A lot of women are just like hitler.
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A lot of women are just like hitler.
Nkrumah Was Right
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Don't abide by treaties, holding onto past traumas. Give them a inch they take a mile. Don't ever want peace will rather just blow ish up.
Tommy Lee Jones
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my homey just said a girl flaked on him a few weeks ago on hinge because she said she just started a new job and work got crazy. When they were gonna meet she asked to reschedule and just started hitting him up today.
Not that you should ever look too much into a womens actions but what are the likely scenarios here?
a. she is telling the truth and work was hetic
b. her other guy fell through
c. she got back on hinge and went back to her old matches
Not that you should ever look too much into a womens actions but what are the likely scenarios here?
a. she is telling the truth and work was hetic
b. her other guy fell through
c. she got back on hinge and went back to her old matches
Still play a lot of Tyrese, that's my childhood soundtrack
"that don't have to stop you from making late night phone calls, on the telephone, (lol) about ya fantasies and ways to get it on"
what's funny is I can see where 90's R&B and rap influenced my style and conversation, super romantic and R&B like, but a lot of that Mase smooth player shyt too lol
"that don't have to stop you from making late night phone calls, on the telephone, (lol) about ya fantasies and ways to get it on"
what's funny is I can see where 90's R&B and rap influenced my style and conversation, super romantic and R&B like, but a lot of that Mase smooth player shyt too lol
@Tommy Lee Jones
here's where you will get really conflicting advice. All depends on what your "goal" is, and your ego.
To me, if you want to look at like sales, this is an inbound lead, no more heavy lifting, just logistics. If she came back to him, there's a reason. To me, it doesn't matter why, not really, if she wanted to fukk with someone else, or had to tie off an ex boyfriend thread in her life, or really was telling the truth, I would be indifferent
BUT, to those who are very concerned about honor, and valor and such, they would probably feel slighted, and undervalued. Feel like they can't trust her. People have all kinds of rules, I don't think they help, but for some people, it makes it easier to made decisions to have some arbitrary set of rules.
here's where you will get really conflicting advice. All depends on what your "goal" is, and your ego.
To me, if you want to look at like sales, this is an inbound lead, no more heavy lifting, just logistics. If she came back to him, there's a reason. To me, it doesn't matter why, not really, if she wanted to fukk with someone else, or had to tie off an ex boyfriend thread in her life, or really was telling the truth, I would be indifferent
BUT, to those who are very concerned about honor, and valor and such, they would probably feel slighted, and undervalued. Feel like they can't trust her. People have all kinds of rules, I don't think they help, but for some people, it makes it easier to made decisions to have some arbitrary set of rules.
AStrangeName
Member of Snitch Syndication
Sounds like suicide bombers/kamikazes to me
Females don't drop everything for possible D. If the dude is not a known quantity and just has potential, he's always gonna be an option, not a priority.
But to make this sort of a mind bender...
Let's say you were looking for a 1997 Civic Si, STOCK.
You can find all types of civics. You can find 97 Civic Si's that have been ratted and modded out.
It's rare when you find an actual stock 1997 Civic Si.
To hear them tell it, that's how women's love lives are. All types of cars. All types of Black Men. All types of dudes in the age range they want.
All types of dudes with the looks.
When I find that car, I get on the phone, I talk to the seller, I drive out there to look at it.
Does she skip out on her BS to find out if this guy is a good deal?
No.
She let's work, friends, family, pets, not feeling like getting ready for a date - stop her from actually going after this thing that she might like.
This is her mentality
These are the people we're all dealing with.
Anytime you get ANY traction with a broad, SHE'S THE LUCKY ONE.
Cause she's seen what's out there, and 99.9% of it she's not interested in, the slightest.
Even if her interest is tepid by most accounts, that's the most she's getting VIA HER OWN DAMN CRITERIA.
WIA
There's an element that I never realized was so pronounced, like the idea that people were weighing potential dates as lifetime partners, I get surprised when people in this thread say that, or weighing the consequences of emotionally fraught and complicated situations (that haven't happened, and maybe/probably aren't likely to)
"what if we start dating, but my ex wants me back, but then he doesn't because of this guy"
it's called slippery slope thinking.
Always feel like they are just missing out, when it's me, because if nothing else, at least we had a good night together. And that to me, is valuable. But for other people it's less valuable. and of course the time, and optimization that has infected many people, as in, if I go on a date with you, I am wasting my time, because you may not want kids or whatever, while I could be out with this guy "who is looking for something serious".
I remember years ago this girl sending me this really long, and by some measures considerate text, and my response was equal to hers, but the whole time I was thinking, you don't want to get ice cream? That's all I texted her. It was like this whole screed about intentions, about things not being right with her, but we clearly were into each other on some level, we had been out. It struck me as so dramatic, like, we can't just go get ice cream?
there's even a line I remember where she was like "are you talking about dating?" and, that phrase is so loaded, and can mean like 5 different things, and what I wanted to reply was "I'm talking about getting ice cream" lol but I didn't. She obviously had some whole scenario in her mind, so to her, it was like a major decision, with all these potential consequences.
