She probably didn't realize how utterly selfish this sounded.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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She probably didn't realize how utterly selfish this sounded.
Sounds like she’s already in the rotationOpinions? A potential rotation joint.
I’ve always been very insecure and hard on myself that I’ve never been in a real relationship lol. It’s not a great feeling know that I haven’t experienced someone fully committing to me.
I can mess around without it meaning anything, but sex is different. I want to have sex with someone when we are both on the same page about what we want. When I’ve had sex previously, I felt very used.
Because on a physical level, I enjoy sex. Emotionally, not so much
Didn’t smash, but got head & I haven’t spent any money on her.
Nkrumah Was Right
Superstar
Females don't drop everything for possible D. If the dude is not a known quantity and just has potential, he's always gonna be an option, not a priority.
But to make this sort of a mind bender...
Let's say you were looking for a 1997 Civic Si, STOCK.
You can find all types of civics. You can find 97 Civic Si's that have been ratted and modded out.
It's rare when you find an actual stock 1997 Civic Si.
To hear them tell it, that's how women's love lives are. All types of cars. All types of Black Men. All types of dudes in the age range they want.
All types of dudes with the looks.
When I find that car, I get on the phone, I talk to the seller, I drive out there to look at it.
Does she skip out on her BS to find out if this guy is a good deal?
No.
She let's work, friends, family, pets, not feeling like getting ready for a date - stop her from actually going after this thing that she might like.
This is her mentality
These are the people we're all dealing with.
Anytime you get ANY traction with a broad, SHE'S THE LUCKY ONE.
Cause she's seen what's out there, and 99.9% of it she's not interested in, the slightest.
Even if her interest is tepid by most accounts, that's the most she's getting VIA HER OWN DAMN CRITERIA.
WIA
Most women I know are just very bad at choosing partners.
I go on Hinge and after looking at their pictures I reflect on their occupation, job, education, their punctuation, how they narrate their interests etc. and then we talk about interesting subject matter to gauge their intelligence, sense of humour and interest.
I feel like most women are extremely bad at this and then they act surprised when their potential love interest is a fascist, is an unemployed rapper, is completely droll.
Most women I know are just very bad at choosing partners.
I go on Hinge and after looking at their pictures I reflect on their occupation, job, education, their punctuation, how they narrate their interests etc. and then we talk about interesting subject matter to gauge their intelligence, sense of humour and interest.
I feel like most women are extremely bad at this and then they act surprised when their potential love interest is a fascist, is an unemployed rapper, is completely droll.
Whenever I hear a woman says that she likes a funny guy, I understand that the part about him being physically/visually attractive is the part left unsaid.
That part that is assumed when they talk to each other, and should be presumed when you deal with them.
Woman
- "I'm a sapiosexual, and I like guys that are funny and intelligent" (and looks like Derrick Jaxn)
- "I know he's struggling right now, but he's artistic and caring" (and looks like Derrick Jaxn)
- "There's just something about him" (he looks like Derrick Jaxn)
- "He's smart, rich, and fun to be around, but I feel like I'm settling." (He doesn't look like Derrick Jaxn)
And as hard as that is, when she does find the unicorn - other requirements pop up.
This all leads back to something Patrice said. You can't make a woman happy.
How guys normally interpret this - You can't by doing things for her. So stop with all the flowers and candy and stuff.
But I've also seen that you can't by "being" either. You can be "that guy", and bag the chick on the front end, but then lose your mind on the back end.
I'd also add that many women can't make themselves happy either. Case in point is Cardi B's recent thought that she wish she didn't have all the money and fame, and wanted to go back to struggling. She got it all on her own, and it's still not enough.
Our idea of her happiness and her idea of it - is just somewhere out in the ether, intangible, and unknowable.
Nkrumah Was Right
Superstar
This is true. People will always wonder if they made the right choice in their relationships. This is especially true for women, I think in large part because they've been conditioned to listen to their emotive instincts rather than logic.
Unfortunately, dating women sometimes is like dealing with a child.
I had this exchange with a female friend one time:
- Her: I'm not happy in my relationship.
- Me: Oh, have you considered ending it?
- Her: It'd really hurt him...but I'm miserable.
- Me: You only have one life to live.
- Her: I don't know what to do!
Nowadays, I just feel sorry for the dudes these women are with. Nowadays, the conversation goes like this:
- Her: I'm not happy in my relationship.
- Me: That sucks. Well, you'll figure it out
Post Covid Effect is still popping.
Sundress season about to start.
Good time to be a Black Man
This is true. People will always wonder if they made the right choice in their relationships. This is especially true for women, I think in large part because they've been conditioned to listen to their emotive instincts rather than logic.
Unfortunately, dating women sometimes is like dealing with a child.
I had this exchange with a female friend one time:
- Her: I'm not happy in my relationship.
- Me: Oh, have you considered ending it?
- Her: It'd really hurt him...but I'm miserable.
- Me: You only have one life to live.
- Her: I don't know what to do!
Nowadays, I just feel sorry for the dudes these women are with. Nowadays, the conversation goes like this:
- Her: I'm not happy in my relationship.
- Me: That sucks. Well, you'll figure it out
women dont want you but they don't want anyone to have you as well
Brandsdale
Big Yella
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Dont stress about women leaving you on delivered. Dont stress about any woman
Use stress to motivate you to succeed. Women will follow. Quality women will follow
Don't listen to redpill nikkas
Use stress to motivate you to succeed. Women will follow. Quality women will follow
Don't listen to redpill nikkas
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Diablo >>>> Deez hoes
Keeping myself busy has done wonders for me. I'm having fun in life. So much that when women text me, im not stressing to immediately replyDiablo >>>> Deez hoes
Started doing this for the first time in my life this year. Results are satisfactory. I've lived it
Never let sex run your life brehs. Practice self-control. Dont hug lust. Flee from it. It's a distraction
Embrace your hygiene. It's not "manly" to spend 10 minutes washing your ass and getting ready
"Spending more than 15 minutes in the mirror is for women
"
Yea ok. While I fukk after the first date, you can get hooked by her saying she wants a 2nd date with you, then ghosts you
Also, be interesting. Alot of nikkas in general are boring af. Can't talk about anything but weed, sports, p*ssy, and their shytty job
Broaden your horizons, enjoy life, do your best to have a well rounded lifestyle. Women will flock. Game is game
"Spending more than 15 minutes in the mirror is for women
"Yea ok. While I fukk after the first date, you can get hooked by her saying she wants a 2nd date with you, then ghosts you
Also, be interesting. Alot of nikkas in general are boring af. Can't talk about anything but weed, sports, p*ssy, and their shytty job
Broaden your horizons, enjoy life, do your best to have a well rounded lifestyle. Women will flock. Game is game