Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Rejection is also a form of power, as in the formula
if I reject X amount of people, that means X amount want me, and therefore am highly coveted
and a sense of control, to control an essentially uncontrollable situation; which is who will want you, and when they will want you. and how they will want you.
if I reject X amount of people, that means X amount want me, and therefore am highly coveted
and a sense of control, to control an essentially uncontrollable situation; which is who will want you, and when they will want you. and how they will want you.
Met the baddest Puerto Rican girl the other night, was at a spot in San Diego, happened to have two really bad/flashy girls with me, everyone switching around and chaos, at the bar she started talking to the girls, and then me, and then the usual musical chairs, I was trying to duck the two with me, and talk to her
Complimented her shoes, and was like "those are Valentino new line right"
and she says these are fake, but I got them in S. Korea, and we were on a good convo from there.
Complimented her shoes, and was like "those are Valentino new line right"
and she says these are fake, but I got them in S. Korea, and we were on a good convo from there.
People too much use text as like a either
a) a signaling medium
b) all or nothing/ as in, we text all day and have to say goodbye and goodnight, talk to you later or ELSE
I usually have a purpose, like an invite, or something we connect on, (to laugh at, to inform, whatever) so you have some foundation. After 30 texts, what does a goodnight or goodbye even mean? what are you talking about? what's the purpose?
what people are really asking for is constant reassurance.
a) a signaling medium
b) all or nothing/ as in, we text all day and have to say goodbye and goodnight, talk to you later or ELSE
I usually have a purpose, like an invite, or something we connect on, (to laugh at, to inform, whatever) so you have some foundation. After 30 texts, what does a goodnight or goodbye even mean? what are you talking about? what's the purpose?
what people are really asking for is constant reassurance.
I had a chick with 3 jobs drive an hour during the week to come fukk me before regularly. No such thing as a busy woman. Most hoes don't even have real hobbies outside of work.
yup like I said everyone is looking at their phone hours a day. That to busy to text woman is texting someone else.
This is a difference that I always point out: they may be on their phone 24/7, but what is their volume of send and received messages? if you ever have that opportunity, try to manage the responses and volume of that kind of texts. Hold some girls phone for an hour. And see that it's like a flood sometimes.
I have no dating apps, no social media, only Lyft and Air BNB, no group chats, my personal phone gets maybe a half dozen texts/text convo initiations/day. Few close friends. Maybe my sister. Maybe a woman or two. Maybe. Some days it may get none. Or one text. Plenty of women I know have dozens and dozens of messages coming in all day. Voice messages, regular voice mails.
The women I know that are very pursued are flooded with DM's, texts, from guys. Then there's dating app messages. Whats APP. Snap. Tik Tok.
I don't ghost or late respond or whatever, but you can be 100% sure I saw the text. People I described above? Maybe not. Some women/men treat it like clearing a work email inbox. They prioritize maybe 3-5 people and the rest they get to when they get to.
I have no dating apps, no social media, only Lyft and Air BNB, no group chats, my personal phone gets maybe a half dozen texts/text convo initiations/day. Few close friends. Maybe my sister. Maybe a woman or two. Maybe. Some days it may get none. Or one text. Plenty of women I know have dozens and dozens of messages coming in all day. Voice messages, regular voice mails.
The women I know that are very pursued are flooded with DM's, texts, from guys. Then there's dating app messages. Whats APP. Snap. Tik Tok.
I don't ghost or late respond or whatever, but you can be 100% sure I saw the text. People I described above? Maybe not. Some women/men treat it like clearing a work email inbox. They prioritize maybe 3-5 people and the rest they get to when they get to.
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Thats fine and all but its just confirming dudes shouldnt make hoes a priority lol
and EMOTIONALLY managing all those texts. All those invites. how do you do that? That would be exhausting, even if you don't want to ghost, you eventually are like fukk, this is too much.
I get it. The other night one of these girls I probably complained about in here ghosting me, she was apologizing and we were talking about it, but I was like I understand. It's always cool between us, we've been close for 10 plus years. She had a dozen plus guys, probably more, straight up harassing her every day.
I get it. The other night one of these girls I probably complained about in here ghosting me, she was apologizing and we were talking about it, but I was like I understand. It's always cool between us, we've been close for 10 plus years. She had a dozen plus guys, probably more, straight up harassing her every day.
Sure. Don't make up some absurd conspiracy theory explanation about why she didn't respond. She either chose not to, or didn't really see it. Probably you aren't the top percentile priority. How you move from there? Depends on the connection. If it's a medium to low connection, I probably won't follow up, even if you may get an entirely different reaction, just a week later. I'll wait until we see each other again, and re set. It's like pulling a slot machine.
I dont think anyone is making up any conspiracy. The genera consensus in here is match energy. Humans make time for the things they want to.
Not in here, but you know what I am saying, we have all probably done it. "Maybe she is sleeping" "Maybe she's working really hard" "Maybe she lost her phone" "Maybe she want me to ask again",
matching energies is reasonable. Have you ever heard women explain why they didn't go out with someone, or didn't go out with you? To you, in person? The level of anxiety, future planning, tension, and like intricate scenarios is pretty real in my experience.
or they don't even remember why not, and are kinda like I don't know why I didn't.
Maybe when I was 12. As a grown man when it comes ti women my logic is either she is cooperating or not, if she isn’t I move on. If the bytch got cancer she need to handle that and not be dating anyways
all this may be true but even if it is, who wants to be lining up in a queue waiting to talk to a bytch
it is what it is...if she feeling you she will respond more times.
i aint tryna be a c00n but i honestly have noticed non-black women are far more easy to make plans with and that they are cool doing basic shyt like going for walks, coffee etc. also the black women who are i find arent from toronto and are from smaller european/carribean cities and shyt
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