

 

[RaspberryFitted]

there is a growing trend for women to not even save your number when yall meet.

it really shows how negative/pessimistic they are being when it comes to dating/meeting men. that, or they meet so many men they cant even be bothered until the dude shows he has some staying power

to be real, I don’t save numbers

EDIT: lowkey everything you typed, I do. Idk what that makes me but unless you consistent then ain’t no reason for me to save.

Just gon be another (404) or (678)