"what if we start dating, but my ex wants me back, but then he doesn't because of this guy"
it's called slippery slope thinking.
Always feel like they are just missing out, when it's me, because if nothing else, at least we had a good night together. And that to me, is valuable. But for other people it's less valuable. and of course the time, and optimization that has infected many people, as in, if I go on a date with you, I am wasting my time, because you may not want kids or whatever, while I could be out with this guy "who is looking for something serious".
I remember years ago this girl sending me this really long, and by some measures considerate text, and my response was equal to hers, but the whole time I was thinking, you don't want to get ice cream? That's all I texted her. It was like this whole screed about intentions, about things not being right with her, but we clearly were into each other on some level, we had been out. It struck me as so dramatic, like, we can't just go get ice cream?
there's even a line I remember where she was like "are you talking about dating?" and, that phrase is so loaded, and can mean like 5 different things, and what I wanted to reply was "I'm talking about getting ice cream" lol but I didn't. She obviously had some whole scenario in her mind, so to her, it was like a major decision, with all these potential consequences.
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One of the women on Hinge I've been talking to said she grabbed drinks with her coworker after work so she feels relaxed
I won't ask her if it was a guy or a girl (she's a pansexual
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What are yall thinking as you're reading this? I'm taking this girl out for coffee tomorrow. She seems very interested in the date and me. I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I'm already noticing some red flags wit her
She's cool as hell and has always been good to me. Just a solid, genuine woman
Might just fukk her mouth, friendzone her then add her on linkedin
I won't ask her if it was a guy or a girl (she's a pansexual
)What are yall thinking as you're reading this? I'm taking this girl out for coffee tomorrow. She seems very interested in the date and me. I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I'm already noticing some red flags wit her
She's cool as hell and has always been good to me. Just a solid, genuine woman
Might just fukk her mouth, friendzone her then add her on linkedin
Opinions? A potential rotation joint.
Didn’t smash, but got head & I haven’t spent any money on her.
I’ve always been very insecure and hard on myself that I’ve never been in a real relationship lol. It’s not a great feeling know that I haven’t experienced someone fully committing to me.
I can mess around without it meaning anything, but sex is different. I want to have sex with someone when we are both on the same page about what we want. When I’ve had sex previously, I felt very used.
Because on a physical level, I enjoy sex. Emotionally, not so much
I can mess around without it meaning anything, but sex is different. I want to have sex with someone when we are both on the same page about what we want. When I’ve had sex previously, I felt very used.
Because on a physical level, I enjoy sex. Emotionally, not so much
Didn’t smash, but got head & I haven’t spent any money on her.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
One of the women on Hinge I've been talking to said she grabbed drinks with her coworker after work so she feels relaxed
I won't ask her if it was a guy or a girl (she's a pansexual
What are yall thinking as you're reading this? I'm taking this girl out for coffee tomorrow. She seems very interested in the date and me. I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I'm already noticing some red flags wit her
She's cool as hell and has always been good to me. Just a solid, genuine woman
Might just fukk her mouth, friendzone her then add her on linkedin
why do you care about what she did with her co-worker?
Brandsdale
Big Yella
meh chics lie and inflate on the regularFemales don't drop everything for possible D. If the dude is not a known quantity and just has potential, he's always gonna be an option, not a priority.
But to make this sort of a mind bender...
Let's say you were looking for a 1997 Civic Si, STOCK.
You can find all types of civics. You can find 97 Civic Si's that have been ratted and modded out.
It's rare when you find an actual stock 1997 Civic Si.
To hear them tell it, that's how women's love lives are. All types of cars. All types of Black Men. All types of dudes in the age range they want.
All types of dudes with the looks.
When I find that car, I get on the phone, I talk to the seller, I drive out there to look at it.
Does she skip out on her BS to find out if this guy is a good deal?
No.
She let's work, friends, family, pets, not feeling like getting ready for a date - stop her from actually going after this thing that she might like.
This is her mentality
These are the people we're all dealing with.
Anytime you get ANY traction with a broad, SHE'S THE LUCKY ONE.
Cause she's seen what's out there, and 99.9% of it she's not interested in, the slightest.
Even if her interest is tepid by most accounts, that's the most she's getting VIA HER OWN DAMN CRITERIA.
WIA
“Leveling up” might just be her going from retail associate to a junior level job in an office with a salary finally. So now she’s shytting on the college frat boys she’s used to
These the same “corporate” chics that be mildly attractive but because bytch got some benefits, she feels like she’s Meg the Stallin or sum