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They communicate in memes
It’s giving ______
That’s such a vibe

They communicate in memes
It’s giving ______
That’s such a vibe
lol its too much to type so ill try to type it in point form
1. i meet this girl a few days ago at the mall. we text and at some point she stops responding but claims shes busy or whatever...coool.
2. she messages me one day saying her days been crazy and she hopes my day is going well.
3. i respond asking why her day has been crazy; she responds asking if were gonna be "texting buddies"
4. me appreciating her directness, i ask if she prefers phone calls and also mention we should link friday/saturday - that she should let me know when shes free so i can plan something. she doesnt respond again so I call her and ask.
5. she gives me a 1.5 hour window on friday. It works for me cause i am off friday. given the time constraint, i pick a couple places with good food but quicker service that we can hit up.
6. she doesnt respond
7. i call tonight to confirm if tomorrow is still a go cause i am planning out my day. she doesnt answer so i tell her fukk it cause shes acting weird.
8. she responds saying shes busy doing some shyt with her mom and how she isnt trying to go to some "pizza pizza" restaurant. she says how i showed what type of guy i am and we arent compatible. during a back and forth she even had the audacity to say I am blessed for her to even be texting me.
so in summary...a girl i met on lets say Tuesday expects me to take her to an upscale restaurant when she cant even respond to messages in a timely manner. she is using this as a litmus test for to see "what kinda guy i am" not realizing that
a. the only reason i chose those restaurants (which actually have great food) is because of the time crunch
b. why would i invest any real money in a chick who I barely met who is displaying shyt comunication skills.
its just a lot of delusion and entitlement in these women out here. Shes a good lookin Somali chick with a fat ass who seems to still live with her mom yet shes trying to downplay me, a dude who has his own place, makes almost 500K a year, is tall, deezed and most of all...just a solid ass nikka with integrity. It be the same women claiming men or trash or they cant find a solid nikka - nah, the problem is them
I had a chick with 3 jobs drive an hour during the week to come fukk me before regularly. No such thing as a busy woman. Most hoes don't even have real hobbies outside of work.
This is a difference that I always point out: they may be on their phone 24/7, but what is their volume of send and received messages? if you ever have that opportunity, try to manage the responses and volume of that kind of texts. Hold some girls phone for an hour. And see that it's like a flood sometimes.
I have no dating apps, no social media, only Lyft and Air BNB, no group chats, my personal phone gets maybe a half dozen texts/text convo initiations/day. Few close friends. Maybe my sister. Maybe a women or two. Maybe. Some days it may get none. Or one text. Plenty of women I know have dozens and dozens of messages coming in all day. Voice messages, regular voice mails.
The women I know that are very pursued are flooded with DM's, texts, from guys. Then there's dating app messages. Whats APP. Snap. Tik Tok.
I don't ghost or late respond or whatever, but you can be 100% sure I saw the text. People I described above? Maybe not. Some women/men treat it like clearing a work email inbox. They prioritize maybe 3-5 people and the rest they get to when they get to.
Thats fine and all but its just confirming dudes shouldnt make hoes a priority lol
Sure. Don't make up some absurd conspiracy theory explanation about why she didn't respond. She either chose not to, or didn't really see it. Probably you aren't the top percentile priority. How you move from there? Depends on the connection. If it's a medium high connection, I probably won't follow up, even if you may get an entirely different reaction. It's like pulling a slot machine.
I dont think anyone is making up any conspiracy. The genera consensus in here is match energy. Humans make time for the things they want to.
Maybe when I was 12. As a grown man when it comes ti women my logic is either she is cooperating or not, if she isn’t I move on. If the bytch got cancer she need to handle that and not be dating anywaysNot in here, bit you know what I am saying, we have all probably done it. "Maybe she is sleeping" "Maybe she's working really hard" "Maybe she lost her phone"
matching energies is reasonable. Have you ever heard women explain why they didn't go out with someone, or didn't go out with you? To you, in person? The level of anxiety, future planning, tension, and like intricate scenarios is pretty real in my experience.
all this may be true but even if it is, who wants to be lining up in a queue waiting to talk to a bytchThis is a difference that I always point out: they may be on their phone 24/7, but what is their volume of send and received messages? if you ever have that opportunity, try to manage the responses and volume of that kind of texts. Hold some girls phone for an hour. And see that it's like a flood sometimes.
I have no dating apps, no social media, only Lyft and Air BNB, no group chats, my personal phone gets maybe a half dozen texts/text convo initiations/day. Few close friends. Maybe my sister. Maybe a woman or two. Maybe. Some days it may get none. Or one text. Plenty of women I know have dozens and dozens of messages coming in all day. Voice messages, regular voice mails.
The women I know that are very pursued are flooded with DM's, texts, from guys. Then there's dating app messages. Whats APP. Snap. Tik Tok.
I don't ghost or late respond or whatever, but you can be 100% sure I saw the text. People I described above? Maybe not. Some women/men treat it like clearing a work email inbox. They prioritize maybe 3-5 people and the rest they get to when they get to.